Bahinduka intandaro yo gutongana, gusenyuka mumiryango kandi bituma abantu basenga abantu bagenda inzira zitandukanye. Banga abagore n'abagabo babatekerezaho buri gihe. Uyu munsi turimo tuvuga kuri nyirabuja. Igishimishije, abagore bamwe bahindukiye ba nyirabuja (niba, birumvikana ko batatera umuryango wabo), nkumukobwa uhinduka ishyari, ashoboye kugoreka igishushanyo hamwe numuntu ufite umutekano utabangamiye impano zihenze n'ibimenyetso byinshi. Ariko birakwiriye kugirira ishyari umugore niba agomba guhora agenzura amarangamutima no guhimba inkuru nshya kubagenzi n'abavandimwe? Ntutekereze. Tuzabwira impamvu enye zizakwica mubyukuri ko ibya gatatu mumibanire bidasubirwaho.
Igihe cyabuze cyo kudasubiza
Nubwo umugore atize gute umugore niba amayeri amara imyaka, birashoboka ko umuryango uzasenyuka kugirango umugabo yubake umuryango hamwe na nyirabuja, muto cyane. Nk'uko itegeko, umugabo arahagije ko ahora afite aho ashobora kwirukana mu nzu niba kutumvikana hamwe n'umugore we. Ariko ubworoherane, umugabo azagaruka asubira murugo, asiga nyirabuja kugira ngo ahure ategereje inama itaha. Birashoboka kugirira ishyari umugore umara umwanya mubitero?
Ubuzima ku nshingano za kabiri
Umugabo afite umubano kuruhande, mugihe ubuzima na monotony yubuzima bitangira kumukoresha vuba. Nyiricyubahiro mumaso yumugabo ni umugore uko bishoboka kwirinda ubu buzima no kuruhuka kuko bidashoboka hamwe numugore we kubwimpamvu zitandukanye. Umugabo ntabwo yubaka gahunda zikomeye, bityo rero, kandi ibyifuzo bye bizahora muburyo. Nyirabuja ahora kuri pickup, kandi ibintu nkibi bizategura umugore muto.
Kudakirana mu mibanire bitera imihangayiko idakira
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MIS MAKEN MU BIKORWA BYA Nyiricyubahiro - Nta mwanya afite. Yaba umuryango cyangwa inshuti cyangwa abo mukorana cyangwa abo mukorana cyangwa abo mukorana ntibazi kubaho kwayo, ariko nanone bigomba guhisha, kwirinda amafoto rusange ushaka guhoberana wawe, ariko ntibishoboka. Ni ngombwa ko umugore uwo ari we wese yumva ko afite inkunga, ariko umugabo wubatse ntashobora kubitanga kuberako biterwa numuryango we, bivuze kumeneka mugihe icyo ari cyo cyose kugirango afashe umukunzi we kuruhande ntashobora. Iyo kumva umutekano muke utangiye kubona imbaraga, ibintu byose birashobora guhagarika gusenyuka h'amakimbirane hamwe na coterel nini, izaterana no gutandukana na nyirabuja, ariko ntibizababaza uyu mugabo - ariko ntibizababaza uyu mugabo - ariko nta na nyirabuja ashobora gusimburwa byoroshye.
Bidashoboka kwerekana ibyiyumvo
Ku mugabo, a nyirabuja ni ikinyurana n'umugore we, bishobora kwitotomba, gusobanuka mu rugero, mu bihe bimwe na bimwe bigoye kumera nk'umugabo we. Imyitwarire nkiyi ya nyirabuja izahagarika umuntu vuba. Kubera iyo mpamvu, umuhanga mwiza rwose, nyirabuja ahatirwa kwihisha no kugerageza kutababaza umugabo ushaka kwidagadura mumaboko yuwa kabiri. Niba umugore yemeye ubucuti bubi "butemewe, agomba kuba yiteguye ko bizahora biterwa numyumvire n'ibyifuzo byumuntu. Ntabwo ari byiza cyane, ntubone?