Mugibano ntihagomba kuba umuyobozi numucakara, ubundi igihe utazaroherwa no kubana numuntu utakubona ko angana, kandi ashyira hejuru cyangwa hepfo cyangwa hasi. Kugira ngo wige kandi icyarimwe, buriwese akeneye gukora imyumvire ye - ntabwo buri gihe biba mugihe cyingimbi. Abantu bakuru benshi babaho badafite ibitekerezo byabo kubibazo byambere kandi ntibashishikajwe nibyo mugenzi wabo atekereza kuri ibi. Irasaba gukemura ikibazo, guhindura cyane uburyo gakondo.
Vuga ibintu by'ibanze
Uzi amateka yuwo ukunda - uburyo yakuriye, yize ku ishuri na kaminuza, ni ubuhe bwoko butatsinzwe kandi bunoze bwarokotse? Abantu benshi bafite ikiganiro gihagije kubibazo byo murugo no kuganira kuri gahunda kumunsi kugirango bashyireho igika cya "Itumanaho", nubwo imikoranire ya hafi bidashoboka rwose guhamagara. Twanditse ibikoresho bifite urutonde rwibibazo byingenzi kugirango tuganire kubibazo - shaka hano kandi ubisubize nabafatanyabikorwa kugirango wumve ukuntu abantu basa cyangwa batandukanye. Wige ibi kandi ukore gufunga ibirahure ni ngombwa byibuze kugirango urebe neza ko uwo ukunda kandi usobanukirwe ko ari ngombwa kuri we mubuzima kandi niba intego zayo zihuriye.
menyana mugihe cyo kuganira
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Akazi hamwe no kwihesha agaciro
Nigute amakimbirane akemura abantu bafite imitekerereze myiza? Ntibazabizana cyane, bakemerera gutaka kumuntu, no gutanga bucece kuvuga kubyo bakubangamiye. Abantu bakora iki nibibazo bigaragara? Bagerageza kuzana umuntu wamakimbirane, basubiramo amarangamutima mabi kubera gutaka, gutatanya ibintu, iterabwoba nibindi bigaragaza kudakura. Kwisuzuma ni ikintu kigena: Umuntu muzima asa naho avuga ati: "Nubaha imipaka yanjye, bivuze ko nubaha n'imbibi zawe." Iyo unyuzwe n'ubuzima bwanjye, kubandi bantu ubanje gushyiraho neza, bivuze ko bakwemera kandi bakumva ko bashobora gutandukana nawe.
Ntukegere kuruziga rwawe
Inshuti nyinshi uzagira, umubabaro wagutse nicyerekezo cyisi kizaba. Uzasobanukirwa ko twese dutandukanye - buriwese afite amateka yabo nubuzima bwa peripetika, kugirango utange ibyo, kureba umuntu, rimwe na rimwe ntibishoboka. Imyitozo yo gushyikirana nabantu bahuje ibitsina, imyaka, imibereho, imyumvire, ni ubundi bigufasha gukuraho ibinyoma. Urumva ko abantu bose bafite uburenganzira ku ntege nke, amakosa namakosa, kandi icyarimwe bafite uburenganzira bwo gukora aya makosa no mubyifuzo byabo ntabigizemo uruhare. Iyo wizize inkuru zabandi, bizakorohera kumva uwo mukundana no gusobanura ubwawe kuruta uko bishobora gushishikarizwa nibikorwa bye nimyitwarire ye.
kuba intera rimwe na rimwe bifite akamaro
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Witondere ubuzima bwawe
Gukundana numuntu, nuko nshaka ko imiryango ari muri we imizi hanyuma ihambire wenyine, ariko ntukihutire kubikora. Muri societe yacu ubu twimura igitekerezo cyiza kivuga ko abafatanyabikorwa mubumwe batagomba kwicana umwanya wawe bwite - kwiga ibi. Buri wese muri mwe agomba kugira amasomo yabo, yifuzwa ku biro bitandukanye mu nzu n'amahirwe yo kujya mu kiruhuko ukwabo wenyine cyangwa n'inshuti. Kuba kure, urashobora kureba umubano kuruhande no gusesengura ko muhura numuntu. Byongeye kandi, ibyo ukunda hamwe nibice byibikorwa bigufasha kwegeranya amakuru ashobora guhanahana amakuru no kutarambirwa itumanaho. Ntabwo ari ubudozi bwa televizifu rya TV TIMANELO, buvuga ngo "umuntu umugabo ari isoko yamakuru" - interuro ishoboye cyane.