Nta gihe cyagenwe gikwiye gukoresha hamwe nabakunzi - abantu bamwe bakeneye amasaha abiri kumunsi, mugihe umuntu afite ibiganiro byamasaha ahagije kuri terefone igendanwa rimwe mu cyumweru. Mubihe byose, turagugira inama yo kwireba hanyuma tukaba kubandi. Ntukishinje muri egoism, kuko ubudahangarwa bwa kamere yawe nikintu gishobora rwose kwegera, kandi ntugerageze gukosora. Shakisha abantu bazumva irari ryawe ryakazi no kwiteza imbere, kandi ntibazahatira imbaraga zo kwicara kuri sofa. Kandi hamwe nabandi tugiriye inama yo kuvugana muri ubwo buryo:
Shaka inkunga mumuryango
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Igenamipaka
Tekereza ko hari igihome n'inkuta zayo mugomba kurinda. Ikigo ni intege nke zawe, kandi inkuta ni mbimbi z'umuntu. Umuntu ukimara kwegera, aburire muburyo butuje. Mbwira: "Iyi ngingo iragushimishije, reka tubihindure kubyo dushishikajwe na yombi." Ahantu h'ibibazo abadatiriwe bakorera mu busanzwe bibutsa imyaka n'ukuri ku buzima bwe bwite, kudashobora kuruhuka no guherekeza inkuru, kuko bateranye mu biruhuko hamwe n'abakiriya no kohereza inyandiko bakoresheje amabaruwa n'ibindi. Niba umuntu atumva ubwambere, subiramo. Ku nshuro ya gatatu, kaganiriwe na kalie - uzarakara gusa n'amatsiko kandi adahari ubuhanga bwo gusoma amarangamutima ya nyina.
Zimya amajwi kuri terefone
Hamwe nabagize umuryango, amategeko yitumanaho mu isaha yihariye arangije akazi kawe kandi arahamagarira gusa ku manza zihutirwa. Hafi yo gusobanukirwa ibyo umara umwanya munini ku nshingano z'akazi - kugira ngo wishyireho kandi ejo hazaza rusange. Muri igenamiterere rya terefone, usige amajwi gusa ku guhamagarira gusa, kubisigaye, uzimye imenyesha. Ntakibazo gishobora gukemurwa nyuma yamasaha abiri nyuma, ariko imenyesha rihoraho mumiyoboro rusange irashobora kugukubita mu karubanda no kurambura ibirori.
Kwiruka imbere ku nzozi zawe
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Reba nawe
Niba ukorera umushahara muto kandi ntukarebe ibyiringiro, noneho amasezerano arashobora gutsindishirizwa gusa nibiranga alruism kuri wewe. Ikindi kintu nigihe washushanyijeho gahunda yimyaka umwana utaha kandi wumve icyo buri gikorwa cyawe kiganisha. Cyangwa uhuza icyarimwe akazi nyamukuru numushinga wawe ushaka kwambara ibirenge ukajya koga kubuntu. Gushyira mu bikorwa inzira yumvikana, uzokwinginga ngo ushishikarize inshuti zitumva impamvu uza mu birori kandi utanywa, usobanure ko ejo tugiye ku biro. Birashoboka ko ibidukikije bizahinduka muri bo ubwabo - abantu bazasobanukirwa nibyo ugenda kandi utera kwihangana kwawe.
Turagusaba kandi gukora iyi ngingo hamwe na psychologue no gutoza mubucuruzi, cyangwa kuvugana numuntu uva muruziga rwabacuruzi bamenyerewe. Umuntu wese afite inshuti bashima. Uyu muntu nicyaha cyawe cyo kudatangira kandi nturebe abanegura.