Amategeko ku butabera bwabana mu burengerazuba bwakoraga igihe kirekire. Kubwibyo, abashobora kuba bagaragaje itandukaniro rijyanye nabana "twe" na "" "Mu gihe Ababyeyi bo mu rugo ni umutobe wabo mu bibuga, imiryango y'iburengerazuba yicaye cyane muri cafe, yitonze kandi Nishimye Aguca hamwe nabana mu turere. Kumyaka myinshi sinashoboraga kumva impamvu nyayo yo gucogora. Itandukaniro ry'umuco, imitekerereze? Noneho byaragaragaye: Abanyaburayi bafite ubwoba gusa. Batinya gukubita umwana wawe kumugaragaro, batinya kongera ijwi: basanzwe bigishwa ko hazabaho "ineza" ineza "ineza" zizabamenyesha ko bitwara. Kandi "Ababyeyi bamenetse" bahora berekana mugumamana ibibanza kuri TV.
Amahame yo mu rugo y'ubutabera bw'abana bwashyizweho bwa mbere mu 1995 akoresheje itegeko rya Perezida wa Federasiyo y'Uburusiya B. Gahunda y'ibikorwa by'igihugu cy'Uburusiya B. Gahunda y'ibikorwa by'igihugu c'inyungu z'abana ", iteganya guhanga uburyo bw'abana", butunga gahunda y'ubutabera bw'abana bato. Mu ntangiriro, igitekerezo cyatwaga gusa kugaragara kw'Inkiko z'inshinjabyaha ku bana bato, kandi imiryango itatu yaguye mu rwego rw'igikorwa cy'uyu nyanja.
Ariko, amaze kumvikana, n'abaturage umubyeyi asobanukiwe ko amategeko yiteguye kwemeza mu Burusiya - inkoni ku mitwe yombi kandi ashobora gukubita ku miryango w'igihe cyubahiro, bikaba kwivanga mu bidashimishije disassembly na serivisi y'abaturage. Iherezo ryanyuma ryizi nkuru ntiriteganijwe: Abakozi b'ubutabera bwabana bazahabwa cyane. Abatavuga rumwe n'amategeko bavuga ko yibanda ku gusenya mu kigo cy'umuryango, igitero kitari cyo leta, kijyanye no kwivuguruza amahame yacyo bijyanye n'umwuka w'uburusiya n'umuco gakondo. Kubuza intangiriro yo gusoma no kwandika hamwe ninteko yishuri nitorero. Uburinganire muburenganzira bwababyeyi nabana burimo akaga gakubiyemo imibanire myinshi yimibanire yimibereho, hamwe no gukoporora impumyi ibipimo byiburengerazuba (cyane cyane bitavugwaho kuba mubyambere) ntibikiri kunshuro yambere bidafite ishingiro.
Gahunda yumushinga itera ibibazo byinshi: Kurugero, ninde uzinjira mubikorwa byimibereho bafite uburenganzira bwo kuvana umwana mumuryango? Nigute uzakurikirana ibikorwa byazo? Ni hehe byemeza ko ibikorwa byabo bitazaganisha ku byago bishya byumuryango, mugihe abana bafata, urugero, kubera gusana gusana munzu? By'umwihato cyane biba imiryango minini.
Urundi rugero: Ikirego cyo "gusiga umwana mu kaga" (ubu, iki gitekerezo cyemewe) gishobora kwakira umubyeyi uwo ari we wese wagiye mu iduka maze asiga umwana igice cy'isaha imwe mu nzu. Byagenda bite se niba umwana yavuye ku ishuri, kandi mama aracyakora ku kazi? Dukurikije amategeko mashya, ugomba kubikura mu muryango, aho igenzura ryayo ridashyirwa mubikorwa byuzuye!
Muri urwo rwego, ikibazo cyababyeyi bombi ni cyumvikana kuri leta: Bikora iki kugirango abenegihugu bato, ihumure rya psychologiya no kumubiri? Niba amateka y'ubwicanyi n'ihohoterwa bigaragazwa mu gihe cya TV, inyungu z'umwana ntizijuje ibikenewe by'imiryango, kandi nyina n'umwana bigoye kubona akazi ko gushinja ababyeyi "imyitwarire mibi" nyinshi "?
Ikintu kimwe kiragaragara: Abayobozi bagomba gufatwa nkibisubizo nkibi babitayeho cyane, nyuma yo kugenzura buri kintu cyose cyamategeko yemejwe no kwizirika ku mabuye y'amazi yose. Nta na kimwe mu mategeko ayo ari yo yose, nubwo cyaba cyiza gute, bisa nkaho, ibibazo byose byubuzima hamwe nubusabane bwabantu ntibishobora kumenyekana - hanyuma ugomba kwiringira gusa ko abayobozi umwe cyangwa ubundi. Kubwamahirwe, ntabwo yandikwa mu mategeko.