Abahanga bagaragaje inshuro nyinshi ko abagabo n'abagore babona ukuri kandi bagafata ibyemezo ukundi. Byemezwa ko abagabo bavomera imodoka neza, kandi abagore barushijeho kwiheba no kwiheba. Nukuri?
Reka dutangire neza: biragaragara ko abona ibara ryubwonko muburyo butandukanye: Abagabo biragoye kubona itandukaniro ryicyatsi nubururu, na orange ibara risa numutuku, ahubwo kuruta abahagarariye uburinganire budakomeye.
Wigeze utekereza ko ababyeyi bashobora gutwara imodoka bavuga kuri terefone niminwa irangi icyarimwe? Kandi byose kuko ubwonko bwumugore buhujwe kunyura no gusubiza vuba impinduka. Ubwonko bwumugabo ntabwo burata ubu buhanga: kugirango ibitekerezo, umugabo amara imbaraga nyinshi.
Abahanga bavuga iki kuri ibi? Tatyana Chernimevskaya, umuhanga mu murima wa Neurosiilience na Psycholingiistiigistique na psycholilicuistiigiimistique na psycholilivistiigistigique na psycholilivistiigistigique na psycholilivistique, harahurira abantu benshi. "Mu bagore bahuza abagore, hari byinshi, ubuzima bw'ubwonko bunini cyane." Ibi bivuze ko ubwonko bwumugore bwiteguye gukora ibiganiro hamwe nabanyamuryango benshi, kubwibyo abagore - abashyikirana beza! Biragoye gutongana nibi.
Ninde woroshye kubeshya - abagabo cyangwa abagore? Abagore kubeshya cyane, kandi ntabwo ari ubushishozi bwubwenge, ariko mugikoresho cyubwonko bwe: ifata ibimenyetso bitari mu magambo: impinduka mu ijwi, ibimenyetso, ibimenyetso, hamwe na titratique gusa kubirimo gusa .
Umwarimu arahakana umugani nk'uwo: abagore bafite amateka akomeye cyane, ni amarangamutima kandi bakundana, kandi ubwonko bw'abagabo isesengura kandi bafite imibare myiza n'imibare. Mu guhitamo umwuga ntibigomba kwishingikiriza kuri stereotype.
Biracyaza rero, ni ukuri ko abagabo bo muri Mars, nabagore bafitanye na Venus? Byose biterwa nibiranga ubwonko bwumuntu: Hano hari abagore bafite imico yubushake bazata kubintu byose, kandi, muburyo, abagabo bafite intege nke, hysterical ibiranga imyitwarire yibikorwa byubwonko. Ku mumyanzuro, Neurolingwist agera kuri uyu mwanzuro, "Itandukaniro ry'umuntu rizahindura itsinda."
Ati: "Ntabwo ubwonko bwadutera kudutera imico, ariko kandi bigira ingaruka ku bwonko bwawe," Tatyana Chernigovskaya avugana no gusoza imvugo ye. Ubujyakuzimu bw'ubwonko bwacu buterwa natwe no mubyo twuzuza. Tugomba gushimangira ubwonko bwawe nubumenyi bushya, soma ibitabo byubwenge no gutera imbere mubyumwuka, tutitaye ku gitsina.