Buri wese muri twe ni umuntu ku giti cye - ahari, iyi niyo nyungu nyamukuru kandi icyarimwe ikibazo mugihe ukora ubucuruzi. Itandukaniro mu ishusho yibitekerezo, moteri, ibikorwa - Ibi byose birashobora gutanga byinshi byingirakamaro mugukura ibitekerezo byisosiyete, ariko icyarimwe bikaba igisitaza hagati yabantu ba hafi, bizatukana mu kutumvikana. Nigute ushobora kuba niba uhisemo kugabanya inshingano hamwe na mwene wabo cyangwa inshuti?
Fata inshingano
Iya mbere, aho izatangira, - isobanura neza inshingano za buri wese muri mwe. Ntutinye kuvuga mu buryo butaziguye ko wifuza gusangira akazi mu ruhare rumwe kugira ngo inyungu ziboneye mu gihe kizaza. Niba ku cyiciro cyambere "Haltur" Haltur "umwe mu bagize itsinda ashobora kurengana n'ijisho, hanyuma mu gihe cy'irari, urugero, igurisha rifata umwanzuro cyangwa impera zose zizamenetse ku muntu ufite imigezi nini idahwitse. Ntuzane ibyiza kugeza aho bigarukira, kuko nibyiza kubuza ikibazo kuruta "guhubuka" byayo. Ntugashyireho imyanya imwe ninshuti cyangwa umuvandimwe, kuko birasobanutse neza ko abantu babiri muri sosiyete ihamye idashobora kuzuza umurimo umwe - ntabwo bafite ibikoresho bihagije nibikoresho by'agateganyo. Mu Cyongereza, ijambo "umuyobozi" risobanura bimwe bitandukanye kuruta uko dufite, ni umwanya w'ingenzi mu cyerekezo, kandi ntabwo ari kumwe na sosiyete. Mubitekerezo byacu, birakwiye guhitamo uyu mwanya, ariko murufunguzo nkumwe muri mwe, kurugero, uzaba "umuyobozi ushinzwe kugurisha", undi "Umuyobozi wo kwamamaza". Ntabwo rero bizababaza umuntu wese uhagaze munsi yinshuti-mugenzi wawe, kandi inshingano zizashyirwa ahagaragara mumutwe wimyanya.
Gukwirakwiza inshingano
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Inshingano zifata inyandiko
Benshi birengagiza iki cyiciro, gukora amasezerano ayo ari yo yose bijyanye no ku ruhande rw'ikibazo, nyuma y'intoki. Impaka nyamukuru: Nizeye uyu mugabo, ntazigera ampemukira. Wibuke ko mubuzima busanzwe bwo guteza imbere abantu bakuze amagambo "nta na rimwe" bitabaho - ikintu cyose gishobora kubaho. Mu bucuruzi, inzitizi n'urwikekwe zigomba kwimurwa muri gahunda ya kure - ntabwo warashe igikinisho hamwe na mugenzi wawe, ahubwo wahisemo uburyo buhagije bwo gukora. Mbere ya byose, byanditswe nuburyo bwo gutunga isosiyete, byerekana umubare munini wagize uruhare mu murwa mukuru wemewe w'isosiyete ufite akamaro kuko ku bijyanye no "gutsindwa", ibisigazwa by'imitungo cyangwa umwenda bizagabanywa hashingiwe y'iyi nyandiko. Niba ufite igishoro cyambere, hamwe nikizaza hamwe numufuka wubusa, noneho ntugomba kwikubita mu gatuza no kwemera gukora nk'umurarator ku nguzanyo. Uyu muntu afite umuryango ushinzwe imitungo yawe kukurusha. Niba umuntu yakiriye adahagije kuri kwanga kwawe, hanyuma utekereze niba ukeneye umuntu wa hysterical mumakipe?
Witondere ibimenyetso
Gukomeza ingingo y'ibimenyetso bihamya kunanirwa imburagihe, ibintu nk'ibi nkomasezerano, bidasezeranya amakuru, kwibagirwa, kutamenya gusoma no kutamenya no kutamenya gusoma no kwandika bigomba kuvugwa. Birumvikana, tuvuga imico udashaka yumutwe wisosiyete. Niba uhisemo gukingura umukandara cyangwa ububiko bwikipe yigicuruzwa, kwitegura no kumenya neza ururimi rwikirusiya ntiruzagira uruhare rukomeye mu nyungu zubucuruzi. Ariko, mugihe bikora intangiriro ikomeye, cyane cyane bijyanye nikoranabuhanga, aho bizakenerwa kugirango tuganire nabantu kandi "bakuremo" inkunga, umuntu ufite imico, umuntu ufite imico nkiyi arashobora kugabanya imirimo yose yitsinda. Witonde kandi ko ari uwawe nabandi bakozi. Hagati yawe, nkabo ukunda, kubyemerera itorero rya gicuti, ariko mubantu bigomba kuba ubucuruzi bwihariye - nta gutandukana, kuganira kuri abo tuziranye ninteruro nka "yego sawa. Wibuke: Kubaha abayoborwa byakozwe kuva mbere. Ugomba kubafata, mbere ya byose, nk'abakozi, atari inshuti - ntukemere ko wasangaga umubano hagati yubuyobozi n'abayoborwa. Abantu bumva vuba uwo bashobora kwicara ku ijosi, bityo batangira gukiza no kurenga ku nshingano zabo. Kuba hafi bizaba kuyoborwa, biragoye cyane, kandi amategeko nyamukuru yisosiyete ikora neza ni ikipe ikomeye.
Ntukemere kosaterate hamwe na bagenzi bawe
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Vuga nta marangamutima
Ba bagenzi bawe babishoboye - ntukajye kurwego rwo gutukana kandi ntuzi umuntu ko "ahora abikora" cyangwa "wari uzi ko bizagenda." Gerageza gukora ibisubizo byose hamwe na "imbeho" - nibyiza gufata ikiruhuko mubiganiro, genda mukirere gishya cyangwa igikombe cya kawa, kuruta kuvuga cyane. Wibuke ko, umaze gufata umwanzuro wo gufata impamvu rusange, uba ibikombe bibiri byinzani: umuntu azazamuka cyangwa ubusa - ibindi bitonyanga. Ugomba gusubiza akazi no kutavuga muri make umukunzi utagerageza kugera kubisubizo.
Tekereza uburyo bwo gukwirakwiza inyungu
Nibyo, mugihe cyambere ntabwo bizwi ko ikigo mugihe kizaza ari ugutegereza, ariko ugomba kumva ko ugomba guhora witeguye. Emera, kubwigihe cyambere kizohereza amafaranga. Niba mugenzi wawe ateganya kubisangiza no kubifata kugirango akeneye, kandi urashaka kugisubiza mukwinjiza ikigo cyiterambere, kandi ntuko ubwumvikane buke. Turagugira inama yo gufata icyemezo gifatanye kuri kiriya kibazo - mu buryo bushyize mu bikorwa muri zeru, guha ibintu hafi ya byose mu iterambere - bizagenda byiyongera ku mutungo w'isosiyete no kumeneka byihuse.
Hitamo aho wohereza inyungu
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Niba urenganye kandi unyangamugayo kuri wewe hamwe nabandi, noneho birashoboka ko ibintu bizazamuka. Umubano ukorana nabakunzi - Ingingo ni ugufata, kuko nyuma yimyaka mike birashoboka ko dushobora kurinda ibyahise no gushishikaza, ariko ninde wavuze ko bidashoboka? Kora wenyine, umubano wawe numuryango wawe, noneho ibibazo byose bizashobora gukemura mugihe cyambere. Amahirwe masa!