Ababyeyi bahora bifuza ibyiza gusa kubana babo gusa, ariko mubihe bimwe imyifatire yabo kuri abaragwa biragoye guhamagara ubuzima bwiza. Ntabwo ari ihohoterwa ry'umubiri, ariko ntigaragara, ariko ingaruka mbi zo gusenya - ihohoterwa ryo mu mutwe, nyuma y'umwana bigoye gushinga umuntu. Nk'ubutegetsi, ababyeyi nk'abo bashyize imbere y'umwana, bisaba ibisubizo byihariye.
Turagutumiye kumenyera ibimenyetso nyamukuru byababyeyi bafite uburozi.
1. urubuga - byose
Ababyeyi bakunze kwizera ko ari inka itoroshye mumuryango, urashobora kubyutsa imico yujuje ibisabwa byose. Abana mumuryango nkuyu "babaho" mu kiruhuko hagati yimyumvire y'ababyeyi: Uyu munsi ushobora byose, ejo ni ikibazo cyo kunegura no gutukwa, reba, ni ubuhe bwoko y'umuhungu mwiza kuva nyirasenge Luda ntabwo aribyo ".
Ni ngombwa gushaka inshuti, ariko gukurikiza intera
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2. Abakuze bazi neza, ariko ntushobora gukora uko byagenda kose
Mu bihe nk'ibi, umwana ashinzwe ibyemezo bidakwiye byabantu bakuru. Umwana atangira kwizera ko Data ari gake igaragara mu rugo, kuko we, umwana, ntabwo yahuye n'ibyitezeho.
Kandi igitekerezo cy'umwana ubwacyo ntikizirikana: "Yongeye kubyumva iki?" - Ababyeyi batekereza, mugihe batababujije kumukurura mumakimbirane hagati yabantu bakuru.
3. Uraruta abantu bose, ariko baracyariho - ntawe
Ababyeyi - Narcissus nikibazo gikomeye. Arindiriye ibisubizo byinshi bivuye ku mwana, kandi igihe Chado ashaka ibyo bamusabye, batangaza ngo: "Nibyo, byakozwe neza." Intsinzi iyo ari yo yose ifatwa nkaho igomba kuba irababaje gusa, mama na papa na papa, na papa, kandi barafunze ku buryo buhoraho bwo kugera ku bisubizo bihanitse. Mu gihe umwana adashobora gutsinda ubwo burebure ababyeyi n'ubuhinzi bubi bamubaza, atangaza gusa ati: "Witeze iki? Umeze nka buri wese, niba atari bibi, "nubwo umwana yari umunyeshuri mwiza kandi afite ubwibone bwabo.
Kuraho umwanya wawe
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4. Muri wowe inenge nyinshi, ariko ntutekereze no kubakosora
Hashingiwe kuri ibyo, biroroshye kubara umubyeyi udafite umutekano, ukina ku mwana we bwite, wongera akamaro mu maso ye. Kenshi na kenshi, umwana aranengwa kubera isura, kuko aribyo byoroshye. Kandi rwose ntakibazo niba umwana afite inenge cyangwa ataba abumva - arashobora kubahisha.
Umubyeyi nkuyu azahesha agaciro kugirango arwanye umwana kugerageza guhindura ikintu ubwacyo, kuko noneho umubyeyi ubwayo azatakaza ubuyobozi nk'ubwo.
5. Jya ugerweho, ariko ntukore nabi kuyobora
Umwana yatewe no kugera ku ntego n'uburyo ubwo ari bwo bwose, ariko icyarimwe agomba kuguma mu rwego rwo kureba nyina cyangwa se, kugira ngo ayindike. Mu miryango nk'iyi ushobora kumva: "Kuki utatangirira abo tuziranye? Ukeneye amasano. Ariko si uyu munsi, kubera ko ugomba kumfasha mu kintu kimwe. " Ibyifuzo by'umwana, niba badahuye n'ababyeyi, bahora birengagizwa.
6. Kora ibyo babwiwe, ariko mugihe ibyatsinzwe na vini wenyine
Mu miryango nkiyi, ubuzima bwumwana buteganijwe kuva mu bwana, kugeza mubukwe. Ababyeyi bafata inshingano za nyiri iherezo ry'umwana, gusa azi uko umukobwa we cyangwa umuhungu we abaho. Iyo habaye kunanirwa, umubyeyi nk'uwo agaragaza umwana w'icyaha, agira ati: "Nakubwiye!"
Nubwo hari ibishoboka byose, ababyeyi bamwe baracyasuzugura abana babo
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7. Iyo urya! Ugiye he?
Icyifuzo cy'umwana cyo gutandukana - burigihe ibisanzwe, ariko ntabwo ari umubyeyi w'uburozi, "" utabishaka "kubyara kandi arera umwana. Mu gusobanukirwa kwabo, gutandukanya ababyeyi kubana nabana bibaho, ariko ahantu kure cyane, ntabwo ari hano. Ibi byose ntibibangamira umwanya kugeza igihe cyo kwanga metero kare.
Niki gukora nuburyo bwo kwitwara niba "wafashe" ababyeyi bawe uburozi?
Ntabwo buri gihe kwimukira muyindi nzu birashobora gukemura ikibazo: Ntakintu kibuza ababyeyi kukugiraho ingaruka, kuba kure cyane. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa guteza imbere ingamba zimyitwarire:
Kubaho kubwamategeko yawe gusa.
Ntukemere ko gahunda yawe.
Kora nkuko wowe ubwawe utekereza ko ari ngombwa.
Wubahe inyungu zawe.
Ibi byose ntibisobanura ko ari ngombwa kuva kubabyeyi, gusa ushyiremo imipaka idashobora guhungabana cyangwa ababyeyi bawe.