Mu myaka itandukanye, imyifatire yacu ku mibonano mpuzabitsina iratandukanye. Byose bijyanye nibikorwa bisanzwe byumubiri wacu, bishaje bidashoboka. Ariko, mububasha bwacu kubungabunga ibikorwa nubuzima, ikintu nyamukuru nukwumva umubiri wawe kandi ukakira ibimenyetso byayo ku gihe.
Gukurura biterwa na physiologiya yacu gusa, ariko no mumurage kandi uteye inkego.
Mu myaka 20, umubiri witeguye gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ya buri munsi
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Imyaka 20
Kubakobwa, iki gihe ntigihungabana cyane. Ntabwo babonye umwanya wo kumenya umubiri wabo, ntibumva igitsina cyabo. Amateka ya divayi yose, ihindura kuri iki gihe kenshi. Ikindi kintu cyibikorwa byimibonano mpuzabitsina ni imibereho. Abakobwa kugeza kuri 30 bakoresha mukwiga, gushaka amafaranga, umuntu atishimiye gusa isura yabo. Nkuko mubibona, abagore beza bafite impamvu zitari nke zo gusubika ibikorwa byimibonano mpuzabitsina kugeza igihe cyiza no kubafata nyuma gato.
Naho abagabo, imibonano mpuzabitsina yabo igera ku nyenga zidasanzwe muri iki gihe. Bahora bashaka ibyiyumvo bishya, kuburyo bidashimisha umubano muremure. Igihe kirageze cyo kugerageza, urubyiruko rero rugerageza gupfukirana abagore benshi rushoboka. Urubyiruko rutandukanya nubushobozi bwo gushimishwa vuba, ariko ibikorwa byimibonano mpuzabitsina ntibigera. Barimo gushakisha abafatanyabikorwa badacogora kandi barashobora gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina byibuze inshuro eshanu kumunsi. Ariko bizaba ibikorwa bigufi. Umugabo ntakibazo rwose, uburyo bwo gushyiramo ibitekerezo bye, ikigaragara ni uko umutwe wumunyamuryango wunvikana cyane, kandi umugabo amaze gutekereza ku mibereho ye - yubahiriza iyi ntera ikomeye . Abagore ntibihutira guhitamo urubyiruko nkurwo rubyiruko, nkuko kunyurwa numugore ntacyo bitwaye kuri we, kugeza ubu atekereza gusa.
Imyaka 30
Kumyaka 30, umugore akurura amagambo yimibonano mpuzabitsina. Afite ibitekerezo bisobanutse, ashaka, aho hamwe na bande. Hamwe no kugera kuri orgms ntakibazo na kimwe. Mubisanzwe, umugore afite umwana umwe, umugabo cyangwa umufatanyabikorwa uhoraho kuri iki gihe. Ariko, guhangayika no gutwita birashoboka bihindura ibyo bahindura kugirango byuzuze imibonano mpuzabitsina. Imisemburo yongera cyangwa igabanuka bitewe nibihe mubuzima bwumugore nubuntu rusange bwayo bifite inshingano zo kugabanya ikururago zishingiye ku gitsina.
Mu bagabo, nyuma ya 30, urwego rwa Testosterone ruguma kurwego rumwe, ariko igihe icyo aricyo cyose gishobora kujya kugabanuka. Imibonano mpuzabitsina ireka kuba intego y'ubuzima, umugabo atangira kuyobora icyifuzo cye. Muri icyo gihe, ahangayikishijwe cyane cyane nibyishimo, amushyira hejuru ye.
Kwegera ibibazo 40, byinshi kandi byinshi kumubano no mumibanire bitangira kugwa kumugabo no mubucuti, ibyo byose ntibishobora kugira ingaruka kumibonano mpuzabitsina. Imibonano mpuzabitsina itangira kugabanuka buhoro.
Nyuma yimibonano mpuzabitsina 30 itangiye kugabanuka buhoro
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Imyaka 40
Kuri benshi, hazabaho gutungurwa nuko umugore umaze kuba umugore umaze imyaka 40 ari murwego rwimibonano mpuzabitsina, byibuze urwego rwa hormone ntaho igabanuka. Muri iki gihe, umugore yumva afite icyizere: abana bakuze, umurimo urahagaze. Nk'ubutegetsi, ku bagore 40 bazabona umufatanyabikorwa uhagije rwose. Nyuma ya 45, umubiri utangira kubaka, kuko indunduro itari kure. Kugirango imibonano mpuzabitsina, iragenda neza kandi kuburyo byibuze nibura nimbaraga zidahuje.
Abagabo nyuma yimyaka 40 bumva ubwiza buhebuje, basabwa ko bakurikiza. Bafite amafaranga ahagije, bazi nkumugore kandi, cyane cyane, ibyo umugore akunda. Abagabo bamwe bararambiwe cyane numukunzi usanzwe kuburyo badatekereza, bajye kubeshya, guhindura abashakanye bemewe. Umugabo atangira gushakisha ibyumviro bishya hamwe nabakobwa bato bakururwa ninyungu zumubiri zishoboka Uhager.
Imyaka 50
Umugore ufite imyaka 50 arenga ku ndunduro, igira ingaruka mbi cyane kuri uburanga. Gukwirakwiza amaraso bigabanuka, urugero rwa Hormone "rusimbuka", kubera imibonano mpuzabitsina ihinduka inzira igoye. Nyuma yo gucugera amacunga, gukurura inyungu kubagore benshi - ndetse birakomeye kuruta mbere. Ariko birakwiye kumva umubiri wawe kandi, mugihe habaye ibibazo bikomeye, kugabanya inshuro zimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Abagabo na bo barimo gushishikazwa n'abahuje igitsina. Bumva batizeye cyane, mugihe rero babona igisubizo gito kumugore mwiza, gerageza kutayabura. Kugira ngo ukomeze imbaraga, umugabo ufite imyaka 50 akeneye kubaho ubuzima bwiza. Akenshi bakururwa nabakobwa bato, bakurikije abagabo ubwabo, barashobora gusubiza imbaraga zabo.
Imyaka yo hejuru ntabwo ishyira umusaraba kuri intima
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Imyaka 60 nayirenga
Ibinyabuzima ni intege nke, icyarimwe, kwifuza imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ariko, ndetse no muri kiriya gihe birashoboka gukomeza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina - reka tutazigera tutabona kenshi, ariko ubuziranenge.