Nk'uko Raporo ya Rostat "isuzuma ry'abaturage basanzwe ku ya 1 Mutarama 2020 ndetse no mu gihembwe cya 2019", umubare w'iburumbuke mu gihugu cyacu ni 1.7 Abana 1.7 kumugore. Ibi bivuze ko, ugereranije, mumiryango yo mu Burusiya, abana 1-2. Byongeye kandi, hamwe no gushyira mu bikorwa gahunda yo gushyigikira umuryango, uburumbuke bwazamutse buva mu bana 1.2 ku kigero cya 2000. Kubwibyo, ikibazo kivuka kubyerekeye uburyo abana bazamura: vuga uburyo bwo gushaka inshuti numuto.
Fata umwanya munini
Ubushakashatsi bwo guteza imbere umubano hagati yabavandimwe na bashiki bacu, bigaragazwa nurubuga rwa psychologiya, garagaza impengamiro yo kunoza umubano mugihe basohojwe nibikorwa bihuriweho. Ingaruka nziza cyane iragaragara kubana mumatsinda atandukanye nimiterere ubusanzwe. Witondere imikino ihuza abana, ikabahanagura. Abakobwa rero bakunda gukina iduka, nabahungu mumodoka - tegura umukino wo gukina mububiko bwibikinisho. Shishikarizwa abana bahuriza hamwe babigiramo uruhare hamwe numugabo wawe.
Guha abana kuruhuka
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Ntugahagarike imikino
"Ntukabe uzwi cyane niba utuje" - Ababyeyi bose bagomba kwibuka iyi nteruro. Niba ubonye ko abana bakorana gusangira, kubisiga wenyine. Ifunguro rya sasita namanywa yo gusinzira bizategereza kugeza bashizeho umubano. Iyo babaye inshuti nziza, bizashoboka kugenzura byimazeyo ubwinshi bwumunsi. Hagati aho, gerageza gutanga umwanya kumikino mugitondo nyuma ya mugitondo, nyuma yo gusinzira kwundi nimugoroba.
Guteza amabuye amabuye y'agaciro ya Joy
Mumeze neza, shimangira itumanaho ryinshuti biroroshye cyane. Buji no gusomana abana kenshi, kanda no gusetsa hamwe nabo, genda gutembera mu kirere cyiza cyangwa kujya mwishyamba. Shyiramo ibibazo byawe byigihe nkuko amasomo menshi atanga umusanzu wa oxytocine ubyina, kuririmba, siporo. Niba abana bananiwe, babaha ibisasu hanyuma bagahindukira ku gikarito - ikiruhuko gituje ntikizaha cortisol gukora no kubasukaho bikangura amakimbirane mashya.
Tanga kwita kuri mugenzi wawe
Ihuza rikomeye hagati yabana rikeneye guhangayikishwa - niyo mpamvu abana bafite itandukaniro rinini mumyaka nibisanzwe cyane bigorana. Mubigishe ibipimo by'ibitabo: Kohereza mugenzi wawe napkins, fasha kuzana salade, gusuka amazi no kwanduza. Iyo umwe mubana yarababajwe, baza icya kabiri kugirango akuzane igitambaro cyangwa paki hamwe na barafu, inkoni kuri patch scratch cyangwa kuyisukaho. Babwire amategeko agenga imyitwarire yumutekano kumuhanda kandi akwemeza kurebana.
Zana ikinyamakuru cyineza hamwe nabana
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Kora ikinyamakuru cyumuryango
Abaterankunga ba psychologue batanga gutangira ikaye, aho wowe hamwe nabana bazandika ibikorwa byabo byiza kuri mugenzi wabo. Vuga "Ikinyamakuru cyo kuneza umuryango wacu" kandi wemerere abana kubihindura. Urashobora gutangirana n'amagambo yerekeye ineza, urugero, Dalai Lama: "Mugire neza igihe bishoboka. Buri gihe birashoboka. " Noneho witondere ibikorwa byubuntu hagati y'abana bawe hanyuma ubyandike muri diary hamwe nitariki. Urugero, "Vanya yafashe ko ibisuguti bya Masha", "Masha yafashije wana gukusanya ibikinisho" n'ibindi.