"Kuvura ibiyobyabwenge gusa!"
Alina Makkaya, ushinzwe imibereho myiza "Clene" hamwe na NarcodisPasser No. Iyi idasanzwe, Serivisi yonyine i Moscou yishora mubyitwa " Ntabwo byoroshye kwinjira mubitaro byibiyobyabwenge, ntabwo bizakora mumunsi umwe. Kandi dore umurimo wa alina - kugabanya iki gihe byibuze.
- Imyumvire isanzwe y'ababyeyi iyo babonye ko umwana wabo akoresha: "Dukeneye abaganga n'abatonyanga!" Byemezwa ko nyuma yibitaro, umuntu byose bizaba byiza. Ariko gusa nubuvuzi bwubuvuzi ntibishoboka gukemura ikibazo! Indwara ni ikintu kitoroshye, kigoye, kandi ni ngombwa kuvura mu buryo bwuzuye: detox, gusubiza mu buzima busanzwe, ubujyanama bw'igihugu, itsinda "ibiyobyabwenge" bitinda.
- Kandi nkwiye gutangira he?
- Niba ababyeyi, noneho ugomba kubona terefone iyo ari yo yose itazwi - ubu "imirongo ishyushye" iri muri buri kiyobyabwenge. Dufate ko ubona ko hari ikintu kibaye - mubintu byo munzu bizimira, ubwoko bumwe bwibimenyetso, ariko umuntu ahakana byose. Kandi ugomba kwerekeza ku mfunzo kandi wumve ibibera. Nibyiza, abishingiwe cyane bagomba kumvikana - niba afite icyifuzo cyo gufatwa.
- Moscou ibigo bivura ibiyobyabwenge bya Leta bingahe?
- Ibitaro bitatu bya ibiyobyabwenge - MnPC Carcology ("NineStone", ibitaro No 19), ibitaro № 17 n'ishami ryayo i Annino. Hano hari rigari, mubyukuri, imwe - hamwe na mnps ibiyobyabwenge. Kugirango ugere mu buzima busanzwe utanyuze kumena kwambere ntibishoboka.
Niba uhisemo kujya mubitaro, witegure kuri mashini ya bureucratique - ugomba gukusanya ibyangombwa. Shiraho ubutaha.
Kubatuye Moscou. Pasiporo cyangwa ibisobanuro, bisimbuza. Udafite pasiporo, ntuzafatwa kugirango uvurwe. Ibikurikira: Polis cyangwa urupapuro rwigihe gito hamwe numubare uzaba wuzuye. Icyerekezo kiva mubiyobyabwenge (ariko mubiyobyabwenge bya MNPC, urashobora kuza "kwigira" hanyuma wandike amagambo aho hano). Ibisubizo by'isesengura rya Syphilis na VIH - mu biro bitazwi ntibyemewe! Fluorogram cyangwa gusohoka ku ikarita hamwe n'ibisubizo by'ubushakashatsi bwa nyuma. Ariko, ubu ihame, ubu mubitaro bya ibiyobyabwenge hari amahirwe yo gukora flurography.
Niba hari ibibyimba cyangwa ibimenyetso byo gutabara biherutse kubaga - icyemezo cyo kubaga kuburyo nta bitekerezo byo mu bitaro. Niba umugore atwite - icyemezo cya muganga wabagore, ko ibitaro bidafite ishingiro (ariko birashoboka cyane ko batazatwite). Niba hari virusi itera sida, gahunda yo kuvura irangi irakenewe niba umuntu asanzwe afite imiti. By the way, hamwe na virusi itera sida bifata inzira iyo ari yo yose - ndetse vuba aha habaye imbogamizi.
Niba udafite inyandiko ya Moscow, reka tuvuge ko ukomoka mukarere ka Moscou. Usibye inyandiko zashyizwe ku rutonde, ukeneye t. N. "Umutuku Coupon" - Icyerekezo kiva mu buzima bwa Moscou. Kugira ngo ukore ibi, fata icyerekezo kiva mubiyobyabwenge, hanyuma ubaze ibitaro bya ibiyobyabwenge bya Moscou hanyuma ugafatamo ko ukeneye ubufasha, kandi niho byiteguye gutanga. Kandi hamwe nibi, abantu bose bajya mu ishami ry'ubuzima.
Ibiyobyabwenge ntibifata: nta nyandiko, ubushyuhe n'indwara zidakira: diyabete, ibisebe. Abagore batwite.
- Ibi byose birakenewe kugirango tugere kuri Detox. Kandi bimara bangahe?
- Iminsi 21-28. Noneho umuntu agwa mu buzima busanzwe. Hagati aho, umuntu arimo kuvurwa, arakenewe gukorana na bene wabo. Kandi ibi biragoye cyane kuruta ibyo twishingikirizaho ubwabo. Bibera mumuryango ingingo yibiyobyabwenge irafunzwe cyane kuburyo ifite ipfunwe ndetse no kumakuru muri Dispensary yo kugenda. Iburyo buteganijwe buteganijwe: Ubusinzi - Mubisanzwe, ibiyobyabwenge - biteye isoni.
- Birashoboka rwose gukusanya iyi mpapuro zose?
- Ijanisha rinini ryo guterwa ntirigera kubitaro kubera kubura. Izi nyandiko rwose ni ngombwa. Ariko niba ukusaba wenyine, bizatwara byibuze iminsi itatu - ibiruhuko, umunsi utemewe, ntuhita utange urupapuro. Kandi mubuzima bwuwatunzwe muminsi itatu ikintu cyose gishobora kubaho - ifatwa, gusabwa, gusenyuka mumarangamutima, gusa byahinduye imitekerereze. Cyane cyane niba uyu ari umuntu uherutse kurekurwa kandi nta nyandiko. Umuntu wizingabanya ibiyobyabwenge nta mfashanyo iyo ari yo yose biragoye kunyura muriyi nzira yose. Ariko mu "ivu" ryacu hari serivisi iherekejwe - umukozi ushinzwe imibereho myiza azafasha gukusanya inyandiko, gukora isesengura, yatuma ayobora umuntu kubitaro.
Inzozi zacu zubururu ni ugushiraho sisitemu yibi bipfunyika muri moscound nubwoko "idirishya rimwe". Noneho umubare wabantu bahawe ubuvuzi bwibiyobyabwenge, mubyukuri.
"Kureba Inyangamugayo kandi ube hafi"
Umukobwa wa Irina ntabwo akoresha ibiyobyabwenge imyaka 4. Irina ubwe ajya mumatsinda kubabyeyi banywa ibiyobyabwenge "NAR-ANON", nanjye, imyaka 4. Kimwe n'umubyeyi uwo ari we wese, yizeraga ko ari ngombwa gutangira gushakisha umukobwa we wo gusubiza mu buzima busanzwe. Ariko biragaragara, byari ngombwa gutangirana nanjye.
- Nkore iki kandi ni ubuhe butumwa busanzwe bugira ababyeyi? Noneho nta algorithm - iyo ntekereje kuri njye ubwanjye iyo numvise abandi, ndumva ko buriwese afite ubundi buryo. Ariko mugihe niga mubyukuri ndeba ubwanjye nubuzima bwanjye, biranshingana kuri njye.
- Niki - "reba neza"?
- Benshi ntibazigera bumva icyo bivuze. Nanjye nanze kuhanwa, nanjye, kimwe nabandi bavandimwe batunzwe, ntibyasobanukiwe. Nasaga naho mbona ari ugufasha gukora ikintu, nk'ubutegetsi, ku muntu. Kandi ugomba kumuba hafi, kandi ntumukorere byose.
... Mu ntangiriro, igihe namenyaga kubyerekeye kwishingikiriza ku mwana wanjye, yarambwiye ati: "Mama, ntubona ko ibyo byose bigaragara?" Yasobanuye ubuzima bwacu. Kandi nari nkeneye imyaka myinshi njya kureba ubuzima bwanjye n'imibanire yacu kandi tukamenya: Yego, biragaragara. Sinigeze mbona igihe kinini kidashoboka kutirengagiza, nagize ko ibintu byose byari "kurushaho cyangwa bike." Nyuma natangajwe nimara kwatura: "Yego, Mama, nari nzi neza ko nzabona ibintu byose mu biganza byanjye!"
Umukobwa yahise ashyiraho ikigo ngororamuco, ariko mubyukuri umubano wacu watangiye gutera imbere, ni uko nakiriye neza isi, imyitwarire kandi ko ntemereye umukobwa wanjye gukura, buri gihe yashakaga kuzamura ibyatsi, ahora ashaka kuzenguruka ibyatsi, byaragabagiriye ibibazo. Kandi ntiwumve, byari bibi ku buryo nabonye ibyiza. ... kandi ubu ndabona imanza iyo ababyeyi baha amafaranga ibiyobyabwenge, na bo ubwabo barabibona baravuga bati: "Azapfa atayifite." Ububabare bw'indwara burakomeza, kandi ababyeyi batekereza imyitwarire yabo, bibwira ko bakora ibyiza ... Ndabona cyane ko, nkanjye mbere, mu mperuka, ntibazi icyo gukora.
Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa cyane kwishakira amakuru menshi kubyerekeye iyi ndwara bishoboka, uburyo bigira ingaruka kumyitwarire yabaterwa no kuba hafi.
Nkuko nize kwireba mubyukuri, ibintu byose byatangiye kunonosora. Nyuma yo kwihorera, umukobwa yagize ihungabana rirerire cyane, byari igihe kitoroshye. Nahise niga muburyo bushya bwo kuba hafi (nta kugenzura, kubara, gutegeka, manipilations, nibindi), kumva, kuvuga ubunyangamugayo. Kurugero, ku ngingo "Kuki utuye?". Ntabwo byanyoroheye. Ariko umurava, ubushyuhe, gusobanukirwa byasubijwe mubucuti bwacu. Kuri njye, iyi ni umunezero mwinshi.
Noneho, mugihe ibibazo bimwe bifite ibibazo bimwe, arabisangira, kandi ndamutega amatwi nitonze, ariko ntagerageza kubifata kandi sinshaka kubijyana. Birumvikana ko yahisemo, uko ameze muri kano kanya. Ariko ni nkabandi bose. Hariho gukura. Umuntu atangira kwiyubaha, yishimiye ko afite icyo akora, kubera kumva imbaraga ze zubuzima.
- Haba hari inama zateguwe kubabyeyi?
- Yego, birumvikana ko hariho. Ndagerageza guhora mbibuka, baramfasha cyane. Bahamagariwe bati: "Bite ho gukora n'icyo kidakora?"
- Gerageza guhora wujuje ibiyobyabwenge byose kubashorazwa kugirango ubaze ubufasha.
- Wibuke ko ukeneye gushakisha no kubona ibyiza mubandi bantu no muriwe.
- Ntugafate icyaha kubikorwa byabandi bantu.
- Ntukareke, ntukajye impaka, ntusome imico kandi ntukibuke amakosa ateyenkunga (nabandi bantu).
- Ntugerageze kurinda, gupfuka cyangwa gukiza ibiyobyabwenge ibiyobyabwenge.
- Ntugabanye kwihesha agaciro kandi ntukabe igitambaro amaguru ahanagura.
- Wibuke ko kwizizirwa ari indwara, kandi ntabwo byananiranye.
- kandi dusure amatsinda yo kwifasha kubavandimwe?
- Yego. "Tangira gahunda yo gukira ntabwo ari ibiyobyabwenge bitwara, ariko wenyine. Sura amatsinda ya Nar-Anon kandi wige gufasha ibiyobyabwenge byubaka. "
Iyo kubwimpamvu runaka sinshobora kujya muri iryo tsinda, narabivuze nti: Hano ntabwo uri umuntu utunzwe na chimique, ariko ntujya mwitsinda. Nigute ushobora gutegereza umuntu utunzwe na chimique gushaka gukira ?! Kandi ibi (burigihe!) Byamfashije gutsinda ubunebwe, kudashaka no kwiheba, kwiheba, kutitabira ubutumwa. Byose bihujwe.
- Biroroshye "kudafata inshingano"?
- Guhangayika birangiza. Nirukanye ibitekerezo bibi igihe cyose aho kwibuka ko bombi kandi umwana wanjye yari afite inzira ye. Nahungabanije amaganya cyane. Natekereje byose: "Byagenda bite niba hari ikintu kibaye!" Ariko byagenze uko byagenda kose. Rero, amaganya ntiyafashe.
- Ababyeyi ntibashobora kukwumva: Bishoboka gute guhangayika?
- Hagomba kubaho igihe cyo kumenya amakosa yawe. Kandi bafite imizi yimbitse. Amatsinda menshi yibuka uko byari mu miryango yabo, kuko byari bishingiye kubabyeyi babo.
- Kandi uribuka ibyo nabo ubwabo bari hashize imyaka 4?
- Yego, ndibuka neza. Kumenagura byuzuye, kwiheba, kwiheba, kubabara, kumva biteye ubwoba ibibazo no kwicira urubanza ... Ndabyizeye igihe cyose mbona umuntu waje mumatsinda bwa mbere. Ariko, uko bavuga bati: "Nta makuba adashobora kuboroha, kandi nta kibazo kidashobora kunozwa." Mbikuye ku mutima ndashaka gusangira ibyiringiro nabakeneye ubufasha! Nturi wenyine, kandi uzabibona rwose!