Nkuko nabinditse muri blog yabanjirije iyi, ivuka ryumwana yampinduye umuringaniru. Ongeraho kuri iyi nkoni yatsinze Plactin, kandi muri rusange, gushushanya ifoto. Ariko nari mfite inshingano rero, nyuma y'ibyumweru bitatu nyuma yo kubyara, nagaragaye mu biro. Ndashaka kuvuga ko njye, kurira kandi ntamubyeyi ukiri muto cyane wagabanijwe mu biro by'ibyishimo by'abakozi, ariko oya, umuzimu mwinshi kandi ushakishwa cyane no gusinziriye no guswera inda ye ku ngingo , niba ibyo birwa byagarutse. Ntiyagarutse, abatari bazi ko nzabyara, nsaba igihe harabaye ikintu gishimishije, nko kuntera kwiheba. Ariko ubuzima bwaratekaga, kandi umurimo urakomeza. Umuyoboro gusa wahinduye nyirubwite nyuma yinama yambere namenye ko ntazakora, ariko twari mfata ingamba zo gutera inkunga, namenyesheje abaterankunga, namenyesheje abaterankunga, namenyesheje abaterankunga, namenyesheje umuyobozi mushya, namenyesheje amategeko, namenyesheje umuyobozi mushya, namenyeshejwe umuyobozi mushya navuyemo nyuma ya Premium, kandi yizihiza mu rwego rwo kwitegura. Ubuyobozi ntibwamwemera, kandi nongeye kubura iminsi n'ijoro mu biro. Sereda, yabuze iminsi, nijoro yavugije induru ya Philipper-Alegizandere mu ntoki, igifu cye, nticyasinziriye kandi gishaka ku mirimo yabo. Kandi ibi nubwo twagize nanny. Amezi atatu yambere umwana ntiyasinziriye nijoro na gato, gusa mu biganza bye gusa, kandi biva mu inararibonye yanjye, nk'uko natekerezaga ko nyina. Nahoraga nishimiye ko imfura umuhungu wanjye yasinziriye ku munsi wa mbere mu buriri bwe kandi ko ntakeneye kumukuramo mu maboko cyangwa kumuhagurura inshuro 10 mu ijoro. Natanze inama kubakobwa bakobwa, uburyo bwo kwigisha umwana gusinzira wenyine, nanditse umutwe wanjye, niga ko undi mama yitanze akishyiraho munsi yigitanda, bityo bikaba byaranze rwose Witegure ko umwana wanjye wenyine azahinduka umwana asangiye ibitekerezo byanjye byose bijyanye no kurera abana muri fluff numukungugu.
Guhera kuri saa munani z'umugoroba, atangira kurira, tukayambara mu maboko, nuko yirukana kandi yibagirwa ibitotsi bituje. Byari byiza kugerageza kubishyira cyangwa byibuze bicara, yahise akingura amaso, hanyuma afungura umunwa munini wijimye kandi asohora igihe kirekire "A asohora" igihe kirekire "umusirikare wahise usetsa kandi yongera gucika intege mucyumba. Nyuma y'ukwezi, wasangaga muri Arizona, cyangwa i Washington, kandi ameze nabi icyumweru, uko nkeka, gusinzira. Twagumanye n'umudayimoni hamwe na Filipo turadusumba hamwe na we: igice cya mbere cyijoro - kuri njye, uwa kabiri - kuri we. Nyuma yigihe runaka naretse, nuko atura mu buriri bwanjye, aho naryamye igihe nsinziriye, kubyuka ibiryo gusa. Sinzi uko byashobokaga kwirinda ibi, ariko aturayo igihe kirekire kandi kugeza ku myaka ye yane, ntiyashobokaga kubimenya. Kuva kera cyane, yarariye nijoro, aranywa, hanyuma aranyerera, hanyuma binezeza mu buryo bw'ibibazo mu ijoro "Mama, uri hano, urimo ukora iki?" Cyangwa "Mama, Nsoma." Ku myaka 4, umugabo yaramufunguye byimazeyo. Oya, ntabwo ari mucyumba gitandukanye, ariko byibuze mu buriri butandukanye. Nkuko byagenze - ingingo itandukanye, kandi nzabibwira rwose, guhagarika kwa nyuma muri maruma yanjye byabaye muri Philipper-Alexandre gusa mumirenge 6 nigice gusa. Hano ndashobora kuvuga ngo "ntugasubiremo amakosa yanjye", niba mubyukuri, ntabwo nzaba ubwenge, nkuko ushobora kubyirinda, kuko "usige umwana gutaka" ntabwo ari amahitamo yanjye na gato.
Nibyiza, nongeye gukora mama: kuza kwanjye kwanjye, numvise ko "na Filipo na none bize gukomeza umutwe we," kandi "uyu munsi bahindukiriye", "uyu munsi yahindutse". " Hamwe n'umuhungu w'imfura, ntabwo nari mfite amahitamo "ntakora" cyangwa byibuze kujya mu itegeko, ku ivuka ry'Umwana ryahuriyenye no gutandukana, bityo byari ngombwa kubaho, ariko bibaye kumwe na Filipo ibintu byose byari bitandukanye . Natahuye ko ntazanyemerera kujya mu iteka ryose kandi burimunsi nari nkomeye ko icyemezo cyo kugenda nyuma yigihembo nicyo cyonyine cyukuri.
Hanyuma haza Mata. Nkuko abanyamakuru bose banditse, rwose byabaye ibintu byukuri muri uwo mwaka kandi, wenda, kubwumwuga bwose. Ndacyishimira ikipe yanjye, nanjye ubwanjye nakazi. Ibyiyumvo bivanze cyane byari kuri njye nimugoroba, numvise ko aricyo kintu cyiza nakoze, ariko iyi niyo yanyuma. Kumva cyane. Namwenyuye iburyo nibumoso, mpita kuri kamera, urebye inyenyeri zose, abanyamakuru ninshuti, tekereza umubare muribo bari kuzimira mubuzima bwanjye mugihe cyo kuza ejo. Nagiye ku cyemezo cyanjye gusa. Gukora imbere bizavuga ko byibuze nari niteguye ko terefone yanjye yafata guhamagara cyane, ariko rwose ntabwo nari niteguye ko ntagishoboye guhamagara. Nibyiza kandi ko mumyaka yumurimo nababaje intwaro, mpimbanoga ikintu cyo kubabaza kandi ntibishoboka kubabaza. Kandi natangajwe nibyo abantu nagize ku cyiciro cy'inshuti zabuze. Nari niteze ko ibi bivuye mu rwabanyamakuru n'abanyamakuru, kubera ko nta bucuti yari ahari, kandi twari dukeneye gutontoma mu nshuti zawe byari bitangaje. Ariko nasanze byinshi mubuzima bwanjye nakoze neza, kuko nakomeje umubano mwiza nabanyamakuru benshi, abafotora n'abahagarariye ubuzima bwiza, ariko umubano mwiza nubucuti bwiza ntabwo arikintu kimwe. Ariko uwo mugoroba, sinigeze mbizi kandi nkishimira umunsi wanyuma wakazi.
Bukeye, nazanye itangazo ryerekeye kwitaho. Ubuyobozi ntabwo bwaribwe, bwemeza ko ndi Umukerari, ariko nashakaga kubaho ubuzima bwanjye. Kugira ngo ube mama umenye uburyo umwana wanjye akura kuva nanny nziza ku isi, ariko umuntu menshi. Nabuze cyane amezi ane y'ubuzima bwe buke, nuko mfata umwanzuro nshimangiye ko imyaka ibiri mfite uburenganzira bwo kugerageza kuba umugore wanjye gusa na mama.
Ntabwo twigeze dufata ibyemezo ku isi mu kindi gihugu. Twahisemo ko icyi gikoresha kuri rohodes, hanyuma uhitemo aho ujya. Kubwibyo, nta gutekereza ntatekereje, gukusanya abana no gupakira amavalisi, twe, nkinyoni zimuka, ziramba. Biragoye kubivuga, nabikora nonaha, kuko icyo gihe sinzi icyo mva i Moscou niba atari ibihe byose, noneho birebire. Ntabwo nigeze nkwihanganira kuva aho ukorera, oya kubyerekeye kwimuka, birashoboka ko bidakwiye cyane cyane cyane ibintu byose mubuzima bwanjye. Nacitsemo kuva mu buzima bwanjye bwa mbere ndetse n'inshuti nyazo, ikosa risanzwe n'ibindi. Ubwa mbere byari byiza. Nkigihe wageze kuri resitora, kandi ibintu byose bishimisha: ikirere cyubururu, inyanja, indabyo nuburangare. Noneho, iyo uhuye nundi muco ntukiri mu bukerarugendo, ahubwo nkumuntu ugomba kubyemera no kuba igice cyayo, noneho ingorane zitangira.
Ubugereki, nahoraga nkunda kandi nkunda kugeza ubu, ariko mbere yuko tugenda, sinashoboraga kuguma ku birwa birebire birenga ibyumweru 2, ntekereza cyane ko antegereje icyantegereje. Kandi nari ntegereje ibintu byinshi bitunguranye. Buhoro buhoro, namenye imigenzo yaho, benshi muribo barambabajwe, bamwe bararakaye, ndetse bararakara. Kurugero, kurugero, icyifuzo cy'iteka cy'Abagereki kivuga ku mwana kandi kimuhindura ku jisho ribi. Filipo yaguye mu guta igihe cyose amaboko atamenyereye yamutontomye mu maguru. "Mu muntu, umuhungu amenyereye ko umugabo wanjye yazunguye. Ababyeyi ba Yani ubwabo baratera imbere cyane babayeho mubuzima bwabo muri Amerika, nuko barasetse gusa, bareba mumaso yatangaye. Ariko narababaye kandi ryigometse gusa, igihe nabwiwe ko ukeneye guhana umwana kubadayimoni bagerageza kwiba ubugingo bwe. Uburyo bwo kwezwa bumaze gutangira, bamwe mu bagore bakuze baje mu makariso yirabura batangira kubatizwa, bagatangira kubatizwa, kunuka mu ruhande rwa Filipo bakagerageza kumufata mu maboko. Nahagurukiye urukuta hagati y'igitanda cye, nagwa mu kurira kwabantu benshi batamenyereye mwirabura, baranyemererwa ko byose bigenda byose, kandi yarimo arira kuberako abadayimoni bari kugenda, kandi yarimo arira kuberako abadayimoni bari kugenda Amaherezo. Nabivuze ko ubu vakhanalia idahagaritswe, ndaguruka indege ya mbere, nahamagaye Jani, wari mu rugendo rw'akazi, kandi warabaye. Yani yazengurutse kuri terefone avuga ko adatsindira. Abakecuru, biragaragara ko byatengushye ko ibintu byose byagaragaye hamwe n'abadayimoni, bahumuriza vuba igihe natanze gutegeka Pizza n'icyayi. Icyayi, byemejwe ko nta badayimoni atari yo, kandi mu muhungu amenyo yaraciwe kandi amenyo agomba kumuhige. Na Uzo ni ubwoko bwa mooshine bwa garapa hamwe na Anisa. Gusa natuje, bityo rero byari bifite ubwoba ko igihe nahindukiraga, Filipo yahise yasimbura amenyo ya Uzny, kandi byanze bikunze byagira ingaruka ku buzima bwe bw'ejo hazaza. Mu Bugereki, mu nzira, akenshi nk'abana no gutuza, bahabwa imigati, bahinda umushyitsi muri Uzo, cyangwa amenyo. Ndashaka kuvuga ikigereki cy'Ubugereki, mu murwa mukuru, birumvikana ko hari urwikekwe ruke. Inkunga kuri ibi ko umwana ahora agerageza kubintu biri mu kanwa ibiryo byose bya Musaka, urebye ko akiri uruvange kandi atangira gukora urugendo rwa Zucchini gusa Urwikekwe, uzasobanukirwa ko naje kubarinda kandi nta gihe nabonaga umwanya wo gutekereza ku buryo yahinduye ubuzima bwanjye.