Nubwo mubuzima bwa buri munsi dukunze kuvugana twifashishije amagambo n'ibimenyetso, guhuza amayeri birakenewe ndetse n'abantu bizeye cyane kandi bizeye. Cyane cyane iyo bigeze kugirango bikureho abantu benshi. Kuki guhuza amayeri bigira uruhare runini mubuzima bwacu? Twagerageje kubimenya.
Nyuma yo kuvuka, mu mezi make, tubona isi gusa binyuze mu kukoraho abantu ba hafi ndetse no guhura n'amayeri n'ibintu, umwana amenya isi, mu buryo bwumvikana kuryoherwa.
N'ibibera mubantu bakuru
Imico imwe n'imwe ishyiraho uburyo bwo kwerekana ibimenyetso byamayeri kurwego rwo hejuru nkuko, kurugero, muri Ositaraliya, aho abashyitsi bafite icyubahiro benshi bakorwa kugirango bakire amazuru byoroshye. Imigenzo nkiyi ibaho mumico myinshi, amagambo ntashobora guhora agaragara ko bashobora gutanga ibitekerezo.
Uruhare runini cyane rwo guhuza umubiri mubigaragaza muburyo butandukanye ni ngombwa mugihe twubaka umubano. Buri wese muri twe agaragaza feromones - ibintu bitanga itumanaho hagati yimibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi ibi bibaho haba mumatungo nabantu. Niyo mpamvu, niba dukunda umuntu, tugerageza kwegera bishoboka, "chimie" imwe itangira kubaho.
Uburyo Twaganiraho Kudufasha Gushyikirana
Abantu bose barashobora kugabanywa muburyo bumwe - ubugenzuzi, amashusho na kinarics. Nibwo bwa nyuma bwakira amakuru menshi no kunyurwa no guhuzana numuntu binjira mu itumanaho.
Amabere azagerageza kugabanya intera numuntu ukunzwe numuntu, kandi "inzira" umuntu nkuwo uzana no ku muntu utazi ubwenge, kuberako akeneye kugabanya intera yo gushyikirana neza. Kinastics irashobora kuba inzozi nyazo kubantu, muburyo bumwe, ntibakunda kuvugana, kandi hano gutsimbarara.
Mugihe cyo gukoraho, havutse ingufu zavutse
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Ufasha gukoraho umubano muri couple?
Usibye kuvugana na tactile, hari imbaraga. Ni ngombwa cyane cyane niba uteganya kubaka umubano. Ntidushobora kubimenya, ariko iyo ukoze kumuntu ukunda, twumva imbaraga zayo niba "umubonano" mwiza, ni umutekano kubara gukomeza umubano no kurema gukomera Ubumwe.
Uruhu rw'abagore rufite umugabo wunvikana cyane, bityo abakobwa rero barabyitwaramo cyane. Umugabo akeneye cyane kumva ameze nkumugore, kugirango atari kwiyobera kandi ntuzane ibitekerezo bidashimishije nibikorwa byabo.
Nk'uko tubibona, kurema isano ikomeye vy'akanyengetera ntibishoboka nta gukorakora, bikaba bidufasha Kubuganya isi kuva ivuka cyane mu nzego zose z'ubuzima - kuva myiza bwite. Kandi ni kangahe ukoraho nkuko uri mukundwa?