Nshuti bakobwa, ntabwo nzakugaburira no kwibeshya, kuvuga ko hari formulaire runaka (cyangwa uburyo bwo gukora), gusaba ibihe kandi iteka ryose kandi iteka ryose rikuraho amahirwe yo guhemukira abo mudahuje igitsina. Ntabwo! Iyi formula, ikibabaje, ntikibaho, bitabaye ibyo byaba bihagije kwiga no gufunga ikibazo iteka. Ariko ntibisobanura ko ugomba kwicara no gutegereza, "" uzakujyana ", bitandukanye nabandi bakobwa bamaze guhura n'iki kibazo, cyangwa ntabwo.
Nibyo, nta formulaire nkiyi ishobora kurinda rwose mubihe kugirango uhinduke, ariko hariho inzira runaka izagabanya iherezo ryiki kibazo, tuzavugana nawe uyu munsi. Komeza rero.
Icy'ingenzi kandi cyane, ibikurikira gusobanukirwa, ibi nibyo umugabo atajya kuri uriya mugore mwiza cyane, uzi ubwenge cyangwa slimmer (kuri we ibipimo ngenderwaho ntagira uruhare runini). Asiga muri leta ko ahuye iruhande rwawe. Nibyo, yego, ntibikwiye gutungurwa, ni ukuri kwera. Umugabo ava mu wundi mugore, aragusiga, ibuka iyi kanya. Kuva hano hari ingaruka zose.
Umugabo yagiye muyindi, ariko avuye muri leta ko ahuye iruhande rwawe
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Nyamuneka menya neza, simvuze kuri abo bagabo bataragera kandi "bahindura abakobwa bancy." Mu bihe nk'ibi, wari umaze kwishingikirizaho, kandi ukuri kugambanira bizabera uko byagenda kose, bityo ni ngombwa cyane guhitamo neza mubuzima bwawe. Noneho, bakobwa, niba umugabo wawe ari umusore ukomeye kandi ufite inshingano, noneho urashobora guhindura ibintu ko ahuye nawe.
Reka duhangane nuburyo bwo kubikora:
1. Kugaragara-kwibwe. Byakagombye kumvikana ko abagabo mubyukuri ari urwego runini rwamashusho. Mbere ya byose, bareba "ishusho", isura yumugore hanyuma gusa - kubigize imbere. Kamere rero iratunganijwe. Abakobwa benshi batekereza ko iyo umubano wabo wahinduye urwego rwo hejuru, urashobora kuruhuka no kugendana namanuka, wibagiwe byoroshye amavuta yo kwisiga, wibagiwe buri gihe kubijyanye no kwisiga, kwibagirwa buri gihe kubyerekeye kwisiga, kwibagirwa buri gihe kubyerekeye kwisiga, kwibagirwa buri gihe kubijyanye no kwisiga, kwibagirwa ibintu, kuko tumaze gukundwa. Birumvikana ko abakobwa beza, birumvikana ko utazareka gukunda, ariko bigenda bite muriki kibazo? Ibintu byose biroroshye, umugabo wawe haba bucece atangira kureba abandi bagore (bigaragara cyane kukurusha), cyangwa ngo atakaza inyungu zawe nkumugore, kandi ntuzongera kunezeza. Kubwibyo, niba ari ngombwa kugirango uhora wifuzwa numuntu wawe, gerageza kuba mumajwi kandi ntukirengagize, wihishe hamwe nabana, gukora kukazi.
Gerageza kuzigama urukundo mubucuti
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2. Igitsina. Abakobwa, ubwawe kubibazo bikurikira: Waba ufite ibihe nkibi mugihe umugabo wawe yaguhaye gufata imifuka yawe nibicuruzwa byawe, ukamuha, ukamuha gusobanukirwa nibyo dukunda? Wafashe inyundo mu mikorere yawe yo gutanga amasoko kugirango utange umusumari? Wigeze ugaragaza robine mugikoni cyangwa mubwiherero? Noneho tekereza neza umbwire mugihe wakoze ibi byose, wigeze wumva umeze nkabakunzi bato kandi witonda? Birumvikana ko atari byo! Ariko ibi nibyingenzi cyane, kuba mubucuti numuntu, kwerekana igitsina cyawe, byoroshye, guhagarika umutima kugirango umuntu ukunda yumve ko umuntu uri iruhande rwawe. Ntugaragaze imbaraga zose ko uri umugore ukomeye kandi urashobora kubyutsa kg 10-20 kurutoki rumwe. Nibyiza kwerekana ko uri umwitonda, ikintu cyoroshye gikeneye imbaraga zumugabo. Reka twumve umusore wawe ko utamufite ntuzahanganira umurimo uwo ariwo wose aho imbaraga z'umubiri zisabwa, hanyuma umuntu wawe azabona umukobwa witonda ushaka gukunda no kurinda.
3. Kwiteza imbere. Bikunze kubaho, abakobwa bagwa mu rukundo bakundana numusore wabo bagatangira kubitsinda, bibagirwa ubwabo nkumuntu utandukanye. Ntukore. Niba umuntu umwe akura mubucuti, naho kabiri ari aho, bidatinze cyangwa nyuma bazahagarika ubwo buzima butunganijwe. Kubwibyo, kugirango udafite ibi, kora ibintu byawe byimbere, kuzuza. Umugabo wawe agomba kwibaza nawe. Tangira gusoma ibitabo byingirakamaro, kwishora mu mahugurwa, amahugurwa, amahugurwa, iyandikishe yoga, kubyina cyangwa siporo. Muyandi magambo, kora bishoboka kwiteza imbere no gukora imico ishimishije muri wewe.
Witondere kwiteza imbere
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4. Kwemererwa. Niba wabanje gutangira kubaka umubano numusore wawe kugirango "uyisobanure" mugihe kizaza, noneho iri ni ikosa rikomeye. "Kumena" umuntu nka kamere kuri wewe, azabigeraho. Kumutera kujya kuri uwo kumukunda nkuko bimeze - na yego. Unkore ngo nicuze ko yakurongoye - byanze yego. Ariko kora igitekerezo cyawe - Iki nikintu kiva mubyiciro byimpimbano. Kubwibyo, umugabo agomba gufata uko ari, cyangwa kutabana na gato. Nta yindi. Niba wahisemo inzira yambere, uba wibagiwe kugereranya umusore wawe hamwe nundi muntu. Hagarika "gukata" kuri buri mwanya (usanga akazi keza, utere byibuze imyanda, ntushobora ikintu icyo aricyo cyose, nibindi). Ahubwo, werekane umugabo wawe nkuko mukunda kandi yiteguye kuyishyigikira mubihe byose. Ati: "Inkunga" - Ibi ntibisobanura kubona akazi ku mirimo 3 kandi irimo umuryango wose mugihe afite ibihe bigoye. Ibuka ikintu cya 2, aho twavugaga hejuru - "igitsina gore"? "" Inkunga "bisobanura kuba hafi y'umugabo wawe, ukizera, kuba icyare cyoroshye kandi cyoroheje, aho ashaka ko" imisozi ishaka "gutsinda"
5. Umwanya wawe. Hariho icyiciro cyabagore bagenzura buri ntambwe yumugabo wabo (SMS, guhamagara, kugenzura, nibindi). Iyi myitwarire ni ikimenyetso cyerekana kwihesha agaciro hasi no kutizera icyizere cyatoranijwe. Bitinde bitebuke, umugabo wawe ararambiwe kwitangazamakuru kawe kandi ashaka guhumeka ihumure ahantu hamwe numukobwa wiyizera (by'agateganyo cyangwa ubuziraherezo cyangwa ubuziraherezo cyangwa ubuziraherezo cyangwa ubuziraherezo cyangwa iteka). Kugira ngo ibyo bitabaho, dukeneye kwibuka ko buri muntu agomba kugira umwanya wihariye. Umubano ukomeye ukomeye ushingiye cyane cyane ku kwizerana. Kubwibyo, ntugomba guhora ukeka uwo ukunda mubintu, ahubwo, reka yumve ibyo ukunda kandi umwizere.
Ihumure mu nzu ni ngombwa
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6. Ihumure mu nzu. Umuntu wese arashaka kuhagera, aho umugore wuje urukundo amutegereje, munzu yubunebwe, hamwe nifunguro rishyushye inyuma yimbonerahamwe. Bigenda bite mumyitozo? Umusore ageze murugo, imbere ye yicaye ku buca urubozo, arakaye, inzu yose iratatanye, ifunguro rya nimugoroba ntizashyuha. Yarushye yicaye ku meza, kandi muri iki gihe hari ibibazo byinshi byabaye mu nkuru z'umugore we. Ni iki umuntu kiba mu mutwe muri kano kanya? Igihe cyose abuze icyifuzo cyo gutaha, kandi ahora atangira gushakisha impamvu zo gutinda kukazi. Kubwamahirwe, nzi imiryango myinshi nkiyi, kandi birababaje cyane. Twebwe abagore, dukwiye kuba umunyabwenge muto, gerageza tutagera tuganire kubibazo biri kumeza yo kurya. Hura numugabo wawe kumwenyura mumaso yawe, vuga ikintu gishimishije. Mumuhe impamvu yo kwishima, izuba muriyi glossy nuko umugabo wawe ashaka gusubira mu rugo aho ari mwiza kandi neza.
7. Kurebera. Abakobwa, ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina mubashakanye nabo bagira uruhare runini. Buri gihe ushimirwe kumugabo wawe, ntukihane mumyenda y'imbere, kora ibintu byose kugirango wirebere mu ndorerwamo ukabona umukobwa utangaje. Ntabwo mvuga ku mahame y'ubwiza, aho ugomba kuba 90-60-90, ufite umusatsi muremure, ufite isura ndende, hamwe n'amaso y'amaso meza - oya. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko wakunze. Noneho kuruhande rwumuntu wawe uzumva ufite icyizere kandi ubohore. Azumva rwose kandi azishimira.
Ibi nibihe byingenzi, kwitegereza ushobora kugwiza umubano wawe mubihe bivuye kumukunzi wawe. Nizere ko ingingo yanjye yari ingirakamaro kuri wewe. Ishimire!