Ubushakashatsi bwimihango yimyaka ishize yerekana ko umwana afite amahirwe menshi agomba gutezwa imbere. Byongeye kandi, ubushakashatsi butari buke bwerekana ko bimwe mu bikorwa byo mu mutwe byo mu mutwe n'ubushobozi bw'umwana bakeneye kwiteza imbere mu gihe runaka mugihe urengagijwe (mubyukuri, sisitemu yo hagati) ishobora kuba byoroshye. Kandi kuri buri bushobozi, iki gihe ni icyawe.
Ababyeyi benshi kandi benshi bakwiriye kwiyongera k'umwana, iterambere ryayo nubu ubwenge, kandi ibi ntibishoboka ahubwo byishima. Ariko, nkuko bikunze kubaho, ndetse hano hari urugero cyane bikaba byiza tutagwa, namakosa asanzwe atunganye adakora:
1. Birakenewe kwibuka ko, hamwe nibishoboka, Umwana afite imipaka . Kandi ibi bibujijwe bifitanye isano no kudakura kwa psyche ye, hamwe namashami amwe nubwonko ashinzwe imirimo itandukanye. Kandi uyireme cyane, wiyongereye umutwaro wiyongereye kumwana udakoreshwa mu iterambere ryayo, birashoboka kugirira nabi uko ari byiza. Kubera iki? Nzatanga urugero. Mvuye ku isi ku isi, ibimenyetso byinshi byo muri sisitemu yacu yose yunvikana iza kubwonko bwumuntu. Turabona ikintu gishimishije, twumva amajwi, twumva tuziritse urutoki. Ariko icyarimwe, ubu turi hafi yakazi, kandi umuntu mukuru arashobora guhatira ubushake kwibanda ku kuba ingenzi muri iki gihe. Kurugero, ku gusoma amabaruwa no gutunganya amakuru akubiye muri bo. Kubwibyo, agace k'ubwonko - talamus, umuntu mukuru ukuze. Umwana afite aka gace, nk'inzego nyinshi, ari inzira yo kubura kandi iracyaze, idatunganye rero, idashobora rero gutandukanya amakuru akeneye gusimbuka (kuguruka bizengurutse igitabo), Kuva aho ukeneye kwibanda no gukomeza ibitekerezo byawe igihe kirekire.
Kwiyongera kwubwonko birashobora kuganisha kuri neurose
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Muyandi magambo, umuntu mukuru arashobora gusaba umwana ubuhanga ubwo aribwo bwose bwo kwifata, kumvira byuzuye, kwifata, gukora gusa imibare nyabaranga, ariko umwana ntaragira ibikoresho bimutuma kubikora. Ntibigeze byeze. Byongeye kandi, kuzamura ubwonko bukuze nabyo birashobora kunyura muburyo busobanutse neza kuburyo budakura bwibikoresho hamwe nibiciro binini byubwenge. Ntabwo ari ibanga mu nzira yingufu zo mumutwe, ingufu zikoreshwa cyane kuruta kumubiri. Kubwibyo, bisaba umwana kurangiza neza imirimo igoye, gushyira imitwaro myinshi idashobora kwihanganira, dushobora kugira ibyiyumvo byinshi byo guhangayika no kugaragara kwa neurose. Kubera iyo mpamvu, ntituzakura ubwenge, kandi dutanga neurons mubuzima.
2. Ikosa rya kabiri rinini ni Umuzingo w'imizigo . Bikunze kubaho mugihe ababyeyi, basoma ingingo ziterambere ryumwana, kubyerekeye amadirishya yasojwe ", atangira byihutirwa gufata umwanya wabuze kandi utangiza imizigo izamuka kandi igatange cyane. Ntibyoroshye kwishora mu mibare yinyongera, ariko menya neza imyitozo 100 kugirango imwe yegere. Ibikorwa nkibi birashobora kwicirwa byimazeyo mugihe icyifuzo cyo gukura, kwiga na none, usibye umunaniro no kutanyurwa, ntacyo bizatanga. Akenshi umubyeyi, "utanga ubushyuhe" umwana, mucyumweru, ikindi gitera uwo mwuga, kandi ibintu byose bigaruka muntangiriro. Igomba kwibukwa ko imitwaro igomba gutekerezwa hakiri kare, itunganijwe kandi iracyashimishije umwana. Ni ukuvuga, inzira yo kwiga igomba, icyambere, ntukarakare umwana, icya kabiri, kugirango ushimishe. Kuberako binyuze mu ruhare rw'umwana ushobora kwizera ko umuntu azakura muri yo, ashishikajwe no gukomeza iterambere no kumenya inzira y'ubumenyi bushimishije kandi busanzwe.
Amasomo agomba kunyura umwana
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3. Ikosa rikunze kugaragara ni igihe Ababyeyi baragerageza kumenya inzozi zabo zananiwe kubana . Nkuko bimaze gusobanurwa haruguru, gutekerezwa cyane kubyo byiteze ntibigira uruhare mugutezimbere imibereho myiza yumwana cyangwa iterambere ryumubano w'ababyeyi. Tumaze kuvuga uruhande rwimyitwarire yikibazo mugihe umwana abaye kandi akumva ko ubutware nibisabwa ababyeyi basabye ibyifuzo byabo, cyangwa ko adafite ububi, ibyifuzo byababi. Hano, leta zikomeye zihemutse zirashobora gutera imbere, bitezwa nuko amaherezo umuntu amenya ko ntacyo yakoze ngo ashaka, kandi atari ubuzima bwe, ahubwo yari "igipupe" mu maboko y'abandi. Shakisha inzira yawe kandi wumve icyo yifuza ko yifuza ko ari we ubwe, bikamubaho, kandi icyo ari cyo kimutera ikibazo, kandi ibyo byose birashobora gutuma habaho ingaruka mbi zikomeye zubuzima bwe. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa cyane kubabyeyi inzozi zabo zidashoboka cyangwa kubishyira mubikorwa, cyangwa, niba bidashoboka, kugirango ubahuze mubindi byifuzo byumwana muto kandi utagira kirengera kubwibi.