Niba upima indangagaciro zuzuye, ntakindi kintu cyingenzi kuruta umuryango. Ariko, uko mbibona, kugereranya hano ntabwo aribyo rwose. Byiza, umuntu agomba kuzuza undi. Umubare gusa ukurikije igihe amafaranga hamwe nimbaraga ziherekeza ziratandukanye bitewe nubuzima burimo imbere. Kubwanjye, nemeje neza ko umuryango, urema umukobwa muto mugihe cyubu bwubuzima bwanjye, birumvikana ko aribwo buryo bwibanze.
Dushingiye kuri ibi, ndateganya akazi kanjye k'umwuga, nubwo, byanze bikunze, rimwe na rimwe bitoroshye. By'umwihariko, iyo inzira yo gukosora irangiye, burigihe bisaba igihe n'imbaraga nyinshi. Nabayeho no kureka uruhare mugihe yashimishijwe cyane no kubura inzu kubera kuzenguruka urugendo. Kuri njye, umunezero wumuryango, mbere ya byose, umubano uhuza, aho nta rukundo ruhari, ahubwo wubaha, inkunga no gusobanukirwa no gusobanukirwa no gusobanukirwa no gusobanukirwa no gusobanukirwa. Kandi ntiwumve, ni ngombwa kuri njye gukiza ubu bwuzuzanya no kugwira. Ntabwo ariho igihe kingana iki mu binyejana byinshi ariko abagore bafatwaga abarijije.
Amategeko atanu:
1. Buri gihe kuva nimugoroba ndateganya ejobundi ntabwo ari ibintu gusa, ahubwo ni imbuto, imisatsi, marike. Bizigama umwanya kandi igufasha gukoresha neza.
2. Ntabwo mfata ikintu niba ntusobanukiwe uko nabikora. Ibi ntibireba gusa umuzingi wabigize umwuga, ahubwo ukanakomeza ubuzima bwa buri munsi. Njye mbona, ifasha kandi kumara umwanya guta imbona nkugerageza kutagira akamaro kugirango atsinde ibyo udafite na kimwe. Buri gihe uyoborwa na Colla: ubanza gusuzuma neza ibintu byose, hanyuma ukomeze kuba.
3. Ntekereza ko umunaniro atari impamvu yo guteka nabi kandi, cyane cyane, bigaragara nabi. Imwe mu mategeko nyamukuru amfasha kutibagirwa ko ubutumwa bw'ingenzi bushinzwe igitsina ubwo aribwo bwose bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina neza - mubihe byose bikomeza kuba umugore. Kubahiriza iri tegeko birinda ibibazo byinshi mubuzima bwite.
4. Turinda ibitekerezo byawe gusa niba mfite impaka zihagije. Iri tegeko rikwiranye ninzepuro zose zubuzima kandi zifasha kwirinda ibisobanuro bidakenewe mubucuti na bagenzi bawe ndetse nabagenzi ba hafi. Ntiwibagirwe ko icyifuzo cy'ikintu cyose cyo guharanira gutsinda mu makimbirane kitubuza imbaraga zishobora kwerekezwa ku byoremwa no kumarana cyane nabo.
5. Ntabwo mpanga mu iterambere. Ntakintu kirambiranye kuruta umugore umwe burigihe. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze ntibarambiwe gusubiramo akamaro ko kudahagarara, ariko guhora bitera imbere - ubumenyi bushya, amahirwe, kugirango bavumbura ubushobozi bushya kandi babone ubumenyi bushya. Gukurikirana imbere birakenewe kugirango umuntu utsinze.
Byongeye kandi, burigihe ndacyibuka ko:
- Uburyo bwiza bwo kwirere ni urugero rwawe;
- Mbere yo kuvuga, Nibyiza gutekereza inshuro nyinshi;
- Ntibikenewe gusezeranya ibyo utazakora;
- Ntukihutire gufata imyanzuro, ntutungire amakuru yose;
- Intsinzi izaza ku badatinya imirimo;
"Kumwenyura bitera abandi, kandi ijambo ryiza ritwara ubushyuhe.
- Mukeri muto kandi utuje uzahora imbere yintera iturika kandi ihumanya;
- Inkobe mubitekerezo bizakurura akajagari mumarangamutima no mubikorwa;
- Ntabwo bikwiye gukoresha ubushobozi bwawe, imbaraga nigihe kubatabikeneye cyangwa ngo bashima.