Mfite abana batanu: abahungu bafite imyaka 15 na 12, umukobwa n'impanga yimyaka 10, umuhungu numukobwa, ni imyaka 4. Mugenzi wanjye w'ubuzima bwa Julia nawe afite abakobwa babiri (imyaka 16 na 10), kubwibyo dufite abana babiri barindwi. Kandi itandukaniro rifite imyaka yabo ni ngombwa.
Mu myaka yashize, imyumvire yisi irahinduka, ibitekerezo bye nibyo bakeneye. Kandi byanze bikunze bigaragarira mu burere. Ubwo buryo bwo kwiyegerana kandi bato ntibushobora kuba bimwe, kuko umuntu akeneye umudendezo, amahirwe yo kwigaragaza, inama zikomeye, undi ni inkunga, uburinzi, ubufasha.
Kandi buri mwana, utitaye kumyaka, afite ibiranga imiterere, nayo ntigomba kwitabwaho. Umuntu yigenga kuva mu bwana, kandi umuntu no mumyaka 20 ni ngombwa kumva ko ushimangiye. Birumvikana ko uburezi bufite imbaraga, kandi igihe cyose gishobora guhinduka. Ariko ugomba gusobanukirwa: Buri mwana ni umuntu ku giti cye, kandi umurimo w'ababyeyi nugufata urufunguzo rwawe, itumanaho nuburezi.
Inama: Ku burezi bukwiye, uburyo ku giti cye no gutekereza ku muntu batekereje ku byo umwana akeneye.
Michael Yak yazamuye babiri numugore we abana barindwi
Uburyo bwo Kurere mu Muryango Mugari
Nubwo byanze bitesha umutwe, rwose nzagaragaza igihe cyo kuvugana nabana. Tuba mumijyi itandukanye, kuburyo ndaguruka kuri buri wikendi. Kandi rwose nanjye rwose tumarana nikiruhuko hamwe numuryango wawe. Ntabwo ari abana bose hamwe, ahubwo une utandukanye. Kurugero, umwaka ushize, twasuye Kiev, New York na Orlando hamwe numuhungu w'imfura, twakinishijwe muri parike yimyidagaduro ya Floride. Uyu mwaka duteganya urugendo nkurwo hamwe numuhungu wa kabiri, Steptan, kandi hamwe duhitamo aho bajya. Ariko ibi ntabwo ari ukubera ko nkunda abahungu bakuru - mumuryango wacu, muburyo butemewe kugirango bagabanye umuntu kubana. Ariko, bazi ko Nejejwe no kubaha umwanya abantu bose, ariko abantu bose kugiti cyabo. Uburyo nyamukuru bwo kurere mu muryango mugari ni urukundo gikomeye.
Birumvikana ko abana benshi, biragoye kugukwirakwiza ibitekerezo byawe hagati yabo. Kubwibyo, dufite imigenzo - Ibyabaye mugihe umuryango wose ujyana. Ibi ni amafunguro yo ku cyumweru, ubukangurambaga muri cinema cyangwa gukubita. Muri wikendi, dukunze guhitamo gutembera muri parike, gutwara amafarashi cyangwa amagare, genda haguruje.
Ariko kwitondera ntibigomba kugarukira muri wikendi - ni ngombwa ko Data yitabira ubuzima bwa buri munsi bwabana. Nabirukanye mu ishuri ry'incuke, ryera Matrennikov n'amarushanwa ndetse akanatabira ibikorwa byo gutera. Mu mashuri abanza, ntabwo nari njye na se wenyine utasiba inama y'umubyeyi umwe. Nubwo ari ibintu bidasanzwe kuruta itegeko - mubisanzwe kuri papa baza ku ishuri bin ku nshingano zibabaza, bo muburyo bwose kugirango birinde. Ariko ni ngombwa cyane - kumenya icyo abana bawe babaho, bafite ibibazo nibibazo byo kwiga cyangwa gushyikirana. Kandi nibyiza cyane kumenya ibyo bagezeho nitsinzi!
Inama: Usibye umwanya umaranye nabana bose hamwe, ugomba kubona amahirwe yo kubana na buri mwana wenyine. Abana bagomba kumenya akamaro kabo mubuzima bwawe, kandi inzira nziza yo kwerekana ni ukumva ko wishimiye gukoresha igihe cyawe.
Gutandukana kw'ababyeyi: Nigute wafasha abana kurokoka icyuho
Mubuzima bwanjye habaye ibihe bitoroshye - umugore wanjye numugore wanjye (ubu wahoze) bahisemo gutandukana. Ntabwo byari bigize amakimbirane, bibabaza no gushinja, kandi abana bacu bahuye n'ikiruhuko kibabaza cyane. Ariko, twashoboye kubona umwihariko ku gihe, koroshya amarangamutima mabi kandi ugashyiraho itumanaho risanzwe. Kubera ko yibanze ku kintu cy'ingenzi: baretse kuba umugabo n'umugore, twakomeje kuba Data na Mama. Kandi ibi bivuze ko tuzaba abantu kavukire ubuziraherezo.
Noneho bana banjye kuva mubyambere nuyu mugore baravugana neza - nkumwana, abasore biroroshye kubona ururimi rumwe ruruta abantu bakuru kurusha abakuze. Nta banga cyangwa guhangana hagati yabo, iyi ni itumanaho risanzwe ryabantu. Basobanukiwe ko twese turi abantu kavukire, kandi ni ryiza cyane ko muminsi mikuru dushobora guhurira hamwe kumeza, kuganira ku ngingo zishimishije, kwishima ku bandi cyangwa ngo tekereza igisubizo kubibazo bimwe. Kandi twese twegeranya duhuriza hamwe ibyo dukunda rusange nibiruhuko.
Inama: Ndetse na nyuma yo gutandukana, ababyeyi bagomba kugerageza gushyiraho itumanaho rishyushye kandi ryamahoro. Umubano usanzwe hagati ya Mama na Papa batanga ubuture kandi wizere abana. Amababi maremare yaka, kandi afasha kwirinda ibikomere byumwana.
Ububyeyi no kwimenyekanisha: Birashoboka gutsinda muri byose
Kuri njye mbona ko bidashoboka gusa, ariko nabyo bikenewe - kandi wowe, hamwe nabana bawe. Ubwa mbere, uruhande rwibintu ni ngombwa, kuko umuryango munini ninshingano nini. Abana bagomba kugira inyuma yinyuma yamahoro kugirango babone uburere bwiza no gutangira mubuzima. Kandi kubwibyo ukeneye byinshi kandi byagenze neza. Icya kabiri, icyizere intsinzi zubuzima zahawe uzagira ingaruka ku bana. Aradutera kwizera no mu zawe, kandi mu mahirwe yabo.
Ariko icy'ingenzi - ububyeyi butanga amarangamutima nubunararibonye. Sinigeze mbona umunezero nko muri iki gihe abana banjye bamubereye. Aya byiyumvo byagaragaye mu ndirimbo, kandi mumyaka 40 umucuruzi ushaje, ingenzi na se Madamu Michael Yak yabaye umuririmbyi. Indirimbo zanjye zakunze abumva, kandi nishimiye cyane ko ibyabaye nhishura mu nyandiko zanjye birumvikana kandi hafi y'umubare munini wabantu.
Inama: Birakenewe gushyira mubikorwa ubushobozi bwawe, kuko abana bazagufata urugero nawe. Nubwo byaba bigoye gute gukomeza gushyira mu gaciro, gerageza kudasiga umutwe wawe gukora, ariko nanone ntushonga abana. Bakeneye gutsinda, babaye, bazaba icyitegererezo cyiza cyo kwigana.