Mubwana, dusoma imigani yerekeye ibikomangoma n'ibikomangoma, umubano wayateza imbere rimwe na n'ubuzima. Kubwamahirwe, umugani wimigani ugabanijwemo ubuzima, kandi ntabwo ari amakosa yacu - icyitegererezo cyimyitwarire kiranga abakobwa benshi gishobora kurimbura urufatiro ruramba. Wibuke ko umuntu ari hafi - ntabwo ari umutungo wawe, ahubwo ni ibinyabuzima bimwe nibitekerezo byayo n'amarangamutima. Turakubwira ibishobora guhagarara munzira yo kurangiza guhuza nurukundo.
"Urabizi, umukunzi wa Masha yahaye umusore ..."
Urubyiruko ruke rushobora kumva ibitekerezo. Abasore bemera ko bazishimira kumenya ibyifuzo byabakobwa babo mu buryo butaziguye, kandi ntibanyuze mu nkuru zerekeye inshuti n'ibitekerezo mu buryo bw'amashusho. Niba ushaka igikapu gishya, ariko ntushobora kugura cyangwa udashaka kubigura wenyine, ohereza umurongo kububiko kumurongo kuri wewe hanyuma umbwire icyo ushaka impano nkiyi ushaka impano nkiyi. Ibitunguranye ntamuntu wahagaritswe, ariko umugabo biroroshye guhaza icyifuzo cyawe akabona umunezero mumaso kuruta gukeka impamvu imyumvire yumukobwa we yangiritse. Kimwe nindabyo, inzira za cosmetologiya nibindi bintu. Ntiwibagirwe impano yo gusubiza - reba ibyo umusore wawe avuga yishimye, kandi ni iki, mu buryo butandukanye, ndakunda cyane. Tegura bitangaje muburyo bwo gusambana cyangwa ibikoresho bidasanzwe kubirori bishimishije.
Vuga ibyifuzo byawe kumugaragaro
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"Genda, narababajwe ..."
Biragoye kwiyumvisha uko abagabo bafite abagore bahuye. Ni ikintu kimwe niba imyumvire yigihe gito kandi ifitanye isano nimpinduka mumiterere ya hormone cyangwa umunsi utatsindwa. Ariko, impinduka zihoraho zidafite ishingiro ntizishobora gushimisha abantu hafi yawe. Imyitwarire yumukobwa muto ntabwo igutera musura, nkuko benshi basa nkaya, ariko bahindura umukobwa uhagije uhagije mumwana udasanzwe. Niba utanyuzwe nimyitwarire yumusore, banza utekereza ko wakubabaje mubikorwa bye. Kurugero, yagiye muri club ninshuti, mwese mucara murugo igihe cyose kandi ntukavugane numuntu uwo ari we wese - ntabwo bitangaje kuba muzanduye imyitwarire ye. Birashoboka ko ugomba kubanza gukemura ibibazo byawe imbere, hanyuma "igitero" kumugabo. Ariko, ntibikwiye ibibazo igihe cyose - ibyifuzo byumvikana byaganiriwe kumugaragaro.
"Kubwawe warohamye n'ibihu ..."
Ntibitangaje kubona umukerarugendo ukomeye yagize ati: "Umusore bamwe dukunda ..." Abakobwa bamwe biteguye kujya kuri bose, iyaba bakundwaga ni bo bishimye - hindura imiterere, imisatsi, imisatsi, kora umubabaro. Kudakunda no kutubaha ubwabyo muri Amerika binyuze mu myigaragambyo. Wibuke: Nta mukobwa ushyiraho umuntu mu maso abera ntabwo yishimye. Wishimire wowe ubwawe n'ubuzima bwawe mbere na mbere, kandi ntukabe undi muntu. Reka umubano wawe ube ubumwe uhwanye, ntabwo ari daffidis hamwe nigicucu cye cyiza. Wubahe, abandi bazakubaha. Niba udashobora guhangana nibibazo byo kwisuzuma, bazakaze psychologue ntabwo bafite isoni. Ubuvuzi bufasha kuzamura urwego rwa "bitwikiriye" natwe kandi bukabakemura mbere yuko bakorwa mu ngaruka zikomeye.
Kunda mugenzi wawe, ariko ntuzibagirwe wenyine
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"Nibyo, kuki wagumyeyo?"
Itandukaniro nintambwe yambere iganisha kumpera yumubano. Niba utemera umugabo wawe ko byabaye ngombwa ko aguma ku kazi. Nyuma bisabwe n'umuyobozi, nubwo yashakaga kumarana nawe, ubwo ni byiza gutandukana nawe. Ntukivumire cyangwa ngo ube. Ishyari, gushidikanya kubidahwitse byamagambo, kugerageza gufata ibinyoma ni ibimenyetso byimitekerereze irwaye. Mu mibanire myiza ntugomba gushakisha kugabura mumagambo yumufatanyabikorwa. Hashobora kubaho impamvu ebyiri zibitera - ufite impamvu nyazo zo kutizerana, cyangwa ntukizere. Bombi bitinde cyangwa nyuma bigatuma batandukana.
"Yoo, ku kazi mugenzi mwiza mugenzi mwiza ..."
Kugerageza guhamagara ishyari kubafatanyabikorwa kumurika wahoze ari ishyaka - biragaragara ko atari inzira nziza yo gukomeza umubano. Biratangaje kuki abakobwa benshi bagikoresha. Urwenya rumwe rushobora kuvuga imvugo isa numusore kugirango tumenye neza ko azaba. Abandi bavuga cyane kuri bagenzi bacu beza, abakinnyi muri siporo cyangwa abahisi basanzwe. Ntakintu gisubiwemo kuvugana nabantu badahuje igitsina mugihe uri mubucuti. Nibyo, birakenewe neza ko hari isura runaka idashobora kurenga - urashobora kubabaza umukunzi.