Hariho ibihe byinshi mubuzima bituma bihagarara no kureba kugirango usuzume ibibera. Byongeye kandi, ibibazo bituma bigoye gutekereza kubikenewe guhinduka, akenshi bifitanye isano nibibi byamafaranga cyangwa gushakisha umunezero.
Iyo ibice byombi bihari, ubuzima burashobora gufatwa nkubwuzuzanya. Ariko niba hari ibyiyumvo byo kutanyurwa, noneho birakwiye gutekereza kubibura kandi, cyane cyane, icyo gukora kugirango ubifate.
Nzatangirana nibyo nzagerageza kuyobora ibyo Urutonde rwibibazo birinda kumva umunezero wubuzima:
- Kumva ko ntawe ugushimira kandi ntusobanukirwe, ubuzima bwawe busa naho imvi na monotonous;
- Kuzunguruka ibyiyumvo byubusa iyo bisa nkaho ukoresha ubuzima bwawe kuri trifles;
- Gushakisha cyane amahirwe kugirango ugere kubyo wifuza;
- Umara umwanya wo kurwanya ibitekerezo bidahwitse no kwibasi.
Irina Krinoev
Iyi seti ntabwo yuzuye, kimwe nubuzima bwa buri muntu ni ukugabanya muburyo bumwe. Ariko niba usa nabi, biragaragara ko turi abaremuzi byibyishimo byawe. Niba kandi hari ikibazo, birashobora gukemurwa niba utangiye gukora kandi ugashyira ingufu mugushakisha ubwumvikane. Nubwumvikane, gukuraho inzitizi numuhanda rusange uva "amatafari yumuhondo", uzakuyobora mu byishimo. Urambajije, kandi birashoboka ko umunezero nubutunzi bibaho bitandukanye? N'ubundi kandi, mama, ba nyirakuru bongeye gusubiramo kubyerekeye ko amafaranga ari mabi, Tlen. Kandi wishimiye ko ushobora kuba muri hood. Ariko sibyo. Ibi ntakindi kirenze ibigo mugihe ihumure nicyifuzo cyo kubaho ubuzima bwuzuye ugereranije na mesh. Mu nyere y'ubugingo, habaye uhora unyurwa na we, buhoro buhoro yaryamye imbere. Birahagije kwibuka ukuri kubagore b'Abasoviyeti vuba. Urugamba ruhoraho rwihutiye kurya ubwiza nyaburanga kandi ruhindura abakobwa bato muri nyirasenge.
Era Ibisabwa kuri twe kugirango hindure, guhindura imitekerereze. Gusa kandi umuntu utekereza neza azashobora gushyiraho ingufu hirya no hino, izatangira gukurura umunezero wenyine. Kandi nyuma yibyishimo, ubutunzi buzaza. Ubunararibonye bwanjye butuma mvuga hamwe n'ibishoboka ijana ku ijana ko amafaranga adakunda abidakunda. Reba amafoto ya Bill Gates, Ilona Mask, Mackenzie Bezos cyangwa Lorin Powell akazi. Aba ni abantu bamwenyura, kwihaza, bazi ko ntamakosa yabo. Kuki mvuga amakosa nigihombo? Mackenzie Bezos yarokotse gutandukana, kandi Lorin Powell imirimo yashyinguye uwo bashakanye, nyamara ntabwo ibabuza kubaho mu buzima bwuzuye.
Nishimiye abantu, naho abagore, kuko akenshi nkorana n'abahagarariye uburinganire budakomeye. Kubera imitekerereze yoroheje, amarangamutima yagaragaye yabagore ntatinya kuvuga kubibazo byabo. Kandi, nkuko mubizi, kumenyekana ikibazo ni intambwe iganisha.
Noneho birashimishije cyane kwitabira amahugurwa atandukanye y'abagore. Kubwamahirwe, biratandukanye na we ko nahindutse, ingaruka zigihe gito. Utabonye intandaro yubwigunge cyangwa kurengana bidakira udahinduye iyi gahunda mubyiciro byimazeyo, nta mahugurwa ashobora gufasha, kubwamahugurwa. Gusa akazi k'umuntu ku giti cye, gukinisha kugarura ubuzima bwawe birashobora kuzana ingaruka zifatika.
Nzatanga ingero ebyiri ziva mubikorwa byawe bwite mugihe cyo gukora wenyine byafashije abagore gushaka inzira yo kwishima.
Nubwumvikane, gukuraho inzitizi numuhanda rusange uva kuri "Amatafari yumuhondo", azakuyobora mu byishimo
Ifoto: Ibisobanuro.com.
Umugore ufite imyaka 60, mu rubyiruko rwe yatanye n'umugabo we kandi ntiyagishoboye kubaka umubano ukomeye. Twahindukiriye neza kandi iyo dukorana na we mu myaka iriba, mu nyubako y'abanyeshuri, yakundanye rwihishwa anyura mu masomo ashaje. Igihe cyagendaga, umusore yemeye ko inzu ye yari ategereje inzu ye, iragenda. Ubwumvikane bwamugumye mu buzima bwe. Igihombo cyafunze umutima we, byacitse. Kandi imyaka myinshi ntiyashoboraga gukunda kumutima. Mugihe cyakazi, twashoboye kubona ibyingenzi byibanze, byafashije ubwonko bwubaka inzira yo kwishima. Nyuma yaje gutoza amasura, agarura ubwiza bwuzuye asubiza urukundo rwe.
Umugore ufite imyaka 43 yaje mugihe ikibazo cyumuryango gikaze kijyanye nubuhemu bwuwo mwashakanye. Twatangiye akazi dusanga umuzi wibibazo bifitanye isano nurubanza rwubwana. Akiri umwana, yakunze kubona se mu businzi basinziriye maze akinga imyizerere ko abagabo badashobora kwizerwa. Wari akazi katoroshye, yize ibindi bice byinshi bibi byerekeye imyitwarire yumugabo we, ariko icyarimwe yunvikana aho yari yarateje. Nzi neza ko bazashobora kubabarirana no kugarura umuryango wabo, nkuko babibona aho babuze ubwumvikane.
Niyihe nkuru yawe yose? Ku mwanzuro umwe woroshye. Udahinduye gahunda zangiza muburyo bwo kwigarurira ubwonko, utakaje umuhuzabikorwa ukenewe, umukobwa ukiri muto ntazigera abona umugabo wa miriyoni, umugore ukuze ntazashobora gukomeza umugabo we. Byongeye kandi, akaga nuko uburyo bubi bushobora kwandikirwa abana.
Ntutinye kwibaza. Kandi niba bigoye, shakisha uwafasha kumenya aho nigihe wiziritse imyizerere y'ibinyoma. Ubuvuzi bugamije gukorana nibyiciro, imizi irashobora guhindura ubuzima bwawe ikaba inzira igororotse yo kwishima nubutunzi.