Ababyeyi benshi bategereje igihe bashobora gutoroka barera murugo mugihe bashobora kongera kuba umugore wubucuruzi kandi bagakomeza ibikorwa byabo byumwuga, ariko inzira yo kuva mu iteka ryose iherekejwe no guhangayika. Gerageza kugabanya iyi mihangayiko ninama zanjye zoroshye.
Icy'ingenzi ni uko ugomba gukunda ibyo ukora. Kanguka ufite igitekerezo cyuko ari ngombwa kujya kumurimo udakikijwe, biragoye cyane, kandi kureka umwana ukundwa cyane kumurimo udakunzwe ni kabiri. Ntakintu cyiza muri ibi kitazakora, nimugoroba ntuzagira imbaraga kumuryango kandi nzongera kurakara. Ntabwo nzarambirwa gusubiramo ko dect ari igihe cyiza cyo kwiga kwishingikiriza ku buhanga bukenewe kandi amaherezo babona icyo ukunda mugihe utabikoze mbere yuko umwana avuka.
Witondere kwitegura gutandukana kandi wowe ubwawe, numwana. N'ubundi kandi, iyi ni intambwe nshya mubuzima bwawe, kandi kuri we - intambwe nshya yo gukura. Ntugomba guherekeza ibyiyumvo byicyaha kubyo usize, umwana nawe ukeneye kwiteza imbere kandi azi isi, kandi kuriyi si ntawe ntawe.
Menya mbere yumwana wawe azagumanaho: Ingendo yincumbazi / nyirakuru / Nanny. Ntuhuze intambwe yo kurwanya imihindagurikire y'ikiruhuko, nibyiza gutegura uko ibintu bimeze mumezi abiri kugirango umwana ashobore kugira ubwoba ku mirimo, nkumwana ngaho utari kumwe nawe.
Mugihe ufite amasaha abiri yubusa, mugihe umwana yatsinze imihindagurikire y'ikirere, igihe kirageze cyo kujya guhaha kugirango dushakishe ibintu bishya. Sohoka ku kazi. Menya nk'impamvu yo kwambara no gusiga irangi buri munsi, kuko tuzaba inyangamugayo: twicaranye n'umwana, dukunze kwibagirwa ubwacu.
Mugihe wari mukiruhuko cyo kubyara, byinshi birashobora guhinduka, ariko ntugomba gutinya ibi. Tekereza uburyo bwiza bwo kuvugana na bagenzi bawe, wige kandi utere imbere mumurima wawe. Nibyo, ubanza ntibizoroha, ariko mumenyera vuba, kuko mama ashobora byose! Mama afite ubuhanga bwo gucunga igihe cyazanywe no gutungana.
Itegereze uburinganire hagati yakazi n'umuryango. Ntugafate ibibazo byabandi kandi ntukemere ko abo mukorana bagumanire imirimo yacu kuri wewe. Wige kuvuga "Oya". Igikorwa cyawe rero ntikizababara, imirimo irazuzura mugihe, kandi imitsi irasobanutse. Ntuzane kunanirwa kumubiri no mumarangamutima. Nimugoroba, kora urutonde rwimanza ejo. Bizagufasha guhindura uburyo bwo kwidagadura, ntubike ibintu mumutwe wawe kandi umarana numuryango wawe.
Gusohoka mu teka ni icyiciro gishya kuri buri wese, ariko iki gihe cy'impinduka kirakenewe mu iterambere na nyina byuzuye. Ishimire nyuma ya byose, hari ibintu byinshi byavumbuwe imbere.