Ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka kugura inshuti nziza, ariko mushiki mukuru arashobora kwihanganira neza uru ruhare. Bikekwa ko abana bakuze akenshi bakunze kuba mutoroherana, birumvikana ko ibyo ari umubare wacyo bwite, kandi nyamara nyuma yababyeyi bigoye kwiyumvisha. Twahisemo kumenya ibyiza bisezeranya kuba mushiki mukuru wa mukuru kandi ukundwa.
Inshuti magara
Uyu mugabo ari kumwe nawe kuva akivuka, arakuzi kuri wewe byose. Niba uhuye nabakobwa mubihe byiza muminsi ibiri, ukoresha hafi igihe na mushiki wanjye, niba uri murugo. Yabonye ingingo nyinshi zivuga ko n'inshuti magara idakeka, bivuze ko ishobora gusangira benshi, udatinya kunegura cyangwa gutenguha.
Ufite imyenda isanzwe
Niba mu bwana igitekerezo ugomba kubungabunga ibintu mu myambaro ya mushiki wawe mukuru, birakaze, noneho usobanukirwe cyane ni koro twashize ari byiza, aho ushobora guhora ubona umukandara wabuze kumyambarire cyangwa akajagari, Bitunguranye bihujwe neza n'amato yawe. Ariko wowe, nawe uhora witeguye "gukingura imiryango" ya Wardrobe yawe, niba mushiki wawe akenewe na blus ya fleare. Byongeye kandi, ntoya iri hagati yimyaka, biroroshye gukora ivunjisha ryimihindagurikire.
Mushikiwabo akunze kuba inshuti nziza
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Azi kwegera ababyeyi
Niba utangiye gusa kugirango "ugaragaze" ababyeyi, menya mugihe ushobora kwegera cyangwa kugerageza gukeka uko bazitabira kimwe cyangwa ikindi gikorwa cyawe, noneho mukuru wawe yamaze kunyura muriyi nzira. Urashobora buri gihe kumuvugisha kugirango ubafashe muri iki kibazo, gushyikirana nababyeyi muriki kibazo biba byoroshye, kuko ufite umujyanama wamakimbirane hamwe na bene wabo.
Ntabwo uri isoni
Nkuko twabivuze, azi ibintu byose kuri wewe, bityo ntibivuka nibwo mushiki wawe ashobora kwiga ikintu kuri wewe, ibyo uzagira isoni. Mubyongeyeho, urashobora kugenda byibuze umunsi wose murugo mumajyambere cyangwa ugakora uburyo bwo kwisiga mugihe cyacyo gihari rwose. Ntabwo ari kumwe na buri mukobwa wumukobwa arashobora kwishyura umudendezo nkuyu.
Ni umujyanama wawe
Niba umwana wenyine mu muryango uzi isi ubufasha bw'ababyeyi, hanyuma gusa binyuze mu nshuti, hanyuma abana bafite bashiki bacu cyangwa abavandimwe bakuze cyangwa abavandimwe babonye amakuru yinyongera. Mushikiwabo akunda ubuhanzi? Uzamenya rero udushya twa muzika kuva mubana na firime Sedavra. Kandi ni byiza niba hari umuntu witeguye kukumurikira.
Ntacyo ahisha
Birashoboka, buri wese muri twe afite inshuti nkizo ukunda gusa nubwiza kubarusha uko ari. Biragoye mukuru wawe azabikora. Avugisha ukuri azavuga ko umugabo wawe atari mwiza cyane ibyo "warashushanyije", kandi iyi myambarire ntabwo yicaye na gato. Ninde ugitegura kwerekana igitekerezo cyawe mu buryo butaziguye?