Abakobwa benshi baracyari mu bwana, Mama yagize ati: "Abahungu bashyingirwa gusa ku bakobwa beza gusa, basigaye baragenda." Iyi ni umugani uhamye utera imbere ibisekuru.
Turasaba kumenya uko ibintu bimeze mubyukuri, bikayoborwa nabagabo muguhitamo mugenzi wawe cyangwa umukobwa mumateraniro menshi.
Byose biterwa na buri muntu uhagarariye Igorofa, abagabo bamwe bakomeza kuba bazima ubuzima bwabo bwose kandi ntibagiye kurongora mubihe byose, abandi, kubinyuranye nabyo, bategereje kenshi kandi kenshi.
Nukuri ko abagabo nkabakobwa babohowe cyane, ariko, barashyingiranwa "murugo"?
Mubice, ibi ni: Iyo umugabo akiri muto, akunze gukurura abakobwa mumajwi ya readand hamwe nibitekerezo.
Umuntu wese afite icyerekezo cye cyumugore mwiza
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Nibisanzwe, kuko amakuru yo hanze atera inzira runaka mubwonko bwabagabo: urwego rwa hormone rwiyongera, kandi umubiri wakiriye ikimenyetso, kandi umubiri wakira ikimenyetso ko imbere yacyo kibereye ikintu cyimiterere. Niba ibintu byose bigenda neza, umukobwa atanze uburwayi bwa cavalier, arashobora kwirata inshuti ze, kandi icyo umusore, ibikorwa byinshi byimibonano mpuzabitsina hamwe nabagore batandukanye arashaka gukora. Ku myidagaduro yijoro rimwe cyangwa ebyiri, umubano nk'uwo ntukinjira.
Afite imyaka ku mugabo, haguye imirimo myinshi, atangira gusaza, n'abavandimwe ".": "Uzarongora ryari?" Mu buremere bw'inshingano no gutangira ibibazo mu buzima bw'imibonano mpuzabitsina, umugabo atangira gutekereza ku muryango we.
Noneho ubwiza bwimyambarire magufi burahagurutse inyuma, guhitamo bibatera ubukana, umugore uzaza agomba kuba yujuje ibitekerezo byumuntu kubyerekeye umurinzi mwiza wishema.
Inzozi z'abagabo benshi zihutira iyo zumva ko nyirabuja mwiza, nyirabuja ushishikaye kandi umubyeyi wuje urukundo ashobora guhuzwa numugore umwe. Ingingo imwe cyangwa nyinshi rwose "izarwanya". Ibiteganijwe cyane ntibikunze gutsindishirizwa, cyane cyane niba umugore, usibye imicungire y'urugo, nazo nkora.
Umugore ntashobora guhuza imico nubuhanga byose umugabo agitegereje kuri we
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Ariko, nubwo umugore afite ubumenyi bwavuzwe haruguru, imico ye irashobora kuba kure yicyiza: Reka tuvuge, yitwara neza, yitwara neza, ariko wenyine hamwe numugabo we uhinduka murihu. Uyu mugabo mubisanzwe ntabwo azirikana kandi agwa byoroshye igikundiro cyabagore.
Kubwibyo, umugore utunganye ni umukobwa wiyoroshya cyane mumuryango mwiza, bibaho ko ubwiza bwurutare bushobora gukonjeshwa no kuva mumuryango.
Kandi hariho kandi ubwoko nk'ubwo bw'abagore umuntu adashaka guhura cyangwa gushaka:
Shobuja
Aba bagore bariyobora, ntugakomanuke umuntu uwo ari we wese, ndetse n'umugabo we ndetse n'umugabo we. Mubisanzwe aba banza kumenyana numugabo no kwihuta nk'ikigega, yizera ko intego ifite ishingiro. Abagabo, nk'ubutegetsi, bava muri Madame nk'abidayimoni baturutse i Ladan.
Gukora umuryango ukomeye wimbaraga ni ngombwa cyane guhurira hamwe ninyuguti
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Jeep
Agenzura terefone y'umugabo kugeza abonye, azi ijambo ryibanga ryose mu mbuga nkoranyambaga, kugira ngo agere ku mico y'umugabo we, kugira ngo atazamuka afite urwitwazo nyuma yo guhura na kimwe muri byo . Umugore nkuyu ntakizana ariko kurakara no guhumeka.
Umukobwa wa Mama
Mama azi umukobwa wumukobwa we ndetse birenze. Umugore ahora abwira nyina birambuye kubintu byose bibamo kandi cyane cyane mubuzima bwe. Ntabwo bishoboka ko umugabo ateganya kuzuza hamwe numugore we na nyirabukwe.
Amazimwe
Ntushobora kuvuga ku kindi kintu, usibye ubuzima bw'abaziranye n'incuti zawe, hanyuma muganire ku bintu nk'ibi basabye ko bakurikiza ibanga. Ntabwo bitangaje kuba abagabo akenshi batahagarara bakabatera.
Kugira ngo uwo mugabo yaje gufata icyemezo cyo gutanga igitekerezo, ntukeneye kwitwara mu rwego rwamashusho amwe hanyuma ugerageze kuba mwiza. Abagabo bakurura abakobwa karemano badatinya kuba ubwabo.