Emera, akenshi kumunsi wambere dusuwe nibitekerezo, uyu mugabo azaryama muburiri? No muri iki gihe, abagore bitabaza uburyo nkubara ingano yicyubahiro cyubwinshi bwumufatanyabikorwa wintoki / izuru hamwe nubunini bwibimera kumubiri. Birakwiye kuvuga ko uburyo nkubwo ntacyo busezerana nukuri. Nyamara, abahanga mu by'imitekerereze ya mu gute muri psychologue bagaragaje uburyo bwinshi bw'imyitwarire bushobora kuba batavuga ubushobozi bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, byibuze batanga ibitekerezo byintangarugero.
Njyewe nanjye gusa
Hatariho ubwiza budashoboka kubera imibonano mpuzabitsina myiza? Birumvikana ko utitaye kubafatanyabikorwa kuri buriwese. Tekereza ko wari mu rugendo cyangwa ugiye muri resitora nziza. Bigenda bite nyuma? Aragushimishije, abaza ibibazo, ashaka kumenya byinshi kuri wewe? Niba aribyo, ufite amahirwe ko umuntu azaba umufatanyabikorwa wimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ariko niba udashobora no gushyiramo amagambo hanyuma utangira gusa nkaho wabaye kuri theare yinjira muri monologue ya Hamlelogue, amakuru ararekurwa - umuntu yirinde, kandi ibi byerekana ko bizaba byimazeyo ibyiyumvo bye.
Witondere imyitwarire ye
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Ntunkoreho
Umuntu uwo ari we wese aragushimishije, nko mu mugore, agomba gutsinda, azaharanira gukoraho, kandi oya, ntabwo azakoraho neza bidakomeye, ahora yifuza kumva ko ukuhaba kwawe. Iki nikimenyetso cyiza. Ariko iyo umugabo yirinze kuba hafi yuburyo bwawe bwose, ntashaka kugirana umubano cyane na nyuma yamatariki make, tegereza amayeri - birashobora kuba ibitsina cyangwa kwigisha amadini. Nkuko ubyumva, umukunzi nkuyu adashoboka kugirango agushimishe muburiri.
Abagore bose ni bamwe
Ntabwo wabonye umwanya wo kumenya neza, kandi usanzwe uzi umugore mubi yari aryamye? Inzogera. Nta cyemeza ko umuntu uhora atanyuzwe n'igorofa ry'umugore ntazatangira kwerekana ibyiyumvo bibi muri aderesi yawe. Byongeye kandi, ibitekerezo bihoraho ku bagore bivuga kubijyanye no kwihesha agaciro kandi akenshi bijyanye na neurotic. Ukeneye "ibintu" nkibyo, kandi uzigera witeguye kuba kumwanya wahoze ari ubanza?
Buri gihe nakoze neza
Vuga bike, kora byinshi. Ariko ntabwo ari ukubera abantu nkabo. Umuntu udashobora kubaho atazi isi kumenya intsinzi ye, kandi bishoboka cyane ntibizatungura muburiri, kubera ko benshi mu "bihe" bye bikabije. Umugabo wizeye ubushobozi bwe kandi azi neza ubushobozi bwayo, ntabwo azigera ashimangira, ahubwo, azakwitoza kwitegura imibonano mpuzabitsina mumaboko ye.