"Imibonano mpuzabitsina kuri inshuro imwe cyangwa ebyiri ntabwo ishimishije," "NDASHAKA amanama y'igihe kimwe," kandi ayo magambo ameze nk'aho aboneka mu bibazo by'abagore. Biragaragara aho. Kandi kuri njye, aya magambo atesha agaciro kwandika, avuga.
Ibisobanuro byumvikana kandi byoroshye. Niba nahakanye ikintu, noneho ndabizi. Muri make, yahuye nkibyo kandi sinishimiye. Ubwe yandika byoroshye ko ntakunda igitunguru cyangwa amata. No kurwanya isura yabo mu buzima bwawe. Kandi umuntu ni allergic mubyiciro muri shokora cyangwa citrus. Kandi umuntu yirinda ibi bicuruzwa. Irinde, kuko nagerageje, kandi ingaruka ntabwo byari urubura!
Naho igitsina, nintege nke zo kwiyumvisha umugabo usanzwe - kuba afite ibitekerezo bikomeye mu mibonano mpuzabitsina - Ntabwo nashaka kongera kubishaka. Kandi neza numudamu umwe.
Kwandika abagore kubyerekeye "kwihitiramo", uko bigaragara, byahuye no kubura abafatanyabikorwa ako kanya nyuma y "ishyaka". Bitabaye ibyo, bari kwibanda ku nkana kuri iyi "ibyerekanwe". Ihangane, ariko umwanzuro ubwayo yerekana: Bisobanura ko bo ubwabo batari mumwanya wo guhuza ibitsina byiza bihagije.
Rero, ibibazo byabajijwe natwe ntibiterwa ningaruka zifatika, baravuga bati: Umugore yashizweho gusa kukintu kirekire. Kandi ukennye cyane: Birakwiye kumwitondera, ndetse no "imvugo ikomeye", niba imibonano mpuzabitsina na we, uko byagenda kose, ntibizaba byiza cyane.
Uzavuga uti: Bati, gutekereza n'ubuswa. Ahari. Ariko uhereye kubitekerezo byumugore. Kubwibyo, kuvuga nkana imyumvire y'abagabo. Byongeye kandi, ntabwo nizera imibonano mpuzabitsina imwe cyangwa kabiri, ariko nizera igitsina mbi. Kandi byose biremewe birabangamiwe, akenshi cyane muri bo no ku mutima w'ibyiyumvo birabya. Hamwe nubushuhe bwashizwemo, butangaje kuhira ubutaka bwimibanire ya hypothetil. Birumvikana, niba ushize utekereza, kandi ntabwo ari ishusho ishimishije dusobanura umufasha.
Kandi yego, uburyo bwumvikana, kimwe no guhitamo binyuze kubihakana, ntibikora mumarangamutima. Ikora umuyoboro, fleur, nk'abatibagiwe no kumva. Kandi urutonde ntizihanganira imipaka, cyane cyane, kure cyane, kandi nazo zitwita.