Umugabo ufite abagore benshi - inyoni yubuntu ifite libido nziza. Umugore ufite abagore benshi - udasanzwe hamwe ninshingano nke. Ariko byose murusiki ya none birahinduka numuvuduko utigeze ubaho, ndetse nabantu, birasa nkaho urufatiro rwibanze rwahindutse.
Byafashwe ko abagore basanzwe ari abagore basanzwe, kuko ari abarinzi b'imitima kandi bategetswe kuba abizerwa kuri mugenzi wabo, icara ku idirishya kandi bapfuka umukungugu.
Ariko hariho ububiko bwumugore, nigute bwo kujya mumitwe yabagore mumutwe wabagore?
Nzi neza ko "umuntu umwe ku buzima" ari igisubizo kidatewe na physiologiya, ariko gihujwe gusa n'umuvuduko w'amasoshwa n'amabwiriza ko, nkuko tubizi, byanditswe n'abantu. Kandi mu mategeko ya aya - "Menya umwanya wawe, umugore." Kandi nasobanuye aha hantu uzi uwo.
Mbere, kwishingikiriza ku gitekerezo cya rubanda n'amagorofa ya so ahinnye, yakubise kumeza mugihe atumviye, ibyifuzo nibyifuzo byurugero.
Umugore yari afite urutonde, ahateganye na buri kintu, yashyize amatiku yindi:
- Wiyiteho mbere yubukwe;
- Inda nyuma yimikorere hafi ya buri shingiro rya buri mubano;
- Riga - Tutitaye ku mibereho myiza, gutwi no kubyara.
- Kwita ku bana, urugo n'umugabo.
Kuva ku makimbirane y'imisoro, mu gukandamizwa kurambika ku bitugu, kubera kubura uburyo bwo kuringaniza umugore shyira umusaraba no kubona imibonano mpuzabitsina nk'inshingano, nyirasenge. Ibyishimo byo kuvuga ntabwo byagenze. Nibyo, buri gihe wasangaga abagore bumvise ibyifuzo byabo bakagenda mumuhanda wabyo byibuze, nubwo umuryango, kumuvuduko ukabora no gucirwaho iteka, kamere yabo. Ariko burigihe byahoze aribyo.
Ibihe byarahindutse, abagore batangaza uburenganzira bwabo buranguruye. Kugaragara kw'amagana byatanze umudendezo kuri buri mugore ibisubizo byibitsina byimibonano mpuzabitsina - gutwita, bakurikiranye abakurambere bacu.
Umugore ubwe ahitamo umufatanyabikorwa. Umva ibyiyumvo bye kandi birashobora kuvuga utuje kubitera "bidahuye ninyuguti" nkimpamvu zo gutandukana - ibitera gutandukana - ibitera imibonano mpuzabitsina, kubura igitsina.
Kandi, nka psychologue numuyoboro wigitsina, ndabona umukunzi wingenzi cyane. Umugore ufite abagore benshi muburyo bwiza bubaho mugihe runaka cyubuzima bwumugore ntabwo ari mubihe byinshi. Kandi hano hari ibintu bisanzwe mubitekerezo bifite uruhare runini bidashobora gutabwa konti.
Ikintu cyingenzi kubagabo ni amarangamutima akomeye ategeka umukunzi wimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Gusa ijanisha ryabagore gusa rishobora gutandukanya uburiri n'amarangamutima, kunyurwa kumubiri no kunyurwa. Nzi uko ibintu bimeze iyo twanze ubwiyunge bwihuse nyuma yo gutongana na mugenzi wawe, kuko icyaha kitanyuze kandi irari ntizagabanutse?
Noneho, abagabo ntibigeze batwumva muriki kibazo kandi ntibazumva, kubera ko nta cyiza kuri bo kuruta gukora uburiri.
Gutandukanya imibonano mpuzabitsina n'imibonano mpuzabitsina byuzuye, igitsina n'amarangamutima, guhaza imibonano mpuzabitsina n'amarangamutima aboneka muri bike, bityo rero umubano w'ubuntu, ushyigikiwe n'impulse ya physiologique, ntisanzwe mu bagore kurusha abagabo. Nibyo, abagabo bahindura igice cya kabiri hamwe nabagore, gusa abaruha cyane, bakundana kandi, amaherezo, kubera ko uwo mugabo ntacyo yasezeranije, kandi ntabwo yasezeranije
Ikindi gihe gikomeye: Niba ibintu byose bisabwa kubwo kunyurwa nibyifuzo byawe, igitsina, noneho tumenye ko igitsina cyiza kigaragara mugihe imbarutso yabaye, ibiyobyabwenge byizihizaga umubiri wa mugenzi wawe, ibyiyumvo byumukunzi wa mugenzi wawe, kumva ko ari ibyiyumvo. N'ubundi kandi, orgasm yumugore, bitandukanye numugabo, ntabwo ari umukanishi gusa kandi nta mwanya wo guhangana (bidashoboka kuvugana nigihe kimwe) ntibizabaho.
Hanyuma biragaragara ko kwitwara wenyine, kandi na gato, ntabwo kunyurwa nintego, ariko rero tutavuga ibibujijwe imbere, kandi hano ni byiza gukorana na psychologue, kuruta kugira uruhare mu iyimurwa ryabafatanyabikorwa.
Biragaragara ko ikintu kimwe - kubitsina byingenzi kimwe nabagabo. Abagore basohotse mu myizerere ya Dusk, gucirwaho iteka, ibyumviro by'inshingano ndetse no kumvira impumyi mu myaka myinshi. Ni bibi? Nibyiza? Buri mugore afite uburenganzira bwo kwikemurira wenyine, mbega abafatanyabikorwa bangahe, uburyo bwo kubihitamo no kubana nabadafite ubushobozi bwe cyangwa babona amahitamo akwiye kuri yo. Kandi ubwo bwisanzure buhenze.