Byemezwa ko niyo umuntu adahindutse mubyukuri, birashoboka ko yabikoze mubitekerezo bye. Hariho ubuhemu rimwe kandi mubyukuri, ariko abantu nkabo bakora ubuhemu bahura nakazi ka kabiri guhura.
Nk'uko inzobere mu rwego rw'Imibonano mpuzabitsina, umugabo ahora ari njye ubwato bw'ubuhemu - kuba umugore we, cyangwa wenyine. Yahoraga yizera ko yananiwe kubahiriza umugore, kandi aramutse ahinduye, nta rwitwazo yari afite yo gutsindishirizwa.
Ariko hariho izindi ngingo zibona, kurugero, abahanga mu bya psychologue bemeza ko ikintu cyose kiri mu myitwarire yumuntu: Hariho ubwoko bumwe bukunda "kureba ibumoso" kenshi. Nubwo bimeze bityo, abagabo bagabanijwemo ubwoko bwinshi kuruta abagore.
Ubuhemu bw'abagabo bumeze neza muri societe
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1. Umugabo ufite crochet
Umugabo nkuyu yiyizeye muri we, azi kwegera umugore. Mubisanzwe ajyana na kimwe cya kabiri, umugore nta nubwo afite umwanya wo gutekereza no gufata icyemezo. Ntakintu gitangaje ko rimwe na rimwe umugabo afite abagore benshi icyarimwe. Ntabwo ashishikajwe n'urukundo, kandi ntiwumva akunda umugore, kuko ari we urukundo bisobanura kubungabunze umudendezo.
Kubwibyo, ntakintu na kimwe adafite inshingano. Umugabo nkuyu arashobora kugira umuryango utazabangamira rwose. Abamuhugu ba psychologue bemeza ko umugabo agerageza gushimangira atyo, yerekana ko ashoboye cyane.
2. nyakubahwa
Uyu mugabo ni nkigikorwa cyibikorwa kuri kiyinjirije, ariko ubuziranenge ni ngombwa kuruta ubwinshi. Abagore bose ashyira ijisho nibyiza bidasanzwe. "Abahohotewe" bahinduka, nk'ubutegetsi, ndetse n'abagore bakorera cyane kandi bakumvikana, cyangwa bamwe ba Narciss Egoist. Umugabo arashobora no kurushaho guhatana numugore mubafatanyabikorwa, kandi bombi bazabitegura. Iyo "akina", agacecekeye yasubiye mu muryango ategereza akandikira umudamu ukurikira w'umutima, ukeneye gutsinda.
Abagore bamwe biragoye kubyanga
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3. Narcissus
Uyu mugabo akunda wenyine. Kubwibyo, akeneye umugore nkuyu gushima kandi asingiza impano nubwiza bwe. Ntabwo yemera igice cya kabiri: abagore mu "isi" be ni beza cyangwa biteye ubwoba, arahitamo, nkuko ubyumva, ubwoko bwa mbere. Byongeye kandi, umugore ntagomba kuba adahwema gutegerejwe hanze kugirango yinjire mubyiciro bya kabiri, birahagije gushidikanya kudasanzwe.
Niba ahisemo umugore, agomba kubatishoboye, kuko ari ngombwa gukeka ibyifuzo byumukunzi gusa nukureba. Umugore mubuzima bwumugabo nkuwo abaho "kumatiku." Ariko, akeneye umugore we gutsindishiriza ubukangurambagaye ibumoso, asobanura ko atagize amahirwe n'umugore we.
4. Umugabo muburyo bwose
Birashoboka cyane "gukundwa". Yatsindishinze ubuhemu bwe kuba ari ubuke bwinshi, bityo umugore umwe ntahagije. Ni ngombwa kuri we ko bazatekereza kandi bazabwira inshuti ze "mu matwi" y'amateka y'amabara y'urukundo. Ibyo akunda umuntu nkuyu biroroshye cyane: siporo, guhiga, kuroba, guterana ninshuti.
Igitangaje ni uko uyu mugabo atinya gutakaza umuryango we, ni ko byoroshye kuyanywa ngo ayita, kugira ngo atigeze atekereza ku "buryo bunoze."
5. Umukunzi ureba
Uyu mugabo ahagarushanwa nabantu bose muri byose: kuri we umunezero wo guhangana numugore we na nyirabuja, hanyuma urebe ibizaba. Ahari ibintu nkibi mugihe agerageje guhatanira umugabo we nyirabuja. Byongeye kandi, azishima n'umukunzi we, kuko yari afite uwo bahanganye.
Bite se ku bagore?
1. Umwamikazi
Nubwo yaba afite umuryango mwiza, umugore nkuyu azaba ashakisha Iteka kumuntu mwiza. Ibitekerezo bye byose bishora mu kuvura Salon, yoga, amavuta yo kwisiga na Wardrobe. Yikubitire umugabo we, bityo ntazatuza kugeza asanze byibuze umukunzi mwiza.
2. Amateur adventure
Bitandukanye n'ubwoko bwabanjirije, uyu mugore afitanye isano n'umugabo we. Ikibazo nuko bishobora kubabaza rero rero ni ugushaka cavalier kugirango imyidagaduro. Ntabwo agiye kubaka umubano wigihe kirekire, ashishikajwe no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina gusa, bityo amahitamo ye ahitamo abagabo nta kubitsa byubwenge.
Umugore akomeza kugambanira, niba mu bwana bwe yigishijwe kumvira
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3. Biragoye kuvuga "Oya"
Aba bagore barasobanutse neza. Ntabwo bahinduka kuko bashaka, ariko kubera ko bahura nintege nke imbere yumuntu hejuru yayo. Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, imyitwarire nkiyi yashinze imizi kuva mu bwana igihe umukobwa yigishijwe ko ireme rye ryibanze ari ukumvira. Ubu bwoko bwabagore bukunze kuboneka mu myuga nkumunyamabanga windege, umunyamabanga, umwarimu numuforomo.