Umuntu yabanje guhura nikibazo mugihe cyo kuvuka. Birashoboka ko uzatangazwa nibi, ariko nibindi byose bizagutera gutekereza kubisobanuro byikibazo ubwacyo. Byemezwa ko ikibazo ari igihe uwo muntu ari umurego, kwikunda kandi bidafite inshuti mubijyanye na we nabandi. Mubyukuri, ibyo "" ibimenyetso "biri kure ya byose - abashobora guhangana na bo" i ", kugirango babigenzure, bazakurwa muri reboot nyinshi. Tuvuga tuvuga ko imyaka ihuye nikibazo nuburyo bwo kurokoka kubabaza.
Crisis Imyaka 3
Muri psychologiya, ikibazo cyiki kihe gihujwe nigishushanyo cya mbere cya ego - kumenya "i" ndi umuntu utandukanye. Umwana aracyamenya kubuza amarangamutima, bityo birashobora kwerekana neza imico - kugirango uhine, wange gusohoza ibyifuzo byababyeyi, kurwana nabandi bana nibindi. Hano, ababyeyi bakora nk'abacunga b'ibisubizo by'igihe cy'ibibazo - mu bubasha bwabo bwo kwitwara utuje, bakomeje gusubiramo ibyo basabye kandi babyarana umwana ubwabo. Birabujijwe gutaka, gutera ubwoba cyangwa gukubita - birashobora gusubika mubyiciro byumwana, bizagira ingaruka kubyiciro byumwana, bizagira ingaruka kuribyo ubuzima bwejo hazaza murufunguzo rwayo ruzaza. Abaragurisha inyenyeri babona ko mu myaka 3 ku ikarita ya kavukire isuzuma umwirondoro wacu mu kuraguza hasimburwa no gusimbuza ibimenyetso bya Saturn, "kuvunika".
Ni ngombwa kuganira n'umwana utuje
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CRISIs Imyaka 7
Noneho ubwumvikane bwumwana nkumuntu utandukanye uhura na societe - ntagigarukira kumuryango, bene wabo ba hafi n'inshuti. Umwana ashyirwa mu "isi nini": yagiye ku ishuri aho abantu bashya bizihiza - abo bigana n'abarimu. Inzibacyuho kurwego rushya rwuburezi ubu ni uw'umwana ashinzwe kubona ubumenyi no gusuzuma nkibisubizo byabo. Abana bamwe batasuye ishuri ryincuke cyangwa bari mumakipe "imbeba mbi", barashobora guhura nibibazo. Ababyeyi barashobora gufasha gusabana numwana, kubyandika ku ruziga, ibice hamwe nibyiciro byinyongera mu rurimi rw'amahanga ndetse n'amasomo rusange. Uko uri kumurongo mumwana muriki cyiciro, umucyo we uzagaragara mugihe kizaza.
Ikibazo 14-15
Ikibazo cyimyaka yinzibacyuho nikigihe kitoroshye kuba umusore gusa, ahubwo no kubantu bamukikije. Muri iki gihe, umwangavu azi ubwigenge bwe mu ikipe - niba mbere yamenyereye kumugira umwe mukaba ari kumwe no gutekereza hamwe n'abandi, ubu aratandukanye. Ibitekerezo bye biratera imbere kurwego rwo hejuru, bakururwa hashingiwe ku bunararibonye bwungutse mbere n'ubumenyi. Muri iki gihe, azi igitsina cyayo, inyungu zifunguye mudahuje igitsina kandi uburambe bukwiye bwo kwigaragarira hafi. Ni ngombwa gutanga ingimbi umwanya wo kwigaragaza - kwambara imyenda idasanzwe, umusatsi usize irangi hanyuma ushyireho maquillage. Niba umwana wawe afite igice cya kabiri - Ntukivange mumibanire yabo, kugeza igihe akanama kikubaza, kandi ntutesha agaciro ibyiyumvo bye. Nko mubibazo byabanjirije ibibazo, umurimo wawe ni ugushyigikira no gushyigikira, kuvugana numwana no kumubera inshuti, ntabwo ari umuyobozi.
Umwangavu uzi igitsina cye
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Ikibazo 23-24 afite imyaka 23-24
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze y'iburengerazuba batekereza kuri iyi myaka yo kuva mu gihe cy'abanditsi, nubwo mu rugo biramenyerewe ko imyaka y'umwanga izarangira mbere - mu myaka 16-17. Iki cyiciro cya "Zeroing" kijyanye no gusobanura intego zubuzima - umuntu wakiriye amashuri makuru, uburambe bwambere bwakazi. Yiteguye guhitamo inzira yo kujya. Akenshi muri iki gihe, urubyiruko rutangira umubano wambere ukomeye, muri bo ruzamenya - ibyo bashaka kubona mu mukundana, ni bangahe biteguye kumwitaho, aho bashyira hamwe. Nibibazo byambere umuntu abaho ubwisumize kubandi, bivuze ko bishoboka kugenzura imigezi kandi bigahindura ibisubizo. Ni ngombwa gukoresha imikorere mike - andika ibaruwa ejo hazaza hashize imyaka 5, aho usobanura icyo ushaka kubona, gukora intego zubuzima bugereranijwe, sobanura ubuhanga bukenewe kugirango umwuga utsinze. Kandi cyane cyane - kwimuka mubyerekezo byagenwe. Niba ushoboye guhangana n'amarangamutima, ibibazo bizanyura bidashoboka.
Ikibazo 28-31 Imyaka
Iki nikibazo kitoroshye kidashira kidafite ibimenyetso. Muri iki gihe, umuntu arashobora guhindura imitekerereze ye kuri dogere 180, guhindura rwose imyifatire yubuzima. Ni ngombwa gukora ibihe byose byahise, cyane cyane abateje amarangamutima akomeye - gutandukana, kunanirwa mu mwuga, guhemukira ababo cyangwa umubano mubi n'ababyeyi. Nibyiza gushaka ubufasha mumitekerereze izagufasha gukemura ibibazo. Niba ukora wenyine muriyi myaka, urashobora kujya muri stage nshya nundi muntu - hamwe namahame yubuzima adakwiye ibidukikije, umubano ushyushye nabakunzi hamwe nabakundana. Ku byerekeye aba nyuma, ubusanzwe kuri aba bagabo bafata icyemezo cyo kwiteranya ubukwe bwo gushyingirwa, barateganya kuvuka kw'abana. Mu bagore, igihe cyo kurera gishobora guhindura mugihe cyambere. Ni ngombwa kubona uburinganire hagati ya Egoism na altruism ugereranije na kimwe mu baburanyi byose bizagira ingaruka mbi kumiterere yawe.
Kuri 30, uri umuntu watsinze ufite ibyifuzo bibikwa no kwinjizamo.
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Ikibazo 36-38 Imyaka
Kumenya hagati yubuzima no kureba kera. Urasuzuma icyo imyaka yashize imaze kugeraho - umwanya, umutungo, umuryango, inshuti, isura yawe. Kuri iki gihe, abana bawe birashoboka ko bazagera mugihe cyingimbi - twifuje. Kubamenyera nk'abana, ni ngombwa kumenya ubwigenge bwawe no kubaha umudendezo. Niba utishimiye urwego rwose rwubuzima, ushize amanga, uracyari muto bihagije kugirango ubashe kubaka uburambe bushya, uzirikana uburambe cyangwa wanga umubano ushyigikira umukunzi mushya.
Ikibazo 40-43 Imyaka
"Ikibazo cyo hagati, nkuko abayoboke ba psychologue bahamagara. Muri iki gihe, urimo gusarura imbuto za nyuma × 4-5 kuva mubibazo byabanjirije. "Kwigira" amaherezo yashushanyije - "Njye" nk'igice cyihariye hamwe nibikorwa byacyo, ibyifuzo nibyo ukeneye. Urashaka kwakira ibyo urota, nibyiza byihuse kandi utabyumvikanye nibyifuzo byabandi. Ni ngombwa kumva ko utari umupfumu kandi ntabwo ari umupfumu kugirango usabe byose kubisabwa mbere - ugomba kuba uringaniye hagati y'amarangamutima yawe n'amarangamutima yabantu ari ngombwa kuri wewe. Reba hamwe nibitekerezo byabantu bubaha kandi bizeye, ntibateze ibitekerezo bike kubandi. Urahuye bihagije kugirango ubashe kuvuga "oya" ugashaka ubundi buryo.