Oyster muri Assortment
Abantu bamaze kwigirira icyizere: Imana yaremye umugabo numugore gukundana. Ariko bidatinze byaje kumenya ko somo-sapira yakomeje kuyigira kuri ibi byinshi hejuru yabo.
Ibi bikorwa nuburyo butandukanye. Umuntu ni umusaya kubahagarariye igitsina cyabo. Irindi jisho ryagarutse ku baturage ba Conservaterters ntibyizeraga amaso ye ndetse bagerageza no guhakana ko hagaragara ko icyerekezo cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina kivuga: Hetero- (we), Homo- , we) n'imibonano mpuzabitsina (iyo ubishoboye kandi urashakana na we, kandi hamwe).
Imyaka 20 irashize, ba nyir'ibyishimo ba VCRS babanje gushimira ibyabaye muri Sollywood, aho muri Oyster ya Oyster ya Lollywood, aho muri Oyster ya Oyster ya Hollywood, aho muri Oyster ya Oyster ya Hollywood, aho muri Oyster ya Oysters Nyuma, mugihe ibindi bitangazamakuru byatumye baganira kumugaragaro "bidasumba gakondo" muri twe, ibitsina bimwe byashyizweho mubwenge bwacu: Abahuje ibitsina nuburyo bakurikirwa no kugaragazwa nisura isura ye numusore wimyambarire, na lesbiyani - umudamu umeze nkumugabo ufite ijwi rito numusatsi mugufi. Nibyiza, na "bi" byose. Kuri bamwe mu mahanga bateye imbere bashimangira ko, muri kamere, abantu bose ari ibitsina bitandukanye (ni ukuvuga, barashobora kuryamana haba mudahuje igitsina, kandi babimenye) - ariko ntibabimenye. Cyangwa gukeka, ariko imyitwarire ya leta itanga ibyo bakeka byose kumuzi. Rimwe na rimwe, ariko, ukuri kurimbura amashusho yubutaka: ikoti ryabagometse rihinduka abaryamana bahuje igitsina, numukobwa woroshye ufite inzirakarengane ninzira ya lesbiyani ikora.
Ariko, igihe gishya ni gishya. Mu myaka mirongo ishize, abantu bashize, abantu batitayeho batangiye kugaragara ku mibonano mpuzabitsina ya sosiyete yacu. Mu mizo ya mbere, abantu bose bahinda umushyitsi - mu maso, yizeye ko bavukiye mu mubiri n'igitsina kitari cyo ndetse n'abateraniraga guhindura hasi - ntibisanzwe, bityo byibuze bifashwa, bityo byibuze bifashishijwe imyenda. Ugereranije, abantu barerembaga mu mucyo w'Imana - abagabo bashoboraga kuva mu gatsina gabo igihe batavuga ko rimwe na rimwe babona ko rimwe na rimwe basanga umwanya w'abagore. By the way, birashoboka ko ubu bwoko bwabagabo bwabayeho igihe cyose - ariko ntabwo yari afite izina ryihariye. Ibyo ari byo byose, ba nyirakuru bafashe byoroshye kuri cavalier nkaya - Narcissus (mu migani - intwari ahora - intwari ahora yishimira ibitekerezo bye). Kandi koko, mu metrosexuals free yabo bose igihe kwegurira kwitwararika ubwabo, abacu: gusura ubwiza salons, solariums, gukanda, yafashe epilation, pedicure, manicure ndetse umusatsi mu cyimbo somambike. Kandi iyo badapfunyitse, zirazimira mububiko, aho, kugerageza neza no gutoranya, hitamo ibihuru nibikoresho. Abahuza imibonano mpuzabitsina bakekwaho nubwo ibyo biremwa byiza byabagabo no kuryama umunsi umwe hamwe nabagore, orgasm aracyaboneka mugihe cyimisatsi yimbitse.
Kandi muburyo busanzwe mumyaka yashize, abantu badasanzwe - abantu, bombi abagabo n'abagore, batongana ko badashishikajwe n'imibonano mpuzabitsina na gato. Abenegihugu b'iyi miterere myiza yo kwerekanwa ku cyerekezo barashobora gutura mu muryango usanzwe, urukundo no kubahana, ariko hano igikorwa cyurukundo rwa kamere bivugwa ko biteye ishozi. Bashobora kubabara gusa murubanza rumwe - kubwiki kigo cyurubyaro, aho bahanganye (bitangaje!) Ntacyo ufite.
Imbabazi za Mammoth!
Kandi dore impinduramatwara nyayo! Abamuhugu bo mu burengerazuba bw'imibonano mpuzabitsina bagaragaje ubwoko bushya bwo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina - ukuri, mu gihe ari ku cyiciro cyo gushinga. Ariko umaze kubona izina rya siyansi - Todalism (kuva muri Toad yo muri Toad - Toad). Cyangwa zhabiram gusa - niba turi murugo rwacu. Irilandeherere iherutse kuvumburwa kandi isobanurwa n'abahanga mu bya siyansi) irangwa n'abantu hagati y'abagabo hagati yabo (kugeza aho ishinga imibonano mpuzabitsina), ariko bitandukanye no kwinjiza imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo bishingiye ku gitsina, ariko kuri .. . Umururumba! Icyerekezo cy '"Izina ry'umutwe" bihuza abagabo baguye ku nyubako y'abakurambere, babaye umuco w'abantu basohotse mu buvumo maze bajya kwanjye mu makoko, kandi umukunzi we areka umuriro, yashenguye intego kandi yiteguye ibiryo. Abakinyi bakurwanya cyane stereotype ya kera "Umugabo": Igitekerezo cy'uko umugabo ategekwa kugaburira umukunzi we, ni amahano cyane. Kuva asl alphone, ariko, abagera ku bikaba batandukanijwe nuko batanze rwose kujya inyuma ya mamoth - ntibashaka gusangirana numugore. Niyo mpamvu inzira yoroshye yo gusohoka - ni ngombwa kubana nabafite mamoth yabo.
Feminism kubinyuranye
Niba duhinduye mu rurimi ruboneka kumugaragaro, ibisobanuro bya siyansi byose bya siyansi bita toonomeni, bigaragarira ko abagabo bafite ibigo byabo bishya ... baturutse ishyari, abagore! Ingengabitekerezo ya mbere n'abashinze Zabisma yatekereje hafi. Kurongora Oligarsict, muri resitora byishyuwe na cavalier, impano z'abakundana n'umugabo we n'abakundana - bose bafite uburenganzira? Nibyo, igitsina gore. Kubwibyo, batanga ibyo bicuruzwa byose ni abantu. Byagenda bite uramutse utangiye kuzigama ku bana - ni ukuvuga kutavanaho amafaranga n'amafaranga yabo, ahubwo ubirekere mu mugabo wawe, uruziga? Rero, amahirwe nimari bizaba byinshi. Kubugingo, urashobora kuvugana nabafite nawe kandi ntibisaba impano (ni ukuvuga nawe wenyine), neza, nibibazo byimibonano mpuzabitsina kugirango ukemure ibya kera nkisi muburyo bwamafaranga.
Baba hamwe ninde - tob yoroshye
Nambwiye umuganga n'uwihariye wa psychoanaly psychoanaly polina k.:
- Uru rubera rwari mu mudugudu muto, hashize imyaka icumi, batoranijwe n'abarusiya bashya bakize, ku kazu keza n'akazu keza hari. Muri rusange, hari amazu aho harimo na cumi na batanu: abaturanyi bose bari inshuti, ndetse benshi ndetse bajya mu mujyi mu gihe cy'itumba. Abagabo babonye gukora ku modoka, kandi abagore babo bari bicaye kuri kamere umwaka wose - bareze abana, kandi akaruhuka. Byendagusetsa icyo bita umudugudu - galile nshya. Nazanye inshuti ndende - hamwe no gusaba umugabo we. Muri iyo myaka icumi ivuga ko imiryango cumi n'itanu novobbkin yabayeho "uruzitiro rw'uruzitiro", benshi muri bo baratandukanye. Bamwe mu banyamerika bashya NovozKumes ndetse banashoboye gutandukana n'uwo bashakanye umwe, barongora undi - no gutandukana. Ahari ikirere muri galill nshya cyagize uruhare muri ibi? Ba uko bishoboka, ariko nimugoroba umwe mwiza, abagabo bose Novohariky bateraniye mu bwogero maze bahitamo - guhera ubu ku byo bose bazabaho badafite abagore! Ntabwo bizwi ninde wabaye intangarugero ya Novozhubkinsky, ariko abari bose baraba bemeranije neza ko badafite abagore - ubuzima bwiza bwinshi, buhendutse kandi bwiza. Abari baracyashakanye (barimo umugabo w'inshuti yanjye), bohereje urugo rwabo bayobowe n'umugore we mu nzego z'umujyi maze bashiraho ibikubiyemo buri kwezi. Nabo ubwabo baguma mu barinzi kandi bahemukira atari Zabisma. Noneho novozbinsky abakire igihe cyose badafite igihe cyubucuruzi gikorwa hagati. Mu gihe cy'itumba, iyi sosiyete y'abagabo irigendera kuri ruswa, mu ci - kuri moto n'amato n'ubwato, kandi umwaka wose irimo kwiyuhagira no koroha abahungu. Rimwe na rimwe, ubwo "abagabo babohora ba Zhabok nshya" imbaga yose iva mu mahanga - birumvikana ko abantu bose bishyura, kuko nta ntege nke hamwe na bo. Umurima ufite umuja wabigize umwuga muri buri "khabist kubuntu": OyavoHyankinkinkins yizeza ko serivisi zayo zihendutse kandi zigura byinshi kuruta ikibazo cyubukungu cyuwo mwashakanye wemewe. Nibyiza, kandi abantu ba NovoHabkin ntibifuzaga gushyikirana mudasobwa nyinshi hagati yabo, ariko urukundo rwa kamere rwa kamere, bazagaragaza umubare munini wisumbuye mu bwiherero. Kandi na none, bizeye ko serivisi zuzuye kuva umupadiri watojwe cyane wurukundo - ni ibintu byinshi mubukungu kandi bitandukanye kuruta ikibazo cyangiritse no kwikubita umugore wabo kavukire! N'ishakiye gufasha ubumenyi bwanjye muri pschologiya, yagerageje kubyutsa inshuti yanjye nshuti yanjye, yansubije gutya: "Umugore ni ikiremwa kidahaze, gikenewe gusa kwangiza ubuzima bw'umuntu. Ni kangahe utatanga, aruse gato - kandi amafaranga, kandi urwego, n'imibonano mpuzabitsina. Abagore na ba nyirabuja barajugunywe n'inkingi zacu, kandi Sisitemu yacu ifite ubwoba: Ntabwo basaba amafaranga n'impano gusa, ahubwo basaba imbaraga z'umwuka, ahubwo baniha n'imbaraga z'umwuka, kwihangana nigiheKandi ni ukubera iki guhora tubaho n'amaraso yafunzwe muri wewe, igihe ubushyuhe n'itumanaho by'amahoro bishobora gutanga inshuti z'abagabo n'inzego zabagabo, kandi bidakenewe mubiri n'abagize uruhare mu banyagize umwuga? " Hanyuma nasobanukiwe - ntibishoboka kumukiza! Abagabo zhabirasi ni indwara, kandi ntibakorewe vuba. Kandi ibibi, niba bibaye icyorezo.
Ndashaka kwizera ko Zhabirasm agifatwa. Bitabaye ibyo, uzagira umururazi ngo wemere: hamwe nabagabo dufite toad yuzuye!
Ibimenyetso bitatu by'ingenzi bya Zhaba
Umugabo wawe rero yaka imbere y'amaso ye niba ari:
Igihe kinini kandi kinini kimara muri societe yumugabo gusa.
Byose bike bigutera impano kandi ibintu byose ntibyanze kubona amafaranga, nubwo ibyo nkeneye byose ntibikiza.
Kwiyongera, bizirika ku ngingo "bose baba - Schlebanitesa" kandi ubishaka ushyigikira ibitekerezo by'umugore, byerekana ko umugore agomba kwiba.
Uravuga iki? Ntabwo ari amahirwe mu rubanda rw'Abarusiya chasshka "kubyara, Baba - Kuko hodgepiece ya Toad!" Noneho nibabyare! Muri rusange, imiti myiza ituruka kuri toad yumugabo numugore uzi ubwenge.