Niba nshaka kuba umuyobozi wa firime amwe, rwose nakongeraho igitekerezo cyumugambi wo kurota nshoboye kugera kubisobanuro muriyi nkingi.
Kugirango nsobanure izo nzozi, nkeneye gushushanya amayeri. Niringiye uburyo umuryango wacu, umurage we winvikana ugira ingaruka kubakomokaho. Anselyin Schzinicer mu gitabo "Syndrome y'abakurambere" yasobanuye mu migwi imwe mu nzira zishimishije zo kugira uruhare mu muryango, hatitawe ku buryo umuryango ushyigikirana cyangwa udashyigikiye na gato. Gukurikira, kuba indahemuka ku migenzo yo mu muryango n'amategeko y'umuryango, akenshi impumyi zakurikiyeho, yitwa Ubudahemuka. Ubudahemuka ni isano dufitanye ninkomoko, ibi ni ukumva ushishikajwe no kwishora mu gihome cyawe.
Gushyikirana n '"paki", hamwe numuryango, ntukeneye kuba mwiza na gato. Muburyo bwo gukurikira ibikoresho byumuryango, ntacyo bitwaye uburyo umubano wacu n'umuryango ugerwaho muburyo bwiza. Anselyin Sharzzberger aganisha ku ngero zitangaje z'ibintu bisa mu buzima bw'imiryango: indwara zimwe ziteje akaga mu kinyejana kimwe kigeze ku bakurambere n'abazabanaga batigeze bamenyana. Ibintu bimwe na makinamico, kuvuka cyangwa gutanga abana, umubare w'abashakanye no gutandukana. Rimwe na rimwe birasa nkaho umuryango usubiramo gusa ibyabaye munsi yimodoka. Birashoboka, kubwineza yacu, ibisubirwamo, bifite ibisobanuro byinshi. Ahari ubu busobanuro ntibugaragaraho ukundi gufatwa numuryango, ariko muri rusange ibintu byumuryango bitera iyi miterere yicyerekezo cyiza. Bityo rero yageze ku mubonano ukomeye cyane n'abakurambere.
Inzira yo kugira uruhare mu bagize umuryango kuri buriwese ifite amatsiko cyane
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Iyo umuntu asezereye amateka yumuryango kandi asanga itumanaho hagati yabo numurage wacyo, abone amahitamo atoroshye. Urashobora guca intege umubano numuryango, kugirango ugaragaze umudendezo wo guhitamo amwe mumateka yayo, ashobora kutageragezwa mumuryango.
Ahari kuba umukire wa mbere mugihe ibisekuruza byinshi bisubira inyuma, bikizwa kandi birambuye, byagize ubukene bwose.
Birashoboka gukora umubano wigihe kirekire mugihe nta nkuru zumubano wishimye mumuryango, ariko hariho amateka yibihombo, igihombo, ubuhemu. Ariko rero ugomba kureka kugerageza gukora isano ikomeye hamwe nuburyo bwawe kavukire ukomeza ubudahemuka ntarengwa.
Umuntu uzi ko yishyira hamwe n'umuryango we azi ko iyi sano itazi neza ko ari ngombwa kugira ngo dusobanukirwe n'ubuntu mu muryango utoroshye, nk'urugero, nk'umubyeyi, atari abagabo; Nka papa, gerageza kubaka ubucuruzi bwawe butananiye kandi ubaho.
Noneho, nkikigereranyo cyibi bikoresho, abitabiriye iyo nyigisho bavuze inzozi. "Nyobora itsinda rya Zombie. Batanga amaraso mumitsi no guhaza. Ntakintu kibi kubandi nticyikora, ahubwo gitangira kwerekana imbaraga zabo: gukuramo, kuzamuka ku rukuta, wiruka kumuvuduko mwinshi. Nshobora kumera, ariko ntinya ubwo bubasha. "
Ibisobanuro bito: Ukurikije ibintu bizima, amaraso ni isano numuryango. Bulgakov yaranditse ati: "Ikibazo cyamaraso nikibazo kitoroshye, umwamikazi '.
Birashoboka, ingorane nukumenya umubano wingenzi numuryango kandi, hamwe nibi, uburenganzira bwo kwigenga ni ngombwa kugirango twishyure iyi sano.
Inzozi z'inzozi ko kubona imbaraga ze ziri hanze yumubano urambye numuryango. Niba ashaka kwiga kubikoresha, noneho isano nabasekuruza, hamwe n'imigenzo yabo, icyerekezo cyabo cyo kubaho cyukuri kigomba kuvugurura kandi, birashoboka cyane gucika intege.
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin