Iyo dusuzumye ibishushanyo byabana, amaso yihuta nkabana rimwe na rimwe yerekana papa na mama mu buryo butandukanye. Bibaho ko Mama kuri ibi bishushanyo agaragara igihangange kinini hamwe namaboko menshi, nka Shiva, na papa, na papa, bakururwa, bakururwa cyane kandi hafi yumwuka. Kandi ibi ntibitangaje, mumaboko ya ba nyina, imikorere nyamukuru yumuryango mubisanzwe yibanda, harimo uburere bwabakiri bato. Papa aryamye muri rusange inshingano yo gushyigikira amafaranga ya sosiyete.
Uyu munsi, imyifatire ku nshingano mumuryango irahinduka. Abagore barushaho kwigarurira imyanya mikuru, babona bihagije kandi ntibahora bafite amahirwe yo kwishora mumwana. Abagabo barushaho kwerekana gahunda kandi icyifuzo cyo kugira uruhare rugaragara mubuzima bwumwana wabo. Birumvikana ko iyo miryango, aho umwana wita ku bana aryamye ku mugore, ariko arashaka kwiyongera k'umugabo we muri iki gikorwa, kuko birashoboka gukura imico ihuriraho gusa mugihe ababyeyi bombi basezeranye uburere bwe. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa cyane kubamo papa wita kumwana kandi ubwumvikane bwayo kuva mugihe cyo kugaragara k'umucyo.
Olga Romaman
1. Ntugafate bose
Ivuka ry'umwana rishyiraho inshingano nyinshi kuri buri mugore, ndetse nubwo umunaniro ndetse no kwiheba nyuma yo kwiheba ndetse no gutabara nyuma yo kubyara, ntibashaka kubisangiza n'abagabo babo. Mubyukuri, abagabo bose ntabwo batwika bafite icyifuzo cyo kubyuka nijoro cyangwa kugaburira mu ruvange rw'ivanga, zigikenewe guteka, gukonjesha, gusuka mu icupa ryabanjirije. Abagabo nkabo bahora biteguye kururu rubanza urwitwazo ko mugitondo bakeneye kujya mubiro, aho bazabona amafaranga kumuryango wabo, kugirango bakeneye amasaha yose. Nkaho yari amaze kubyara umugore ntabwo yari akeneye. Birumvikana ko amafaranga arakenewe, kandi umugabo arahaguruka, ariko nyuma yakazi cyangwa muri wikendi ntukubuza kubizana ku mwana wawe. Koga, guhindura impapuro, kugenda - ugomba no kuruhuka, urarushye. Kubwibyo, ushiginze gushira amanga igice cyububasha bwanjye, kandi amwiyumve icyo kuba umubyeyi bisobanura. Byongeye kandi, gushiraho ibyiyumvo bya papa bibaho gusa mugihe Data amarana numwana.
2. Muganire kubibazo byose hamwe
Kurwana n'ijoro no kurakara ku manywa, amenyo, amenyo, amenyo, gusimbuka, ntagomba kubaka Komsomots-umukorerabushake. Ntukamurikire ingorane zawe, vuga umunaniro. Umugabo ubwe ntazakeka ko utoroshye kandi ukeneye ubufasha. Gusa arateguwe cyane: niba atavuga kuri icyo kibazo, azatekereza ko atari: urihe kandi mwiza cyane nibintu byose bahanganye. Kandi ibi sibyo - ukeneye impuhwe, ubufasha ninkunga.
3. Sangira amarangamutima meza
Umwana ntabwo ari ibibazo, ariko urukundo, umunezero n'ibyishimo. Witondere gusangira umugabo we umunezero numugabo we, kuko ari kukazi kandi byuzuye byibyishimo ntabwo bizi. Kubwibyo, kora amafoto ya Instagram gusa, ahubwo no kubwumwizerwa wawe - reka bishimishe, bibone ubwibone, ibyiza nibindi byishimo.
Gushiraho ibyiyumvo bya ba sogo bibaho gusa mugihe Data amarana numwana
Ifoto: Ibisobanuro.com.
4. Ntunenga
Birumvikana ko abagabo bakora ibibi. Ntabwo usenya indogobe yumwana hamwe na cream, ntukambare ingofero kumuhanda, ntabwo muri iyo mibare yasutse ku kwiyuhagira. Ariko nyoko ntabwo yavuze ko uramutse unenga umugabo, azareka gukora ikintu. Noneho rero, reka kubiba ibibi, gerageza ushake ubundi buryo bwo kwereka umugabo wawe, kuko bikwiye kumera neza, witonze, nta gushidikanya, urukundo.
5. Murakaza neza ubwigenge
Hagarika guhagarara inyuma ye witeguye kurwana, mugihe ahindura impapuro cyangwa yiyuhagira umwana: We ubwe yumva ko ari ngombwa kwitonda, hanyuma uzayirya ufite ubutwari. Reka duhindure umugabo we umudendezo, kora ikintu kugirango tutagomba guhangayika. Urareba, azaryohera kandi atangira gufata iyambere.
6. Gutera inkunga, guhimbaza, gushima umugabo wawe
Ubwa mbere, umugabo akeneye kumva ko uyishyigikira ko ibikorwa bye byose nibikorwa byawe, ukayubaha. Kandi ni ngombwa cyane kuvuga no gusingiza umugabo wawe. Politiki y'iburyo rero yashinzwe. Ntiwibagirwe kwishoramo n'umwana, baramuhindukirira, niyihe papa ukora neza kandi icyo ukeneye gufata urugero.
7. Kata umwanya hamwe
Ubundi buryo bwo gushishikariza no gushyiraho umubano wumuryango nigihembwe hamwe. Kenshi na kenshi, twe, abagore, twibanda ku mwana, kandi abagabo bumva ko nta mwanya muri iki gihe. Birasa nkaho babaho bitandukanye nawe n'umwana, kandi inshingano zabo ni ukuzana umushahara gusa muri clavier, kandi ibi ni bibi rwose. Urimo uhuze cyane - kuri wewe ni ko wita ku 1. Ariko nanone, kugirango wirinde umubano mwiza wumugabo ukundwa, ntugomba kwibagirwa no guhimba ikintu cyimyidagaduro ihuriweho - gusa.