"Uhereye kumwenyura bizaba byiza!" - Twibutse iyi nteruro kuva ku gikarito kuva mu bwana. Ariko nkibitekerezo byiza byerekana ubuzima bwacu mumyaka mike ishize. Niba mbere yibyo ntibyasuzumye kugirango yemerwe ko arira mubuzima kandi agasangira ibibazo ninshuti, ubu biratangaje - gufata ibibi - gufata ibibi byabandi. Niki cyihishe inyuma ya mask ya guinplane, burigihe hariho inyungu zubyiza, uburyo bwo kunoza amarangamutima yawe kandi ugakora kubwinyungu zawe - tuzagerageza kubimenya.
Mu bwana bwanjye, igitekerezo cy '"ibitekerezo byiza" ntibyabayeho, abantu bishimye bitwaga bafite ibyiringiro, bitandukanye - abihereye. Yoo, urugero rwumuntu wa hafi - mama - shiraho gusa ko ntakintu cyiza kibaho kandi sinshobora. Haba tutatengushye ubuzima bwabo, cyangwa kwitonda cyane, "urujijo" urwo ari rwo wese: "Ntuzabigeraho," "Ni nde ugutegereje?". Muri ibyo birori, nkitegeko, byahanuye verisiyo mbi yiterambere. Kandi - yego, we kuko igice kinini cyarababaje, burigihe nkabona ubusembwa bwe mu isi.
Birumvikana ko uyu mwanya wateje kwangwa. Ahari, kandi mushiki wanjye yashoboraga guhinga atuje, ariko ntibibaye. Ibinyuranye, habaye imbaraga zose zari zigamije kwerekana uburyo Mama atari byiza. "Ntazakora? - Kandi nzabikora! " "Ntawe utegereje? - Nibyo, tuzabona. " Ntekereza ko gukomeretsa no guteza akaga mu buzima bwanjye byaba bike iyo ntananiye igitekerezo nk'iki kitameze neza.
Umuntu utekereza
Imva ko ibintu byose mubuzima ari ibisubizo byo guhitamo kwe. Kubwibyo, ntabwo irahira ibyago kandi ntabwo yitotomba. Ntabwo yibanda ku makosa ye. Nkuko Henry Ford yavugaga, gutsindwa nubushobozi bwo kongera gutangira ibintu byose, gusa nukuri. Niba unaniwe - humura! Nuzi ko mubihe runaka hazabaho ibihe bishobora gupfunyika neza. Hitamo ibidukikije bitera imbaraga. Isanzure ni ibinyabuzima byoroshye bisubiza imyuka yawe. Niba ukora ibyiza n'umucyo, bazakugarukira inshuro nyinshi.
Imyaka napoleon
Ntekereza ko benshi muritwe twemeye kubona ubuzima nibikorwa biri imbere muburyo bubi - bidatanga umusaruro. Kutizera n'ibirego byambuwe imbaraga n'imbaraga, bitera inkunga. Iyi ni iherezo ryapfuye. Niba utekereza ko ibintu byose ari bibi, nibyiza kutatangirira na gato. Dale Carnegie niwe wambere witanze igitekerezo cy '"ibitekerezo byiza" mumitekerereze rusange. "Ibyishimo ntibiterwa n'imiterere yo hanze. Biterwa nibiranga gahunda yimbere. Urishimye cyangwa utishimye kuberako ufite, kandi ntabwo ufitanye isano nuwo uri, aho uri cyangwa ibyo ukora; Yanditse ati: Kandi uko ubuzima bwawe bugenwa n'icyo utekereza kuri ibyo byose ".
Yakomeje ategura iki gitekerezo cya Napoleon umusozi. Mu kugurisha cyane "tekereza kandi ube umukire", yemeje ko ibyo bakeneye kugera ku ntsinzi no gutera imbere nugutekereza muburyo bwiza. Niba ibi bitabaye kandi ntiwabonye ubucuruzi bwawe gusa, imodoka nziza hamwe nigihugu, kandi ifunga ibice, yo kubara amafaranga kumushahara, - ikintu kimwe gusa: Ntabwo wari mwiza cyane. Mu nzira, Napoleon ubwe yari umuntu ukennye - Leta yamuzanye ... kugurisha igitabo cye. Ariko ni izihe mpamvu yatumye atsinda?
Gutekereza neza biha umuntu ibyiza bibiri byingenzi: Ntabwo ashinja ibizaba, ariko amenya neza intego zayo kandi ashaka inzira yo kugera kubyo wifuza
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Imyifatire yokuri cyangwa iracyafite akazi gakomeye?
John Kekho, Joe Dispenns - abanditsi bagezweho - bagiye kurushaho. Kandi, yerekeza ku mategeko ya fiziki ya kafomu, bavuga ko mu murima wa Quafyumu, amahitamo yose (harimo neza) arahari, birakenewe gusa guhuza imirasi ijyanye. Ibi bikurura gutya, umuntu yakiriye igisubizo nkiki cyisi ihanura. Tekereza ko uri uwatsinzwe - neza, ibiciro bizahora bitera kwemeza ibintu bitunguranye. Ku buryo bunyuranye, amarangamutima meza azakurura ibintu byiza. Ntugerageza no kugira icyo ukora, isanzure ubwaryo izaguha ibishoboka byose. Yatekereje aho wafata amafaranga yo gufungura ubucuruzi cyangwa kugura inzu? Kurota kubyerekeye inama numugabo ushimishije, wumucyo? Tekereza gusa ko ibi usanzwe ufite, wumva umunezero no gushimira - kandi nyuma yigihe gito ibi byose bizaza mubuzima bwawe. Nkuko ubyumva, iyi nzira ntabwo ari abakekeranya. Kandi, uko mbibona, hari amahirwe yo kubura amahirwe, yishora mu mabuye.
Smirk Joker
Ikintu kimwe kirasobanutse: Gusa fungura mask yicyizere, ntabwo ari uguhisha ububabare buri imbere. Ibinyuranye, ntabwo gutanga byerekana n'amarangamutima mabi, tubatwara byimbitse mu karere k'ubutazi ubwenge - kandi ibi ni bibi cyane. Niba warebye firime "Joker", urabona icyo nshaka kuvuga. Umuhungu, uwo mama yigishije kubona mubuzima bwiza, kwizerana no kumwenyura kubantu nubwo byose, byahindutse umwicanyi. "Gutekereza neza ni filozofiya y'uburyarya, kuko iyo ushaka kurira, arakwigisha kuririmba. Ariko mu ndirimbo nk'iyi nta mpamvu, kuko bitavutse ku mutima, ariko biturutse mu bitekerezo, "yanditse mu bitekerezo," yanditse mu bitekerezo ".
Amarangamutima mabi
Ntugerageze kurohama. Wabakubise rero mu gace kadahuje, kandi ibyo ni bibi. Kurasa, niba wumva urakaye, urira, niba bibabaje. Reka amarangamutima hanze, arekure kandi abeho.
Kwemera kubona muri byose kuruhande rwiza kandi tutabonye nabi, tugerageza kwibeshya. Ibitero, ibyorezo, intambara, urugomo, ubwicamategeko - biragoye kumvisha ko ibyo bintu bishobora kubonwa murufunguzo rwiza. Kandi rero ntabwo duhindura ukuri. Kureka ibibazo no kuzamuka mu mwoborora ku mibereho ye bwite, kumurikirwa kandi byiza ntibizagera. Inshuti yanjye nziza yanze no kuvuga kubibazo hamwe nabagenzi basangiye - bo ubwabo bagomba kuryozwa, ntabwo ari amarangamutima meza, yangiza, ibintu bibabaje byakuruye mubuzima bwabo. Yoo, uko ibintu bimeze muri iki gihe ku isi, iterabwoba, biniha ku bumuntu, byerekanaga neza uburyo bifitanye isano no guterwa na hamwe. Ninde nyirabayazana kubyabaye? Ninde utari mwiza? ..
"Kuba inyangamugayo, umurava, urukundo, impuhwe, impuhwe - zaturutse he niba nta gushidikanya? Kandi abantu bake gusa (urugero nka Gautam) bavuze ko bakeneye kubanza gukura muri bo bakamenya, kandi ukuri kwukuri kuza kugaragara muri wewe, urukundo nyarwo nimpuhwe nyabyo. Ariko ninde ushaka kubyumva uyu munsi? Turashaka gusa kuba beza kuko twe mu buryo bwiza. " Ibi kandi ni amagambo ya Osho. Ariko uyandikishe kuri ibi rwose.
Iyo ikirahuri gifite igice cyuzuye
Mubyukuri ube ibyiringiro byiza! Aba bantu ntibakeneye no kumvisha ko ikirahuri cyuzuye. Hari ukuntu hari ukuntu bibaho. Umukunzi wanjye Elena akomoka kuri aba. Ndibuka uburyo yarokotse ubuhemu bwumukunzi, bakubita ibitaro, babuze akazi. Ariko yatanze impamvu yo kuvugurura, kwisanga mukindi gice, gura inzu yawe. Byongeye kandi, igihe yagira uruhare mu nguzanyo, ntabwo byuje gutekereza uburyo inguzanyo yakwishura, ariko ibintu byose byari birenze gutsinda.
Ibihe bidashimishije
Gerageza no mu nkuru itoroshye kuriwe kubona impande eshanu zingirakamaro. Mu guhunga gutekereza muri ubu buryo, uzumva ko isi atari cinema yirabura n'umweru. Ni benshi. Kandi ibintu byose birashobora kugukinisha.
Nk'uko byatangajwe na Mirian Tracy Delofone Inzobere, ibitekerezo byiza bitanga umuntu ufite inyungu ebyiri nyamukuru: ntashishikarizwa neza, ahubwo azi neza intego ze kandi ashaka uburyo bwo kugera kubyo wifuza. Abantu nk'abo babona bacecetse, kuri bo ni impamvu yo gushakisha ubundi buryo. Henry Ford ati: "Kunanirwa ni umwanya wo gutangira, ariko usanzwe uzi neza". " "Sinihanganiye gutsindwa. Nasanze gusa inzira 10,000 zidakora ", Thomas Edison. Ariko uhitamo inzira yo kurwanya, ugomba kumva ko kwizera ubwabyo bidahagije, ugomba kandi kwihangana, kandi ubushake bukomeye.
Ku giti cyanjye, natangajwe nigitabo cyasomwe "Transsurfing ukuri" vadim zeland. Bimaze igihe kinini nshaka kwiga, ariko amaboko ntiyagezeho. Ariko mugihe cya karantine, aya mahirwe yamenyekanye. Umwanditsi agira inama yo kutarwana n'umuyaga w'umuyaga, ahubwo yizera kandi yiga kumva imigezi y'ubuzima, yerekeza ku bibaye byoroshye, atamuhaye akamaro gakomeye. Kurwanya bizaganisha ku mbogamizi zikomeye, kandi ibyabaye bizabuza imbaraga zikenewe. Muri rusange, nkuko Dalai Lama yigishije, "niba ikibazo gishobora gukemurwa, ntabwo ari ngombwa kubyitaho. Niba ikibazo kidahungabanye, ntacyo bivuze kubyihangayikishije. " Ariko kubera ko twese atari twese tugeze mu rwego rwo kubyuka no kumurikirwa, hepfo - tekinike nyinshi zizafasha nibadahindutse mubyifuzo, noneho byibuze reba ibintu kurundi ruhande.
Ukurikije ESOteric, kumva ugushimira nimwe mu bigo bikomeye by'ingufu nyinshi.
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Imyitozo ngororamubiri
Ukurikije ESOteric, kumva ugushimira nimwe mu bigo bikomeye by'ingufu nyinshi. Shira ikarita yibitekerezo byiza. Buri mugoroba, mbere yo kuryama, ibuka ibihe bitanu bishimishije byari munsi yuyu munsi, kandi bishimira byimazeyo isanzure kuri bo. Reka no kuba ikintu gito: umuhamagaro winshuti, aho batavuganye kuva kera, imisatsi mishya, igisigo cyiza cyangwa umukino wanditseho injangwe. Ongera usoze icyumweru cye, uzumva ko isi atari mubi, kandi hazabaho impamvu yo kwishima. Na none, ukurikije ihame ryibitekerezo, ibikorwa byiza bidutera kumva ko ushimira, ibyiza mubuzima bwawe bizagaragara cyane.
"Uburyo bwa bitanu" nabyo birakoreshwa mubirori cyangwa ikibazo. Tekereza kuri yo hanyuma ugerageze gushaka byibuze impande eshanu zingirakamaro kuri wewe ubwawe. Rero, urashobora kumenya ntabwo kubabazwa no kutababaye gusa, ahubwo no n'amahirwe mashya. Ntamuntu usaba gukenera kuba murugo iyo izuba rirashe kumuhanda. Nimuhumuriza kubera ko bidakenewe kumara umwanya mu nzira yo gukora, byashobokaga gusoma ibitabo bishya, nasetse ku myanda ya kera maze nshushanya, imishinga ishobora gukorwa kure.
Niba ufunzwe kukibazo, inzira nziza yo kurangaza ni imyitozo ya siporo. Kandi umubiri uzashyiraho gahunda, kandi umwuka uzatera imbere. Imyitozo ntabwo igenera urwego rwa Cortisol (imisemburo, ikorwa mu mibabaro), ariko kandi igashishikarize umusaruro wa endorphine. Kuvuga n'amagambo yoroshye, siporo ifasha ubwonko gukomera no gukora neza.
Ibihe by'ibyishimo
Kubikosora wenyine. Shira ikarita yibitekerezo byiza, aho uzandika ibintu byiza byose byakubayeho kumunsi. Nyuma yo gusoma inyandiko nyuma yigihe runaka, uzumva ko ubuzima bushobora kuba bwiza kandi bwiza.
Amagambo, amagambo ... ni izihe ngaruka bafite mubuzima bwacu ninsanganyamatsiko yingingo zitandukanye. Ubwenge bwabantu bubona amagambo yose adahwitse. Kuvuga ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, dutanga isezerano ry'ingufu. Amagambo amwe arashobora kwishyuza imbaraga nziza, gushishikariza abandi - gukomeretsa. Igitero, inda iteye isoni zitera ubusumbane, kunegura kutujuri, amazimwe itera imbaraga. Gerageza kudakoresha amagambo hamwe nigice "ntabwo": sinshobora, ntabwo bizakora. Bagereranya intege nke. Amagambo yawe agomba gutanga ibisobanuro byiza. Shakisha umubare wibisobanuro bidakwiye hanyuma ubivuge mubihe bigoye. By the way, kwemeza birashobora kumvikana nkibibazo byerekanwe murufunguzo rwiza. "Kuki abantu beza bavugana nanjye?", "Kuki washimye akazi kanjye hejuru?" - Ubu buryo bukora imitekerereze mubijyanye no kubona imbaraga zayo.
Nkuko babivuga, uwo bazakora ... kandi niba ukikijwe n'ihanwa n'abihebye, biragoye kutagwa mumyumvire rusange. Ababyeyi ntibahitamo, ariko bande kubaka umubano, babe inshuti kandi bakora - icyemezo cyawe gifatika. Byiza iyo ibidukikije bitera urugero.
Kugaruka ku kirahure cyuzuyemo igice cya kabiri, ibitekerezo byiza ntabwo ari ugusigara amarangamutima mabi. Umuntu utekereza ntabwo atanga ibigereranyo, ariko arashaka uburyo bwo gukoresha ibintu muburyo butoneshwa. Hitamo wowe ubwawe icyo ugomba gukora kuri iki kirahure ni ukukongeraho amazi cyangwa kujugunya hanze no gushyira amasahani ku gipangu.