Olga Aristova ni abrologier yatsinze hamwe na psychologue, yabayeho mu bihugu bibiri mu myaka myinshi: mu Burusiya no mu Butaliyani. Olga agisha abantu batandukanye cyane mumibereho myiza kubibazo byingenzi. Mu bakiriya be, abantu basanzwe bifuza guhindura iherezo kandi bazwi cyane, bakomeye. Nubwo Olga ari muto bihagije, ibisubizo bye kubibazo bigoye kandi byizewe bitandukanijwe nubwenge, kumenyekanisha no gukora.
- Olga, birashoboka kuvuga ko ibisubizo byumwuga nubuzima biterwa nubushakashatsi bwimbitse bwikarita ye? Niba kandi ubona amahirwe make yo gutsinda, uravuga ko umukiriya ukuri kose?
Ati: "Iyo mbonye ikarita y'abakiriya, mbona ubushobozi bwa buri muntu ndetse no mu itumanaho ryihariye, nasomye imbaraga nyinshi.
Umuntu arashobora kuvuga ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ariko sinumva amagambo, ariko nzasoma ittation kandi ibintu byinshi soma hagati yumurongo. Umuntu mu nama mvuga ibintu byose, abaragurisha inyenyeri ntibabyemera, batinya gukomeretsa umukiriya, ariko ni bibi. Ugomba kubuza amakuru kugirango udahungabana, ariko ukarambe. Nari mfite umukiriya umwe udashobora kubyara umwana imyaka myinshi, kuko we wari ahantu hafite ikibazo. Yambaje kugirango nmenye igihe cyiza cyo gusama. Narebye ku ikarita ye mbona ko itsinda ryatsinzwe, ryayobowe n'imibumbe igoye, azamara igihe runaka. Nakugiriye inama yo gutegereza no gusama. Ariko ntiyashakaga kunyumva, ashimangira. Muri uru rubanza, naburiye ko iyo atumva inama zanjye, ibintu bisa birashobora kumubaho. Mugisha inama, nkora neza nk'ikarita, mbona ko inyubako nziza n'ibibi, ndavuga byose uko ari byose, kandi nizere ko umuntu azanyumva.
- Niba ubona ko hari ibintu bimwe na bimwe bidahwitse umuntu, ariko rwose ashaka kubigeraho. Kurugero, umukobwa ashishikaye arashaka kuba umukinnyi wa filime, ariko urabona ko nta masezerano yahanuwe kurikarita. Nigute ushobora kwirinda amakuru?
- Niba nsobanura mumakarita yo kuvuka kubwimiterere yinyenyeri ikora ninzozi zitagira imbuto kandi umukobwa ntahabwa umukinnyi wa filime, hanyuma ahinduka umukinnyi ndavuga ko iyi atari icyerekezo cye. Ngomba kuvuga uko kurya ubusa kudatera inkunga umukiriya. Ariko mu kugaruka ndasaba: "Urashobora gutsinda cyane niba, urugero, uzabyina cyangwa ngo winjire mubindi bintu byo guhanga. Noneho noneho tuzareba icyo ukwiriye aho uzahita ugera kumenyekana. " Cyangwa nk'urugero, umuririmbyi umwe yambajije Itariki y'ibitaramo, nabonye ko iyi tariki yari myiza kandi igira inama yo kwimura igitaramo ku murongo. Ariko umuririmbyi ntiyigeze anyumva kandi amara ibirori byateganijwe.
Yamaraga umwanya munini n'imbaraga, bituma iki gitaramo gifite imbaraga nk'izo zigizwe ko yari afite nyuma ye byabaye ngombwa ko akira. Igihe kizaza, yanze ko icyo cyemezo cyo gukoresha igitaramo cyari ikosa, yabonaga ko yicuza igihe icumi atumva Inama Njyanama. Sinumva yicujije umutimanama kubera ko mvugana n'abakiriya banjye mubyukuri kandi nzi ibyiringiro by'ibinyoma by'umuntu. N'ubundi kandi, umurwayi aje kwa muganga, kandi muganga asuzumwe indwara zimwe, agomba kwicuza? Agomba kubona igisubizo cyuburyo bwo gukiza iyi ndwara. Kandi inama zanjye. Ndi isuzuma risangamo inzira, kandi uko ibintu bimeze gute ko ubuzima buvuga niba bireba akazi, umubano, ubucuruzi cyangwa karma.
- Ni ibihe bibazo ukunze kubaza?
- Ingingo yubufatanye buri gihe ari ngombwa cyane. Abantu bashaka kumenya ubwoko bwumufatanyabikorwa bukwiye, uburyo bwo gushiraho umubano uhuza, uyu mufasha yaguhaye, kubyerekeye ibyiringiro byubusabane.
- Bikunze kubaho ko umugore atandukana numufatanyabikorwa, kandi bidatinze ahura, ariko asa nuwahoze atwara ibibazo bimwe. Kuki ibi bibaho?
- Ibi biraba kuko bidakora ibintu byinshi byubuzima, ntabwo bize kumasomo. Uyu mugore asa nuburyo bubiri, bwatorotse mumasomo. Abafatanyabikorwa bacu bakunze kwerekana ibintu byacu bibi byimiterere, ubwacu ubwacu twihebye kandi dusangira neza. Impanga ziva mumasomo zahunze, ariko nyuma yuko abasinzwe bakunze guhanwa, bityo, bavuga mu buryo bw'ikigereranyo, bisigaye mu "mwaka wa kabiri", bityo bigatuma bifata isomo.
Mubukwe bwa Karmic Ugomba gutanga imyenda akimara kubikora, azabona umufatanyabikorwa mwiza. Urukundo ni imyenda.
Tuba kuri iyi si ntabwo aribwo gutanga, isi ni ishuri ryinshi aho dufata amasomo akomeye. Mu bindi bipimo, birashobora byoroshye, ariko hano dukora no kunoza.
- Noneho biragaragara niba twaje guha imyenda imyenda, abantu bose bagomba kubaho nabi? Ariko hariho abantu babaho ubuzima bwiza.
- Ndemeranya nawe, hariho abantu bafite amafaranga mubuzima, gutsinda, kuba icyamamare, ariko reba, barishimye cyane, nkuko babishima? Ntabwo bibaho kugirango umuntu atuye ubuzima butuje kandi bwiza, nta mibabaro, ntababazwa, buriwese afite umurimo wacyo kwisi.
Ntabwo ari impanuka ko twavukiye mumuryango runaka, kandi ntabwo ari impanuka ko duha bene wacu. Bavuga ko ababyeyi batatoranijwe, ariko hitamo gusa. Ubugingo bukurura papa na mama, ahitamo ababyeyi be. Rimwe na rimwe, aba bakwiriye kandi beza, kandi rimwe na rimwe ibisimba nyabyo. Umuntu wese afite imirimo yabo ya Karmic. Ariko hari ahantu zemeranya nawe, ugomba kugerageza kubaka ubuzima bwanjye kugirango ubeho bishoboka, ariko kubikora muburyo bworoshye hamwe nubufasha bwibikoresho bikomeye - ikarita yinyenyeri.
- Hoba hariho ingingo zingenzi ushingikiraho, ukorana numuntu? Kandi niba abakiriya wanze?
- Umuntu wese afite icyifuzo cyayo, nkora nkurikije imirimo nibisabwa. Ariko mbere yo gutangira gukorana numuntu, ndeba isezerano ryumwimerere: aho ijwi hari ikiganiro, uko umuntu anhuje, kandi niba adahuje, kandi niba adahuje. Kora kuri horoscope yawe bwite ni akazi gakomeye. Kandi inama umuntu uwo ari we wese agomba kumva kandi yitondere igihe. Niba kandi umuntu atiteguye, ntabwo ndi umupfumu uzabona inkoni y'ubumaji, izatangira kuzunguza, imibumbe yose ikenewe izahindukira mu mazu akwiye. Ntabwo nshobora kumukorera ibintu bye. Hano haribintu bitagereranywa byateguwe kuva tuvuka, kuko twavukiye muri uyu muryango, twitwaza ibibazo byose, niba sogokuru yambaye ubusa, noneho abkuru yambaye ubusa, noneho abuzukuru kubwibyaha bye azasubiza. Byinshi bifite ibintu bibi byikarita byongeweho, uburyo bwo gutsindwa burambuye hano. Hejuru kugirango ukosore amakosa, ugomba gukora witonze, nta muragurisha inyenyeri uzagukorera.
- Kandi niba umuntu adashobora guhindura ikintu mubuzima bwe, kurugero, atumva imbaraga, none gute?
- Niba umuntu adashaka guhinduka cyangwa guhindura ikintu mubuzima bwe - ubu ni ubunebwe bwubugingo. Ndetse kugirango tujya kubona uburezi bwa kabiri, ubwa gatatu, ugomba gushyiramo ingufu wenyine. Kandi benshi ntibakunda guhangayika, kuko ari umurimo. Ahanini, abantu benshi ni misa ya pasiporo idakunda iyo ihangayitse. "Ntunkoreho, nzajya ku kazi kuva ku gitagatifu kugeza kuri bitandatu, mbona kopeke zanjye eshanu kandi ntiziharanire ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose."
Niba umuntu afite imbaraga nkeya, arashobora kuzamurwa, kwiteza imbere, ubu hari imikorere myinshi, urashobora gukina siporo, yoga, gutekereza ku kimenyetso, ufata ikintu kibereye, niki gifatwa . Niba umuntu ashaka kugera kubintu runaka, ugomba gutsindwa, ariko byinshi mubintu bito kugirango bikore kandi ntacyo bigire. Hariho icyiciro runaka cyabakiriya, hamwe nabantu nkabo ntabwo bigoye gukora gusa, biragoye kubana nabo.
- Kandi niba umuntu agifashe umwanzuro ku gihinduka, kubikorwa bimwe, ariko urabona ko ntakintu cyiza kiri kurikarita, niki noneho?
- Niba umuntu afashe icyemezo cyo guhindura ikintu mubuzima bwe, hariho inzira nyinshi zo guhindura iherezo. Ntabwo ari amarozi, ni imibare.
Bumwe mu buryo bunoze - urashobora kubona isabukuru mu wundi mujyi kugirango ubuturo bukenewe burenza amazu akwiye. Iregura imbaraga runaka zumwaka. Niba kandi mbona ko kubwububiri, umuntu agomba kugenda ava mu gihugu, kuko impinduka z'umujyi ndetse n'umugabane uzahindura cyane iherezo, noneho nhitamo ahantu heza. Ndareba niba agomba kugenda mu kindi gihugu ko asezeranya aha hantu, ni ibihe minini nicyiza, ndabaza icyo ashaka kuva mu kugenda. IKIBAZO GUHINDUKA MU BUZIMA BWE, NIKI GIHUTI GISITEKEREZA IHEREZO IHEREZO ZIKURIKIRA - AMAFARANGA, ubuzima, ubuzima bwite. Umuntu wese afite ibyifuzo bitandukanye. Kandi burigihe ikora ibibazo byubusa.
Gusa ugomba kubona imbaraga nubutwari kugirango uhindure ikintu mubihe byawe. Urashobora kujya mu kindi gihugu kugirango ujye mu kindi gihugu, hamwe n'iterambere rya interineti, ukubaho ubwonko ndetse n'akazi gakomeye birashobora gutura ahantu hose. Ikintu nyamukuru nugushyira mubikorwa mbere yinyenyeri, ushaka mubuzima, kandi ubare byose neza.