Umubyeyi wese ashaka kurinda umwana wabo ububabare, gutenguha n'amakosa. Icyakora, abaterankunga b'imitekerereze bavuga ko, babujijwe abana kimwe, ntidukurikiza imigisha yabo, ahubwo dukurikiza ibinyuranye, tubabuza iterambere kandi tukaba utabizi. Nibyo, bigomba kuba imbogamizi zumvikana, ariko reka umwana wawe akiri muto, kandi azagushimira mugihe kizaza.
- Kuba byinshi
Abana bafite ikintu gitangaje cyo kubaza ikibazo gitunguranye mugice kidakwiye. Ntusuzugure umwana wawe. Izi isi, kandi arimo kwibaza byose, niyo usanga udafite akamaro.
Wigire hamwe
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Birumvikana ko bigoye icyarimwe humura amafi kandi usobanure ibyo umwobo wirabura uri mu kirere, ndetse niba utari ufite inyenyeri ku ishuri. Ariko uyu ni umugabane ukomeye. Wicare hamwe numwana ushakishe ibisubizo kubibazo bye muri encyclopedia. Munsize byinshi, ntibizaguka bidasubirwaho gusa, ahubwo bizana ibyawe. Byongeye kandi, ibyo byishimo nkibi bifasha gutondekanya cyane numwana, uzakomeza imyaka myinshi. Kuba ingimbi, urubyaro rwawe ntiruzongera kujya gushaka ibisubizo byinshuti mu gikari, ariko bizagusaba ubufasha.
- Kurira
Umugabo muto nta bunararibonye, ababara kandi barababaye kuruta umuntu mukuru. Gusa uhangane n'amarangamutima yawe, ntazi kubihisha. Muri icyo gihe, akenshi twumva: "Ikinini kinini, kandi gutontoma nk'umukobwa ni isoni." Kubera iyo mpamvu, umuhungu wawe wintwari ufunga kandi azihangana, nubwo yaba yarababaje, kuko ari isoni.
Fata ibyapa ku maboko yawe kandi utuze
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Itegereze n'umwana uko byagenze, bimufasha kurokoka ibyago by'abana, gutuza. Kurira ntabwo ari isoni rimwe na rimwe ndetse n'abantu bakuru.
- Kora urusaku
Ibyishimo by'abana birahita kandi bisakuza cyane ku buryo ushobora gukora. Birumvikana ko, niba umwana wawe azaba agaragara vuba cyane, yiruka ku magare ya metro, ntabwo akunda umuntu, ariko ahantu muri parike - kubera iki? Reka avunike, aririmba, aseka - afite ubwana nyabagirana, kandi afite uburenganzira kuri bwo.
Guseka hamwe n'umwana
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- Gira umwanya wawe
Umwana ntabwo ari umutungo wawe, ahubwo ni umuntu utandukanye, ibyo ababyeyi benshi bibagiwe. Afite uburenganzira bwo gutekereza, yanga ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose kandi akora ibyo ashaka. Umwana mukuru, niko ashaka kuba wenyine, arashobora no kugira amabanga nkawe. Wubahe umwanya we, bityo uzatsinda icyizere cyumwana.
Umwana ubwe arashobora guhitamo inshuti ze
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- Nabi
Umuntu wawe muto ni kwiga kubaho gusa, ntukabangamire, ugerageza kumukorera ikintu. Birumvikana ko uzitwikira abategetsi byihuse kandi ikomeye, ariko hari ingimbi itigeze iga kubikora mumyaka 12-14. Umwana wacu kubikorwa bibi cyangwa ibisubizo byatsinzwe, urashobora gukubita gusa icyifuzo cye cyo kugerageza gukora ikintu wenyine. Turashaka ko abana bacu biga mumakosa yabandi, ariko, ishyano, utabishyizemo ibiceri byabo, birashobora gutakaza byinshi mubuzima.
Reka umwana yibeshye
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