Urashobora kwishimira umubano nubwo umufatanyabikorwa atagushyize mubintu byose. Imyitwarire yiyongereye ireba mbere yasobanuwe nibikorwa bisanzwe byisi. Kubwamahirwe, imibare yemeza gusa umubare munini wabashakanye bafite icyitegererezo gisa nubusabane: Hafi ya 20% yo mu muryango wonyine bifatwa nk'itutsi, ukurikije gutukwa, hakurikijwe imibare y'umuryango wonyine. Gusenya ibimera bisanzwe mubihe nkibi kandi bibafasha kubikuraho.
"Ntuye kuri bose, bityo ndagumaho ntacyo."
Ibitavuga, hamwe nubushake bwo kwizinga muri twese dukorana neza. Abagore benshi baguma hamwe nabafatanyabikorwa gusa kuberako babiha - kuva mumazu kumafaranga kumyenda. Ibintu birakabije iyo umukobwa yagiye mu kiruhuko cyo kubyara kandi agumane numwana. Mu muco wacu, ntabwo bimenyerewe ko ari umurimo wo kwita ku rugo no kwita ku bana ku kazi ka none - bitezwa imbere ko iyi ari inshingano z'abasanzwe n'inshingano zera z'umugore. Mubyukuri, imisoro yo murugo hamwe nabana bashinzwe ubumuga bagomba kujya ku bitugu by'ababyeyi bombi. Nawe, kugirango utaba mu bihe nk'ibi, birakwiye ko utekereza kwirinda mu iteka mbere: Adkazi ku kazi n'umushahara munini uzashyiraho amafaranga meza kuri wewe, ariko adashobora kurokoka, ariko kwitanga umwana.
Ntukishyure amafaranga mubucuti, urukundo ni ngombwa
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"Noneho arataka, ariko rero azaza afite impano"
Amakoti yubwoya, terefone zigendanwa, imitako - Impano zose zingenzi nyuma yo gutongana numufatanyabikorwa ntabwo zivuga ku kuntu kwe no kumva ko ari umukiranutsi, ariko kubyerekeye indwara za psychologiya. Mu nyigisho z'imyitwarire itukana, icyitegererezo cyitwa uki: igishushanyo mbonera nyuma yo gushushanya no gutuza impano, umugabo agutera kwibagirwa kugirango yigarurire. Niba wumva ko ugaburira amarangamutima mabi kandi usanzwe ujya ku makimbirane, ugomba kuza kugisha inama imitekerereze yo mu mutwe - iyi niyo myitozo yayo nyayo y'uwahohotewe n'umuvuduko, utagira iherezo nta kintu cyiza.
"Ikosora - Ndimo nibaza, ariko sinzashaka"
Ntabwo byumvikana gutamba umunezero mubuzima bwawe bwite kumufatanyabikorwa mwiza mubipimo byose. Noneho ukina numutima wumugabo mugihe akureba mukunda amaso, hanyuma amenya imyifatire yawe atangira kwihorera kubinyoma. Ntukumve abivuga ko nyuma yo kuvuka kw'abana ushobora kumva urukundo no ku muntu utitayeho - ntabwo. Uzarushaho kutishima gusa kuko bafitanye isano rya bugufi nabadagushimishije, bizatukana rwose kumatonga umuryango imbere yumwana. Ntukivugire kandi ushire urukundo hejuru yinyungu - amafaranga arashobora kuboneka, ariko ntushobora kugura urukundo nyarwo.
Ubukwe ntibukwiye kuba ikintu cyingenzi mubuzima bwawe
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"Namukumbuye, yari mwiza"
Urundi rundi rwabagore batazi kwishimira societe yabo - guhangayikishwa n'imibanire yamaze kurangira. Mubisanzwe ikibazo kibangamiwe nabakobwa bato binjiye mubucuti bwabo bwa mbere. Ariko rimwe na rimwe, abakobwa bakuze bakuze bemera ikosa nkayo mugihe bahagaritse hanze: Kubabyeyi bashaka kuba basogokuru, abakobwa bakuru bashakanye ndetse nabaganga bahira mugihe gikwiye cyo gusama umwana. Gusa ubuvuzi buzakuraho leta nkiyi, aho wiyongera kwihesha agaciro, uzi ubwigenge bwacu kubitekerezo byabandi kandi ushake wenyine.