Imibonano mpuzabitsina kumunsi wambere irashobora kuganisha ku marangamutima meza mugihe udashishikajwe n'icya kabiri. Niba ukunda umugabo kandi udatekereza guteza imbere umubano na we ukaba abashakanye, noneho igitsina kumunsi wambere ntabwo aricyo gikoresho cyiza kuri ibi. Ikigaragara ni uko urukundo rwumugabo mumigore runyura mu nzego 3:
- umubiri
- amarangamutima
- mu mutwe.
Mu rwego rwa mbere, hasi, umubiri, umugabo ashaka umugore gusa. Ku rwego rwa kabiri, amarangamutima, cyangwa, muburyo butandukanye, kumutima, umugabo yumva umunezero iyo umugore ari hafi. Hanyuma, mu nzego za gatatu, mu mutwe w'urukundo - urwego rw'umutwe - umugabo hagaragara icyifuzo cyo kwita ku mugore, gukemura ibibazo bye.
Kugirango umubano ukwirakwira mubintu bishimishije cyane, ugomba kubona umuntu mumutwe, neza, cyangwa byibuze mumutima. Ariko, ikibabaje, niba umugabo ajejeje ibibazo byimibonano mpuzabitsina nawe, inzira yawe izakenera ubuhanga bwinshi. Umugabo azabona nyirabuja gusa, kandi bizamugora kubona undi muntu muri wowe. Kubwamahirwe, imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo arikintu ushobora gukomeza umuntu. Niba umubano wawe wubatswe gusa, noneho uhagaze kuri Horizon kugirango ugaragare cyane kure neza mumaso yabafatanyabikorwa bawe, umugabo azagusiga.
Amahitamo meza nugutange umwanya wo kumenyana, guhishurira umutware nkibyiza, byiza, umugore ukenewe cyane. Uzabyumva mugihe cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi bizahinduka imbaraga nziza, kandi ntabwo ari igishishwa cyishingiro ryumubano wawe.