Nubwo waba udafite inshuti nkiyi, birashoboka cyane ko uzi byibuze umugore umwe mwiza udafite couple. Nigute ibyo, kuko afite amahirwe yose, benshi batekereza. Abakobwa bafite isura isanzwe ireba ishyari kuri abo bagore kamere bahawe amakuru yo hanze: bisa nkaho mubyukuri ntakibazo cyukuri mubuzima bwe, kandi birashoboka cyane ko tuzamubona, kandi hariho Nta gukuraho muri bo. Muri icyo gihe, abakobwa beza cyane baratangaye impamvu umuturanyi ufite amakuru yoroheje asanzwe ari umugabo wa kabiri nabana benshi. Biragoye kuba psychologute kugirango dusobanure iki bihe bidasobanutse, ariko haracyari impamvu zimwe.
Byemezwa ko umugore mwiza cyane, niko "akonje"
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Imiyoboro yangiza
Iyo bigeze kumukobwa mwiza, igitekerezo cyahise kivuka kuri madame idasanzwe, idasanzwe, utitayeho niba ari inzira ikurikira muri salon nziza. Nibyo, ibi biraboneka, ariko ntabwo buri gihe. Ubusanzwe abagore bakunze kugira inshuti, kandi ntibishoboka ko aba bantu bari kuruhande rwumukobwa wikunda, ubusa. Umuntu wese afite ibisubizo byayo, ariko ubwiza bwabo bwitirirwa rimwe na rimwe.
Umugani wa kabiri: Umukobwa mwiza - umukobwa wigicucu. Ariko ntituzibagirwa ko abakobwa b'ubwenge nabo akenshi bakababazwa no kutitabwaho, kugirango habeho neza ko biterwa nibitekerezo hano.
Niba umukobwa atandukanya ibitekerezo n'ubwiza mu mukobwa, birashoboka cyane ko batanga umwanya munini wo kwigira no gukura kugiti cyawe. Ntibashaka kwitangira umuryango ukiri muto. Ariko, kariyeri ku mwuga ni inkoni hafi y'impera ebyiri: Iyo umukobwa mwiza ageze kumwanya muto, bibagora kubona couple, kuko ubu uruziga rw'abafatanyabikorwa rugufi cyane.
Undi mugani uzima, iki gihe cyifuzaga nabagabo: Niba umukobwa ari mwiza, afite umuntu. Abagabo benshi bazabura umukobwa mwiza kuruta ibyago kugirango bumve ko wanze. Muri iki kibazo, urashobora gutanga inama cyangwa kumenyana mbere, cyangwa ushakisha abashakanye binyuze mu nshuti zimenyerewe.
Ukurikije imibare, abakobwa bonyine bafite isura isanzwe ntabwo ari munsi yuburyo bwiza, ni byiza rero kuvuga ko gutsinda mubuzima bwite biterwa gusarangagaragara gusa. Ni ngombwa gutunga indi mico ikenewe kugirango twubake umubano uhuza.
Guteza imbere imico myiza
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Abakobwa beza bafite ubwoba. Kubera iki?
Abahanga bemeza ko ubwoba bwumugabo imbere yumukobwa mwiza burimo. Hariho n'izina ry'ubumenyi bw'agaciro - hynophobia. Umugabo utinya cyane kubona ko yanze ko adashobora gutsinda.
Impamvu nyamukuru yo gutinya abagabo ni ukutamenya. Byongeye kandi, ntituvuga abahagarariye abagabo bajijwe, ariko kubantu bafite icyubahiro cyiza, ariko nubwo babuze imbere yubwiza. Ningora cyane kubagabo ko igitekerezo ari uko umukobwa mwiza adashobora.
Umugabo aratinya kuza mbere
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Indi ngingo: Abagabo bemeza ko umufatanyabikorwa wumukobwa mwiza agomba kuba abakire. Niba batitaye kuri ibyo, bahita bajugunya ibitekerezo byose kubizira. Impamvu ibaho ukwemera kwimbitse kumubano mwiza wubwiza nubutsinzi bwamafaranga. Ibisekuru byabagabo babayeho neza ko umuntu ukize agomba kuba afite inshuti nziza, kandi muburyo bunyuranye - umugore mwiza ntazigera areba kugana umugabo wo hagati.
Impamvu Zigunze
Mbere yo gukemura ikibazo, ni ngombwa kumva impamvu ibi bibaho. Umugore akeneye kumva ko mw'isi ya none tugerageza gutanga igitekerezo cyibinyoma cyubwiza ubwiza aribyingenzi hanze, ibitekerezo byimbere byitabwaho.
Ntabwo abagore bose bumva ko ubwiza bumwe atari kubitsa umutekano. Nibyo, umuntu "azana" isura nziza, ariko agomba kubana nimiterere yawe, bityo, nubwo amakuru asanzwe, ntugomba kwibagirwa iterambere ryimico myiza.
Indi mpamvu ishoboka ni ibisabwa cyane kubanyandida kuri Satelite. Ni abagore be batinya abagabo bavuzwe haruguru. Umugore nkuyu ashishikajwe kandi ni gake ahura nuwo gusubiranamo badakwiye ko akwiriye kwitabwaho.
Niba irungu riguhaye kandi wize mubisobanuro byawe wenyine, subiramo imyifatire yawe kubandi, wenda mubuzima bwawe hazabaho impinduka zitangaje, kandi amaherezo uzaguha umunezero wawe.