Nkuko tumaze kuvuga, ubuzima bwuzuye bwo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo bwihanganira kurambirwa, bityo ubundi bushakashatsi butandukanye muburiri bwakiriwe neza abafatanyabikorwa bombi bemera. Twize ibyifuzo byabagabo bizwi byiteguye kuvuga.
Igitsina Cyama
Nk'abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bemeza, ibitekerezo nk'ibi akenshi birahimba cyane mu bagabo bamaze igihe kinini mu mibanire, bigafatanya na mugenzi we n'ibyo akunda, ndashaka ikintu gishya n'ijambo. Muri uru rubanza, umufatanyabikorwa arashobora gutangira gutekereza ko mu buriri bwabo hamwe nigice cya kabiri gishobora kugaragara icya gatatu, nkitegeko, tuvuga umugore, kubera ko abagabo benshi bafite ikibazo cyuko umugore wabo azatunga undi, Nubwo hariho n'izi manza. Niba umufatanyabikorwa agutumiye gutandukanya ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina muri ubu buryo, ntibisobanura ko yagukundaga, ntabwo rero akwiriye kubahisha, muganire niba witeguye gushyira mubikorwa ibitekerezo nkibi. Niba igitekerezo cyo guhuza ibitarane bigira igicucu cyo guhangayikishwa, ugomba kuvugana ninzobere.
Emera interuro yumugabo niba wowe ubwawe ushaka
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Kwiyegurira no kuyobora
Igishimishije, ingingo yo kuganduka no gutegeka ni abantu bakuze benshi, mugihe urubyiruko rutagira ishyaka ryinshi kuri iki kibazo. Abasore, ahubwo, guhindura mugenzi, niba ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina butangiye guhagarara, mugihe umuntu ukuze afite icyifuzo kinini cyo kugenzura umugore we. Nibyo, abagore bahitamo kwigarurira amaboko barabonetse, ariko na gato. Icy'ingenzi: Niba utiteguye ubushakashatsi hamwe no guhambira, kuganduka no gutotezwa, kureka icyifuzo cy'umuntu, uko yabajije icyifuzo cyo gute - igitsina kitagomba gutanga amarangamutima mabi.
Zana umufatanyabikorwa kuri orgasm nyinshi
Kimwe mu bitekerezo byinshi byoroheje, ukurikije imibonano mpuzabitsina. Abagabo bakemurwa mumitekerereze yikibazo hamwe no kutumva neza umugore: Umugabo yiteze ko umufatanyabikorwa witabira cyane inzira, kugirango yerekane ko ashishikajwe nigitsina muri rusange, ariko mubyukuri umugabo aje muburyo butandukanye bwumugore utandukanye - kutita kubantu, igitsina, nk'ubwitange. Byongeye kandi, abagore benshi bari muri ruhame bafite ibibazo nubwo na orgasm imwe, aribwo ivuga kubyerekeye benshi-Ikirusiya. Ibihe nkibi birashobora gutsimbataza ikibazo gikomeye mumuntu, cyane cyane niba akunze kumva kubantu bamenyereye kubyerekeye intsinzi yabo muburiri.
Voheurism
Mubashakanye benshi, ndetse nibitekerezo ntabwo byakirwa neza ko ibirenze kimwe cya gatatu bishobora kugaragara mumibanire yabo. Ariko, icyifuzo cyo kwitegereza kuruhande rwumugore we kibangamiwe mubagabo benshi. Erekana gusa ko umuntu aryamana numugore uri kuri we gusa, umugabo arimo amarangamutima atpfo, nkuko ategeka, ntaho ahuriye. Ariko, akenshi umugabo ntakemura ikibazo nkurwo gutinya gutakaza igice cye cya kabiri, ariko ntamuntu ubuza, sibyo?
Imibonano mpuzabitsina itunguranye
Cyangwa igitsina urashobora kugufata. Ibi birashobora kuvugwa kugirango ushake gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ahantu rusange cyangwa gusura akarere k'undi, aho hari amahirwe menshi yo gufatwa "aho icyaha cyakorewe." Bamwe mu bahanga mu by'imitekerereze bemeza ko mubyukuri umugabo ufite impungenge zinzozi zidashimishije cyane, mbega ukuntu bikurura ibitekerezo no gushaka kwerekana abandi ko ashobora kwinjiza umugore we kuryamana no ahantu hatameze neza.