Uburyo bumwe bwo kwigisha bushingiye ku burezi bushingiye ku kwemererwa. Umwana numuntu ufite uburenganzira bwo gukora ibyo yishimiye kubona uburambe muri ubu buryo. Nyamara, abaganga bakorana nabangavu bakurikiza ubwoko butandukanye bwabatumirwa babona impamvu yimyitwarire iyo idahari nubushobozi bwo gutegereza. Ni ukubera iki ari ngombwa cyane kuzamura imbaraga zo kwifuza mu bana?
Ishingiro ryo gukorana nangize ingimbi zishingiye ni ubuvuzi bwabarinziriza amariba ya Adrian. Amayeri ni umuhanga ufite impano, umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze y'amavuriro, umwarimu wa kaminuza ya Manchester. Yagaragaje ko gushinga kwishingikiriza bihujwe haba mu rwego rwo kugenzura ibyifuzo (bidashoboka), cyangwa "Jam" w'umuntu mubihugu bimwe bibi, bibangamiye, akaba atazi kuva byubaka (guhangayika) .
Anastasia Beck
Kudahinduka cyane. Nigihe wicaye ku ndyo. Ariko mu buryo butunguranye fungura firigo urebe cake aho. Igihe kimwe - kandi umutsima uhinduka mu kanwa kawe, ariko ntiwigeze ubibona. Ntushobora kwihagarika ikibazo cyo kubuza, byongeye, ntushobora no kwibuka uko byacitse. Mubantu bigiye mu rutonde rw'ubwana n'ubushobozi bwo gutegereza, nk'ubutegetsi, nta kibazo cy '"cake". Kuberako bafite mugihe habaye icyifuzo cyo kwinezeza muburyo bwo gufatanya feri. Impumuti nyinshi iranga ingimbi n'abakuze, bakunda inzoga n'abanywa ibiyobyabwenge. Nibyiza ko iyi atari umutungo wimiterere, ahubwo ni ubwoko bwumuryango wa sisitemu yimitsi - mugihe inzira yo kwishima ikomeye kuruta inzira yo gufata feri, muriki kibazo zizaba zitera ubwoba.
Guhangayika cyane. Mubyukuri, biterwa no kudashobora gushyiramo feri. Abantu bitera ubwoba barababaza kandi bahita bakira amakuru mabi ayo ari yo yose, barababaye cyane, bakunda "guhangayikishwa" ibiganiro n'ibikorwa bidashimishije hamwe nibyumweru. Birasa nkaho ari psyche "kwimura" ibibi, gutanga aho byubaka byimazeyo ikibazo, ibisubizo byayo, ariko ibi ntibibaho. Nkigisubizo, umuntu agwa mu bwoba cyangwa no kwiheba, inzira yo gusohoka ibona kwita ku kuri (inzoga, ibiyobyabwenge, imikino ya mudasobwa).
Abaganga bakorana nabangavu bahura nuburyo butandukanye bwibatswe babona impamvu yimyitwarire iyo idahari nubushobozi bwo gutegereza
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Ibintu 5 bishimishije kubyerekeye kudahungabanya no guhangayika
1. Impumuti nyinshi ni ubuziranenge bw'umwana kubera imidano idasanzwe ya sisitemu y'imitsi. Hamwe n'imyaka, irangwa. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, abantu bakuru badahumanye ubusanzwe barengana, bugururiwe kwisi nibitekerezo bishya, basubiza vuba amakuru nabarakamwe bose bakubiye mubikorwa, ariko nanone neza. Mu bana ni ngombwa kuzana ibintu, bisobanura imipaka. Biryoshye - Nyuma ya sasita, terefone - nyuma yo kurya nigice cyisaha imwe gusa nigice. Rero, dufasha sisitemu yo guhagarika umutima "gukura", bisobanura kurwanya ibishuko no kugenzura amarangamutima akuze.
2. Guhangayikishwa cyane cyane kubantu, mumuryango wabo wo mumutwe, basa cyane. Batekereza igihe kirekire, bapima "" kuri "na" kurwanya ", barihuta, ariko rero biragoye gusunika inzira. Niba ubona iyo mico mumwana, ni ngombwa kuyishyigikira, gutera inkunga, kurasa iyi gushidikanya no guhangayika.
3. Ikibazo cyo guhungabanya abantu nuko badashobora kuva mumitego yubunararibonye, hindura ikindi. Kuva mu induru, akenshi bahunga mu businzi cyangwa ibiyobyabwenge. Kwishingikiriza bituma barushaho kubangamira. Batuye mu cyibatsi cy'ibibazo. Imwe mu ntambwe yambere yo kwivuza ni ugukuraho guhangayikishwa nibiyobyabwenge.
4. Mu bantu biteye ubwoba kandi bidahwitse, nk'ubutegetsi, hari ibibazo byo kwitabwaho kubushake. Ibitekerezo bitaziguye nibyo tubihutisha ku manywa. Ibara ry'urukuta mu cyumba twagiye, mu maso h'ubukorikori, bwazanye gahunda - ubwo bwonko bwose bugomba kwibuka mu buryo bwikora. Ibi byerekana ko umuntu adashaka "Hove mu bicu", kandi akaba afite imikoranire bihagije n'ibidukikije byo hanze, ubuzima "hano na none", yibanda ku bidukikije cyangwa inzozi zijimye. Icyitonderwa cyinjira nikintu cyingirakamaro cyane kumibereho.
5. Hariho imyitozo yoroshye itoza abana, kandi kubantu bakuru, ni ukuvuga ko bigufasha gushyirwa mubyukuri, bityo ucungure guhumuriza no guhangayika - abapococoriurs ibihugu byingenzi. Igikorwa - Mu minota icumi yo kwibanda kumwanya. Irashobora kuba urubura, niba umanutse mumuhanda, cyangwa urusaku rwimvura. Cyangwa ibintu mucyumba - tekereza ku mpande zose, wibuke ibisobanuro by'imbere. Kora uko ubyumva gusa ko wumva uteye ubwoba cyangwa icyifuzo kidasubirwaho cyo kurya agatsima. Mbwira kubyerekeye imyitozo kubana - ni ingirakamaro kuri buri wese. Hugura igice muri bo, ubushobozi bwo kuba mukanya - ntibizigisha gucunga amarangamutima gusa, ahubwo bikabakiza abasinzi kugirango bakuze.