Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze ntibagira inama yo kutifatanije n'umufatanyabikorwa - afite amarangamutima yabo, ufite ibyabo. Ariko, imyitozo yubuzima bwumuryango yerekana ko abashakanye benshi bigoye kubatandukanya hagati yabo, ntibirakara, urugero, mugihe umugabo cyangwa umugore avuye kukazi ari mu bihe bibi kandi atangira kwerekana ibirego bidafite ishingiro. Kwipimisha amarangamutima mabi kuva nigihe ni ibisanzwe, ariko rimwe na rimwe umuntu ukunda arashobora kutabikamba kubananiranye - ni ngombwa kutayandika kunanirwa, ahubwo ni ngombwa kutabitabaza ikibazo cyifuzo cye cyo kubyemera no kubikemura.
"Wabonye shobuja? Umukire, siporo - ninde utazakundana? "
Ishyari rya patologiya ryashenye ubumwe. Impamvu nyamukuru yikibazo ni ugusuzuma hasi yumuntu, cyangwa uburambe bwo guhemukira mubuzima bwashize. Nubwo umufatanyabikorwa yakubwiye ko ubuhemu bwabakuze bwabanjirije, ntugomba kwicuza no kugaburira amarangamutima mabi. Icyo kitarabaho gusa, ahubwo ni ibibazo bigomba gukemurwa: Urashobora kwiga kongera kwizera no kureka kugenzura kugirango uhumurize muri rusange. Nubwo umugabo atagerageza kugufata kuri ubuhemu, atishimiye nawe avuga cyane kandi asaba gukorana no kwihesha agaciro.
Ishyari kubagabo hafi yawe ntabwo ari ikimenyetso cyurukundo, ahubwo ni indwara ya psyche
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"Reba aya makuru - amahano abera!"
Ubushobozi bwo gufata icyo kibazo no kubyemera, kwitegereza amategeko yose yatanzwe, ni ngombwa kubungabunga ubuzima bwo mumutwe. Icyorezo cyukuri cyerekanaga uko abantu bashingiye kumakuru mabi kandi bagaburire. Ntukange ko itangazamakuru rishyuha ku nyungu z'abaterankunga, ritanga amakuru "Amakuru yihutirwa y'abahanga", ariko nta na rimwe tuvugishije abahanga ", ariko nta na kimwe mu ngingo zaba siyansi", ariko nta na kimwe mu ngingo zaba siyansi ", ariko nta na rimwe tuvugishije abahanga", ariko nta na rimwe mu bahanga zivamo nk'ibi - iki ni cyo gisubizo cy'inyungu z'abantu. Ni ikintu kimwe niba ibintu bikureba kugiti cyawe, bityo ukaba uhatirwa kumenya uko ibintu bimeze kandi ukabisubiza. Ariko gusoma amakuru mubishoboka byose no gutera ubwoba umufatanyabikorwa mugihe ukorera murugo no gutumiza itangwa ryibiryo - nabyo.
"Nshize 30, igihe kirageze cyo kwemera ko ndi uwatsinzwe"
Ntabwo tuzabaza ikibazo cyimpamvu wahisemo umuntu utekereza ahantu harimo ubusa - nikibazo cyawe cyuruhare rwa "ubuzima", ugomba no gufata umwanzuro mubiro bya muganga. Ariko, amagambo nkaya, nkuko byavuzwe haruguru, akunze kuboneka mumico yUburusiya, aho, ukurikije abantu, uba umuherwe kuri 18, cyangwa muri 40 ukora kumafaranga. Wigire kurugero rwu Burayi, aho benshi basobanurwa numwuga bagatangira inzira yumwuga. Umutego wa psychologue azakubwira umukunzi wawe ko udakeneye kwigereranya nabandi, ariko ni ngombwa kwisuzuma kubijyanye n'umugambi wanjye.
Ibibazo byinshi biva mu bwana bwumugabo, ariko rimwe na rimwe arabakongoka kuva kera
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"Sinigeze nkunda ababyeyi banjye"
Hariho ibintu bifatika byerekana imyifatire ititaho y'ababyeyi kurera umwana - ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, guhimba kw'ibanze, bihindura uruhare rw'umubyeyi kuri ba nyirakuru. Ariko akenshi, abantu binubira abakuru badafite impamvu, bagerageza guhindura umutwaro wabo kubibazo bidakemutse. Bamwe bashinja ababyeyi ko batabishoboye kugirango bige, mugihe mubyukuri bashoboraga kujya kubuntu kuri kaminuza kubuntu. Undi bisa nkaho barumunawe na bashiki bacu bakunze cyane - ibi kandi ntabwo ari ukuri. Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze azasobanurira umuntu uko ashobora guhangana n'ibibi, kumenya inshingano z'ubuzima bwe no kubabarira abakuru niba bemeye amakosa.