Abantu bahura, abantu bakundana, bashyingirwa ...
Kandi abantu hafi ya bose bizeye ko bazabaho birebire kandi bishimye kandi bapfa mumunsi umwe. Ndende kandi yishimye, abantu bose barabona ukundi. Iyi ngingo kubadashobora gupfa mumunsi umwe.
Gutandukana - Uburyo budashimishije, ariko ikibabaje, rusange muri societe ya none. Kandi mubihe byinshi, gutandukana biherekejwe nigice cyumutungo uhuriweho na Surugov, kurimo igice cya 1 cyubuhanzi. 34 Mu miryango ya Federasiyo y'Uburusiya, ishira umutungo wabonetse mugihe cyubukwe kumafaranga ahuriweho nabashakanye.
Mu gihe abashakanye bahoze badashobora kumvikana ku ishami ry'iperereza ryabonye na bo mu bashakanye, imanza z'ubu bwoko ziremewe mu rukiko. Nigute bazagabanywa hagati yabashakanye bazirikana, harimo, no kuboneka kubana bato?
Mu gitabo kimwe cyumuryango, byerekana ko imigabane yabashakanye mumitungo rusange ifatwa nkiyongereye, keretse niba bitangwa ukundi hamwe namasezerano ajyanye nabashakanye.
Muri uru rubanza, ntabwo ari amasezerano yubukwe gusa, ahubwo ni aya masezerano ku gice cy'umutungo wagaragaye hamwe, ushobora kwasozwa haba mu gihe cy'ubukwe na nyuma yo guhagarika.
Kuba abana mumuryango birashobora guhindura ibintu hamwe nigice cyumutungo?
Amategeko y'Uburusiya atanga amahirwe nkaya. Dukurikije ingingo ya 39 y'amategeko y'umuryango w'ishyirahamwe ry'Uburusiya, urukiko rufite uburenganzira bwo gusubira inyuma kuva mu ntangiriro z'umugabane w'ikigereranyo dushingiye ku nyungu z'abana bato.
Ariko icyarimwe, mu gika cya 4 cyingingo ya 60 ya SC RF, ingingo yuko umwana adafite nyirubwite'umutungo w'ababyeyi arateganijwe.
Rero, ibaruramari inyungu zabana bato zirashobora gukorwa mu gice cy'umutungo uri hagati y'abashakanye hamwe mu mugabane wubukwe mu kongera umugabane wuwo mwashakanye, abana bazagumaho.
Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, nubwo hateganijwe ibivugwa mu mategeko, ibikorwa by'ubucamanza kuri ibyo bihe bidasobanutse. Inkiko zihitamo ibintu nk'izo hashingiwe ku miterere y'imanza zihariye, kandi ko abana nyuma yo gutandukana bazagumana nawe ntibisobanura ko uruhare rwawe mu gice ruzagutse.
Urukiko ntabwo buri gihe, nkuko imyitozo yubucamanza ibigaragaza, kugwa kuruhande rwababyeyi, abana bato bakomeje. Ariko niba urukiko rugeze ku mwanzuro kubyerekeye ibihe, bituma usubira inyuma mu ihame ryuburinganire bwimigabane, noneho ibi birashobora kuba bireba ibiti bitimukanwa ndetse numutungo, ushingiye kubashakanye.
Umunyamategeko Ekaterina YerMilova
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Ni iki kitazakurikizwa ku gice?
Ibi ni utsinda abashakanye, kimwe n'umutungo, nubwo waguzwe mugihe cyubukwe, ahubwo waguzwe na qualiction. Kurugero, gushyikirizwa umwe mubashakanye cyangwa twarazwe. Kandi uko byagenda kose ntibizemerwa n'umutungo uhuriweho kandi ugacikamo ibice byaguzwe abana no kunyurwa nibyo bakeneye. Rero, kubitsa muri banki, fungura mwizina ryabana bato, ntabwo ugengwa nigice kiri hagati yabashakanye, utitaye kumusanzu wafunguwe kandi abana bagumaho. Umutungo utimukanwa, cyangwa wimukanwa, ariko kwiyandikisha, ushushanyijeho izina ryumwana nazo ntagomba gukurikizwa.
Ibyo biva ku babyeyi bazagumana n'abana nyuma yo gutandukana, Bikwiye kwibukwa ko amategeko y'Uburusiya arinda uburenganzira n'inyungu zemewe n'abana bato. Kubwibyo, afite impamvu zose zo gushaka igice cyumutungo utimukanwa utarangwamo imigabane ingana, ariko ukurikije ibikenewe ninyungu zabana.
Mu rwego rwo gutanga imyanzuro isanzwe yo gutanga ibyemezo by'ababyeyi bibyeyi mu Burusiya, ikibazo cy'uko amafaranga yayo cyangwa uruhare mu mazu ari ku buryo bwo gutandukanya uburyo bwarwo bwo gucika umurwa mukuru w'ababyeyi. Rero, icyo gice cyumutungo utimukanwa, wishyurwa mu murwa mukuru wo kubyara, ugomba kugabanywamo imigabane ingana hagati yabagize umuryango bose. Ni ukuvuga, inzu yabonye ukoresheje ayo mafranga ntazagabanywa imigabane ingana hagati yabashakanye, igice kizaba itegeko ryagenewe nyirubwite.
Ibyo ari byo byose, kugabana umutungo imbere y'abana ni ikibazo kitoroshye. Ntabwo umubiri wawe ufite agaciro gusa biterwa nayo, ahubwo ni kandi imibereho myiza yabana bawe badashoboye kwigenga kwigenga inyungu zabo. Kubwibyo, igisubizo cyiza kizaba ubujurire bwo gufasha umunyamategeko cyangwa umunyamategeko wujuje ibyangombwa.