Rimwe na rimwe, ababyeyi baragoye guhangana nicyayi ukunda. Umwana ntashaka gusa gusohoza gusa ibyifuzo byababyeyi, ahubwo no kubatega amatwi. Bimwe muribi bifitanye isano nibibazo byimyaka, ibindi bihe nkibi bisubirwamo buri gihe. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagira inama yo kwita ku kibazo hakiri kare bishoboka kugira ngo bagomba guhindura imiterere y'umwana, kugeza igihe bitinda.
Kwitondera amagambo
Umwana agomba gutega amatwi yitonze kandi asaba. Niba ari urugero, kureba amakarito, umuhamagare kandi asobanure icyo ukeneye kuvugana nawe. Tangira ikiganiro gusa iyo kwitabwaho bizagubakira. Vuga wizeye kandi uhora ushyira mu bikorwa amasezerano yawe, ndetse no ku "guhana". Niba wabwiye umwana ko atazaryoshya kugeza yize gukuraho ibikinisho, hanyuma ubwabo bamuha bombo, ntibabangamirwa ko bidatinze umwana azareka kuvuga amagambo yawe.
Umwana agomba kukumvira
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Ntuzigere wongera ijwi - gutaka gusa umwana kandi bigatera sisitemu y'imitsi mugukuramo amagambo atera reaction muburyo bwamarira. Vuga utuje kandi wubahe: "Vanya, nyamuneka ukusanyirize ibikinisho byawe." Subiramo icyifuzo inshuro nyinshi, usobanure impamvu umwana agomba gukora ibi: "Turi kumwe na papa kandi urashobora gutsitara ku modoka zitatanye no kugwa cyangwa kubabaza amakuru akomeye."
Dushimire Kumvira
Abana benshi bakeneye kwemeza imyitwarire yabo yintangarugero. Reka umwana akumve ko ukeneye ubufasha bwe. Urakoze kubikorwa byiza - umubwire "Urakoze", shima kubagize umuryango. Urashobora kubona ikirangaminsi gito, aho abapaki bazishimira ibikorwa byiza - byafashije mama kugagura umufuka nibikoresho, bishyiraho ibikinisho ahantu, bigenga gukora umukoro ndetse no mu bwigenge. Tanga umwana kwisiga abaganga wenyine, birashoboka. Shishikariza ubufasha mu kwiyamamaza muri sinema, zoo cyangwa kugura ibikinisho. Ntabwo dukugira inama yo gushishikariza umwana ibiryoshye cyangwa uruhushya rwo kurenga ku indero, kurugero, umukino kuri mudasobwa urenze isaha kumunsi - biravunika gusa.
Intambwe zo Gushiraho
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze yemeza ko mu nzira hari intambwe umunani mu nzira yo kwigisha umwana kumvira. Iya mbere itangiye kuva akivuka no mu myaka 2: Wigisha umwana ubumenyi bwibanze, ubumenyi bwibidukikije hanyuma usabe kwerekana ubuhanga. Kurugero, umwana yize kuvuga "Gav-gav". Uramubaza uti: "Nigute imbwa ivuga?". Afite inshingano, bivuze ko guhaza icyifuzo cyawe. Hamwe nabana bakuru, tekinike iratandukanye - uri imbere y'ibikorwa byayo ku ntambwe. Buri gihe arya imigati hamwe nisupu? Ku meza, mbwira: "Dima, fata umugati."
Intambwe nyinshi zizafasha guhagarika caprises
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Intambwe zikurikira ni kwigisha kugirango twegere iyo uyita, kubashyikirana, gushobora gucunga amarangamutima yawe, kandi "bibi", kugenzura imyitwarire yawe, ukora imirimo asanzwe nubwigenge. Icyiciro cya nyuma gikunze kubaho mu bwangavu. Ubwa mbere, umwana akeneye inama zawe nubufasha, hanyuma atangira kwihanganira wenyine, birasa nkaho ari imirimo igoye gukorana no kujya kwa nyirakuru cyangwa ngo ifashe gusya ibirayi.
Ba inshuti y'abana
Ababyeyi b'ubwenge kandi bakundana ntibigera bifuza umwana nabi kandi ntibazamusaba kunanirwa - abana barabyumva, cyane cyane mumyaka. Iyo ababyeyi bavuganye nabo bangana, noneho amakimbirane arashobora kwirindwa. Birumvikana ko abana bose bafite imico no gutsindwa bituma babita hirya no hino bagahinduka nabi, ariko bararangira. Witondere kandi ushyigikire umwana, noneho azumva igikwiye kwitwara kuri wewe. Shigikira icyifuzo cye cyo kuba mukuru kandi cyigenga, kandi ntugarukire wenyine - ubu ni ubuzima bwe, atari ibyawe, bityo wubahe ibyifuzo bye n'inyungu.
Ube inshuti yumwana
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