Turatekereza ko ntamuntu numwe uzavuga ko kuvuka k'umwana bihindura ubuzima bwabantu bidasubirwaho. Ariko, mbere yuko umwana agaragara kumucyo, umubyeyi uzaza akeneye kunyura mugihe kitoroshye cyo gutwita kandi, ntabwo ari ngombwa - kwitegura kubyara. Nibyo, umwanya wo kwitegura kubyara ababyeyi benshi bazahitamo kwirengagiza, no mubusa. Uyu munsi twahisemo kuzana impamvu enye zituma urwego rwo gutwita rukwiye gutekereza kuburyo inzira yingenzi izakorwa.
Impamvu # 1.
Kumenya inzira zibaho mumubiri wawe biroroshye cyane kwimura kandi ntabwo rero byoroshye. Iyo umugore amaze kumenyana, uburyo umwana azanyura munzira rusange, ni ubuhe buryo bwo kurwana kandi bubaho no kubyara, kubyara "bisobanura. Byongeye kandi, ntibizababaza kumenyana nabandi baja ahoza aho kwifunga ubwabo no kumara iminsi mbere yo kubyara bahangayitse bategereje. Fungura isi kandi ubone ibisubizo kuriwe ibibazo bishimishije kubagore bari mumwanya umwe.
Shaka ibisubizo kubibazo no mugihe utwite
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Impamvu # 2.
Ntuzababaza kugirango ubone umufasha. Nk'inkunga ya psychologiya hamwe nawe kubyara, umugabo wawe cyangwa umuntu wo mu ukunda arashobora kujyana numva amerewe neza. Kuri uyu mwanya wimbitse ntugomba guhura namarangamutima, bityo ubufatanye burimo kwiyongera. Ntugasubiremo ikiganiro na bene wanyu kumunsi wanyuma mbere yo kubyara: Icya mbere, abatuwe barashobora gutangira gitunguranye, kandi icya kabiri, abakunzi bawe ntibashobora guterwa kubwibyo nyigisho - nyamara inzira y'amavuko ntishobora guhinduka Biturutse ku bidukikije, rero, bigizwe nayi mwanya hakiri kare.
Bitera # 3.
Hitamo aho uzabyara. Hamwe nibishoboka byinshi, uzahitamo ibitaro byababyeyi, inzobere zibi cyane kubijyanye no kubyara murugo, kuko rero ntibishoboka ko bishobora kugenda nabi, bityo ikigo cyihariye kizaba amahitamo meza, ariko, birakomeye kuri Fatana uburemere. Niba ufite mama mubidukikije, umva ubamenyesheje kugirango ubone isubiramo kubyerekeye kubungabunga: mubibazo bijyanye nubuzima bwawe nubuzima bwumwana wawe, inzitizi zidakwiye. Iyo uhisemo uburyo bukwiye, shakisha uburenganzira umugore afite, Ni izihe nyandiko zikenewe mu buryo bumwe. Ntucikwe nayi kanya.
Impamvu # 4.
Reka kuvuka kandi nibikorwa byingenzi, ntukibagirwe ko amezi yambere yubuzima hamwe numwana nabo bakeneye kwitegura, cyane cyane niba ubanje kuba mama. Baza, ni ubuhe bwoko bw'itabwaho buzakenera, ko uzabikeneye ku nshuro ya mbere, suzuma ubuzima bw'ingenzi imbuto z'ubutumbe kandi muri rusange bikurura amakuru atazarenga. Ako kanya, izina ryo kubyara ntirishobora gushakisha ibisubizo, bivuze ibibazo byose byingenzi byifuzwa kugirango bikemuke no gutwita.