Twebwe abagore, akenshi dushinja abagabo kudafata icyemezo rimwe na rimwe kubura ubugabo. Kuki abagabo nkabo bahame bagaragara? Byose bijyanye no kureremba, cyangwa ahubwo, muburyo butari kubabyeyi bwerekanye gahunda ikomeye. Niba ufite umuhungu muto, bizaba byiza niba ukuboko kwawe kwamagana uburere bwe.
Nkuko mubizi, mumiryango myinshi, abana bararezwa, cyane cyane ba nyina na bakuru kurusha abagabo. Ndetse no mu bigo by'uburezi, abakozi ni abagore.
Umugabo, nk'ubutegetsi, ategurwa n'uruhare rw'umucukuzi, ku buryo rero na ruswa biroroshye. Biroroshye ko umugore yagiye kwa mwarimu ubwe, niba umwana we yakoze ikintu, akavugana numuhungu we kugirango arangaze umugabo we gushaka amafaranga.
Shishikariza kwigaragaza kwabagabo
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Ariko, isano ikomeye hagati yumuhungu na Data irazimira. Umugabo akina uruhare runini mu kuroga umuhungu, avuga nk'icyitegererezo kandi, niba ubishaka, uruhare. Bikomoka kuri Data, biterwa nuko umuhungu we azanezera nawe uhagarariye igitsina gikomeye cyangwa ubuzima bwe bwose buzashaka inkunga nubufasha mubagore.
Nigute ubu burere bukwiye
Tekereza
Ikintu cyonyine: Se agomba kuba umugabo ubwe, aribo: ashinzwe, gukomera, kwigirira icyizere - ntabwo yitiranya no kwigirira icyizere. Umuhungu agomba kumva ko, yibanda kuri uyu mugabo, we ubwe azageraho cyane mubuzima.
Icyakora, ntabwo Data ashobora kuba umunyangarugero mumuryango: sekuru, mukuru wawe, nyirarume arashobora kwihanganira uru ruhare.
Tangira "Uburezi" bwa Data uracyatwite
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Hamwe kugirango wishimire intsinzi kandi utange inkunga muri byose
Kubantu uwo ari we wese, inkunga yabakunzi, hamwe numusore, kumenya Data ni ingirakamaro gusa. Reka umugabo wawe atihanganira umuhungu amagambo asusurutse. Abagabo benshi bemeza ko kwigaragaza ni ikimenyetso cyintege nke, ariko mubantu bacu, abagore, imbaraga zo guhindura iyi ngingo. Gusa kumenya ko Data azahora ashyigikira kandi akumva, umuhungu azakura numuntu wihamye numuntu ushikamye.
Igisha umuhungu kwigenga
Mu itumanaho rya Data hamwe n'Umwana wayo, ni ngombwa kuzirikana igitekerezo cy'umuhungu, ni ukuvuga, hagomba kubaho interuro nk'iyi mu kiganiro, nk '"niki wakora iki?" Uru rubanza? " Kandi muri ubu buryo. Irinde ijwi riteganijwe, amagambo yo hejuru, kubera ko umuhungu agomba gutangizwa, kandi cyane cyane - kuntera inkunga mubyambere.
Vuga umubano nabagore
Aka gace ni kimwe mu buryo bworoshye: ntabwo abantu bose bavuga kuriyi ngingo gusa, ndetse nabana bakuze, kutavuga ingimbi. Ariko, Data akeneye kubikora, kuko imyifatire yumugabo numugore ni ikimenyetso cyurugabo rwe. Umuhungu asanzwe akiri muto agomba kumva agaciro k'umubano, kubaha ibyiyumvo byundi muntu kandi akagira igitekerezo cyubudahemuka.
Na none, umuhungu areba se yiga kugirango akemure urugero rwe. Niba se avuga Mama kubwubaha, hamwe nibishoboka byinshi kandi umuhungu azakurikiza urugero rwe mugihe kizaza, mugihe itangiye kubaka umuryango numugore we.
Kwigisha akazi wenyine
Umugabo agomba kandi wenyine ahora yiteza imbere nkumuntu, akureho imico mibi, agatanga umuhanda mwiza. Hano tuvuga ko atari byinshi kubyerekeye imico yabagabo nkumuntu. Kandi kugirango umwana yishimire, kubijyanye no gushyira se murugero no gutekereza: "Ariko ni gute so yageraho?" Ugomba guhora wikorera wenyine.
Byagenda bite se niba umugabo adashaka kugira uruhare mukurera umwana:
Uburere bwa Data mu muntu we bukeneye gutangira igihe umuhungu wawe yagiye mu cyiciro cya cumi, ariko mugihe atwite. Ntukamurika kandi wegure umugabo wawe mubice byo gutwita kwawe, vuga ibyiyumvo byawe, reka yumve kandi uruhare rwe.
Iyo umwana avutse, ntubikure kumuntu. Gira ubufasha umuntu uwo ari we wese, bityo atera inkunga ko ashishikajwe nacyo.
Ubareke wenyine kugirango umugabo n'umuhungu basanze ururimi rusanzwe nibikorerwa. Iyo babaye ikipe imwe, bizababorohera kubona ibibazo mugihe kizaza. Cyane cyane ko hari ibintu nkibi umugore atumva rwose.
Reka umugabo wawe abe ubutware mumuryango. Iyo umuntu ashyigikiwe, biramworohera kuvugana numwana azishimira kumarana umwanya, asobanura imi nsanganyamatsiko yimikorere idahwitse kuri nyina.
Siga So wenyine n'umuhungu wawe
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Nkuko mubibona, nta mugabo nkuyu yaba se mubi muri kamere, bahinduka mubihe, rimwe na rimwe bahujwe numugore. Kubwibyo, mububasha bwawe bwo gukora byose kugirango abantu bawe bombi babone ururimi rusanzwe kandi babaye inshuti mubuzima.