Umubyeyi udasanzwe ntabwo yiteguye gukora ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose ku mwana we, ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ndetse no kubona ukwezi mu kirere. Turagerageza uko dushoboye kugirango tubaha ibyiza, birinde ibyago byose, bigakora akazi gakomeye aho kuba. Kandi, uko bigaragara, tuzabagezaho ubuzima bwanjye nurukundo rwawe. Ibi birashimishije cyane ba sogokuru.
Ikosa №1
Ibuka ubwana bwawe. Twemerewe kujya ku ishuri ubwabo, twasubiye mu gikari kugira ngo tugende kuri bamwe ndetse twemererwa kujya gusura. Noneho umva gusa: "Ah, igihe nk'iki!". Kandi hano hari umusore wimyaka 12 umaze kuba hejuru ya Mama kumutwe, ahura nyuma yamasomo mu gice cya siporo. Ntabwo twemerera abana guhura ningaruka, nubwo abahanga mubanyabwenge bemeza ko atari byo. Ntukitiranya n'abahungu mu gikari, ntugwe ku giti n'amagare, ukuze, akenshi usanga umuntu arwaye fobiya n'ibigo byose. Umwana agomba kubona uburambe runaka akarokoka kugirango asobanukirwe - ntakintu giteye ubwoba mumavi.
Reka umwana abone uburambe bwawe
Pixabay.com.
Ikosa nimero 2.
Twihutiye gutabara vuba, dukemura ibibazo abarimu ndetse n'abakobwa ku mwana. Kubera ubwitonzi bukabije, abana ntibazi uburyo bwo kubona inzira yo mubihe bigoye. Ariko bizagenda bite igihe azaba akuze? Mama ntazashobora gukemura amakimbirane afite umutware wa "mubi" cyangwa umukobwa utuzuye. Tuzakura bidashoboka ukuze, kurera "abatsinzwe", twirinda ibiganiro bitoroshye.
Ntukivange mu ntonga zabana
Pixabay.com.
Ikosa nimero 3.
Birumvikana ko abana bakeneye guhimbaza, ndetse rimwe na rimwe barangiza, ariko ntibafatwe. "Abahawe impano, arabizi, ntabwo ari nk'abandi bose," ababyeyi benshi basaba kwihesha agaciro kuva umwana wabo. Gusa niba udafite umwanya wo kwanduza umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa kubwirasi, noneho mugihe, bazasanga mama ari wenyine "umwihariko". Abantu basigaye batanga ibisabwa kimwe nabandi. Kandi akenshi, abana bafashwe, mugihe runaka baratsinzwe ugereranije nabanyeshuri bigana. Kubera iyo mpamvu, umuntu akura, asuzume isi yose akarengane.
Impano zigomba gukwiye
Pixabay.com.
Ikosa nimero ya 4.
Mu miryango myinshi, hari kirazira ku kiganiro kijyanye na kahise. Kubera iyo mpamvu, umwana ntazi abakurambere be uwo ari we kuruta uko babigenzaga. Ibibazo rusange kuri we bikomeza kuba amayobera, kandi ababyeyi bagerageza kugaragara abera batigeze bibeshya mubuzima bwabo. Niba udahuje ibintu bibi kuri we, urashobora guhinga neuragerik, kubabazwa no kumva ko ari icyaha imbere yo kudatungana kwawe.
Ntukishyire ku cyaha
Pixabay.com.
Ikosa nimero 5.
Umugani w'icyongereza ugira uti: "Ntuzanye abana, bazakomeza kuba nkawe. Haguruka. " Niba dock yakubise nka lokomototi yikubita hasi, ntuzamureta itabi mu ntoki, ntutangazwe nuko umuhungu wawe nawe azagerageze kunywa itabi. Kandi bibuza hano nta bwenge. Ababyeyi nabo bagomba kuba icyitegererezo cyibyo bashaka kugera kumwana, kugirango bamenye urugero rwabo, kandi atari mumagambo.
Kworoshye urugero rwawe
Pixabay.com.