Mperutse kunsangaga inyuguti nke hamwe nibibazo bimwe nibibi byinzozi.
Aya mabaruwa yabagore bakuru bakiri bato, hamwe nabana bato, banyuzwe umwanya wabo, kandi cyane cyane - gukunda abagabo babo. Ariko inzozi zigaragazwa nibyingenzi. Ibanga, mbere ya byose, muri bo ubwabo.
Kandi dore inzozi:
Ati: "Ku mugoroba wo muri iyi joro nasukuye agasanduku k'iposita. Kubera ko mperutse gushaka, nahisemo ko nirusheho kubandikirana n'abahoze ari abakunzi n'abafana. Nimugoroba, nasibye ibintu byose kuva kuri posita, kandi nijoro narose ko naryamanye na bamwe mu "bahoze", kandi mu gihe ntekereza ko igihe cyose: "Nibyo, mfite umugabo!" Ndabyuka Hamwe no kumva neza isoni n'ibitekerezo ntashobora kwiyumvisha neza uko nabaganye nabyo niba atari inzozi, ahubwo ni Yawl. "
N'inzozi z'undi mugore: "Mu nzozi, Nongeye guhura n'uwahoze ari umukunzi wanjye. Kandi nigitekerezo narubatse kandi ndashaka kuguma umugabo wizerwa, ntabwo nambujije. Nkundana nuwahoze, uhura n'ibyiyumvo bikomeye ko ntigeze numva mu ntangiriro n'umugabo wanjye. Mbyuka mu majwi yuzuye, kubera ko ntigeze nibuka uwahoze ari mu myaka myinshi, kandi sinigeze ntekereza kumusanga nyuma yo gutandukana. "
Birumvikana ko ako kanya aregwa byoroshye guhindura abagore mu cyifuzo cyibanga cyo guhindura abagabo babo, kandi igitekerezo cyumusazi kiranyeganyega nabagabo babo, ibitekerezo byerekeranye nabandi bagabo barimo kumena inzozi.
Ariko ntabwo byose biragaragara, nubwo ubu buryo bushobora kuba abizerwa.
Mugihe cyumurongo, umubano wumubiri ugira ibyiciro bitandukanye. Igihe cyo gushya, euphoria, urukundo, nkitegeko, birangira mbere yubukwe (niba atari byo). Mugihe cyakirwa rya mbere, aba bombi ni ibyiyumvo byinshi, urukundo, ibikomokaho. Akenshi bibuka imibonano mpuzabitsina no gucirwaho iteka.
Ubuzima buhuriweho mbere yuko abana bavungurwa byitwa icyiciro cya diand. Usibye umunezero wo guma hamwe, muri iki gihe abashakanye biga rwose kubana neza, batanga imigenzo ihuriweho, amategeko, imigenzo, imihango yubuzima bwumuryango. Niba uburambe bwabo bwabanjirije mumiryango yababyeyi cyangwa hamwe nabahozeho batandukanye cyane, noneho iki cyiciro kirashobora gushiraho urugomo, hamwe na storicals, hamwe nibisobanuro biri muri nyir'inzu. Noneho umuyaga wambere wunvikana nurukundo bigenda byimuka inyuma. Abafatanyabikorwa berekana buri wese atari meza yabo meza gusa, ahubwo yerekana ingamba zabo zintambara nuburyo bwo gukemura amakimbirane. Iyo iki cyiciro kirangiye, couple itanga urufatiro hamwe n'amategeko, mubihe byinshi inshuro 3 itangira. Iki nicyo gihe cya triaad - ni ukuvuga isura y'imfura. Kurera byongewe kubufatanye bwabo, gufata hafi igihe cyose bari bafite mbere. Urukundo no kwiyumvishako ni ibintu byinshi byo kwibuka.
Ariko kwifuza ibyo bihugu, icyifuzo cyo kongera guhishura umuyaga wimpungenge. Ntamwanya wo kurota, ariko hariho inzira - iyi ni inzozi. Ubuyobozi bwacu buhitamo ikintu cyose gitanduye imishinga eroticomes, inzozi n'ibitekerezo bidashoboka, kuko intwari zacu zirasa, zifite imbaraga zo kwibonera.
Ahubwo, baragusaba mubuzima bwabo bwa buri munsi, buremerewe nimpungenge ku bana, ubuzima buhuriweho, nta mwanya wo kumva, nta mwanya wongeye kumva umugore wifuza kandi ukundi. Kubwibyo, ishyaka ryose ricika intege. Birashoboka ko intwari zacu zarababaje abagabo babo ko gushishoza byagiye inyuma, kuko mu nzozi bakabona umukunzi wabo wahoze, mu mibanire kandi nta kindi wabaye uretse kuri we).
Inzozi zacu zirashobora gutangwa gusa kugirango ugaruke ishyaka mumibanire yabo yubu. Ntaho ajya ahandi, igihe gito yoherejwe mu mpande zijimye z'ubugingo. Byongeye kandi, bagomba kugenzurwa uko bafitanye isano nabagabo babo: niba badacukura imyifatire isanzwe, ntibikeneye kumenyekana no gushimwa - ntabwo ari muburyo? Ubu bushakashatsi buzabaha amahirwe yo kwishingikiriza mumibanire mishya nabagabo babo ba hafi.
Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin