Buri wese muri twe ashaka gukuraho irungu, ariko umubano ntabwo buri gihe utanga umunezero, cyane cyane niba tujya kwishingikiriza kumuntu udafite ibyiyumvo bitandukanye. Nkigisubizo, ishusho yumufatanyabikorwa mwiza, yaremye mumutwe, irasenyuka imbere y'amaso ye. Byasa nkaho umuntu mukuru ashoboye gukora "ikiganiro" cyigihe kizaza cya kabiri, nyamara ndetse nizeye ko abantu bahohotewe nabi. Noneho ibiduterana natwe no muriki gihe bigaragara ko umukunzi adaduhuza? Twahisemo kumenya.
Ufite ubwoba bwo kubura umuntu
Ibibazo byacu bya psychologiya akenshi bikomoka mubana. Ingorane mubucuti nababyeyi, cyane cyane niba bakunda kunegura umwana cyangwa bakonje mumarangamutima, akenshi biganisha kubyo dushaka kubona byibuze umuntu, reka uyu muntu aduhuze na gato kandi agaragare ubwabwo nkubushake. Umuntu mukuru wakomeretse ntazitondera ibitero byatanzwe numufatanyabikorwa niba umufatanyabikorwa umwe azagushimira rimwe na rimwe akakunezeza. Kubigaragaza bidasanzwe urukundo n'inyungu bivugwa, benshi biteguye kwihanganira umukunzi wuburozi.
Kubura urukundo kuri wewe
"SHAKA" mu mibanire mibi, kandi kubera urukundo rwose udahari kandi wubaha wenyine. Muri icyo gihe, umufatanyabikorwa yumva neza neza ko udashoboye guca umubano, kandi ntukagabanuka kubikoresha. Umuntu udakoreshwa mu kubaha igitekerezo cye azohora yibaza - Niki nakoze nabi kuburyo nari imyifatire? Kuba ikibazo kiri mu muntu ukunda, mubisanzwe tudatekereza. Mu bihe nk'ibi, ntibishoboka gukora utabifashijwemo ninzobere izakorana nawe mubibazo muri psyche yawe, bityo ntukwemereye kurimbura ubuzima bwawe bwa psychologiya n'amaboko yundi muntu.
Umufatanyabikorwa ntabwo buri gihe asubizwa
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Ufite ubwoba bwo gutenguha umufatanyabikorwa
Bibaho ko dushobora kwerekana ubuto bwiza mumibanire y'akazi cyangwa tuganira n'abari hanze, ariko, tutaha, tuba munsi ya Plint "- gusa uwo wakundaga ntirwababara. Birasa nkaho gutenguha umufatanyabikorwa nicyaha gihe, reka abikore byinshi kandi rimwe na rimwe ntacyo atekereza kubyo ibyiyumvo byawe bishobora kubabaza. Abantu bafite urukundo ninkunga kuva mu bwana akenshi bagwa kwishingikiriza kumuntu wahimbye "urukundo", udashobora gusubiza mu byukuri.
Urizera ko umufatanyabikorwa azahinduka
Iyo twakiriye ibyiyumvo bikomeye kumuntu runaka, ntibishoboka gusa kubona amakosa yayo yose. Ibigaragaza bidashimishije twishyuza kubintu byimiterere. Ariko, nyuma yigihe gito, umufasha atangira kumwumva imbaraga zawe kandi ahagarara, ibitutsi, kunegura bidafite ishingiro birashobora kwigaragaza, kandi urugomo rwumubiri rushobora kwigaragaza, ariko, mugihe cyateganijwe, ruzaba rwizere - neza , Byagenda bite se niba bihindutse? Ukeneye gutegereza gato. Ntugomba gutegereza. Mugihe cyambere kwigaragaza, tekereza kubyo bazakuzanira ubwo busabane - umunezero cyangwa uzamara imyaka myinshi mubyiringiro byubusa kugirango uhinduke.