Ibintu ntibishimishije, ariko, birashobora kubaho kuri buri muntu washatse. Igihugu cyacu gifite kimwe mu myanya minini yo kuba imibare itana: × 58%. Igihugu gifite ubukwe bukomeye ntabwo ari umwaka wambere Ubuyapani ni 26%. Ukurikije imibare, buri mubano wa kabiri urangirira no gutandukana, nubwo ubukwe bwa gatatu bwangiriye indi myaka 10 ishize.
Abahanga mu by'imibereho bato bavuga ko nta kintu gitangaje cyabaye, nyuma yigihe cyaje igihe haje ibisekuruza bya 90 byaje mu gihe cy'abashakanye, kandi tuzi uko umutima utishoboye muri kiriya gihe. Ariko, iyi ntabwo arimpamvu nyamukuru.
Buri muryango, nta gushidikanya, ufite impamvu zayo bwite zo kuruhuka, bityo rero byaba atari byo guhamagara wenyine. Ahari abantu ntibashobora kugwa mubitekerezo kubihe by'amadini, imibereho, politiki, nibindi. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, birashoboka gutandukanya ibyiciro byimpamvu kuturusha:
Ishyingiranwa ryambere ridakunze gutera
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Ubukwe bwambere
Imwe mu mpamvu zikunzwe cyane. Ikigaragara ni uko akiri muto, amahirwe yo kwakira icyemezo kitari cyo kijyanye na mugenzi wawe nicyo kinini. Urubyiruko ntiziyumvire uko umubano w'abakuze hamwe nubuzima buhuriweho, nyuma yibyo biro byiyandikisha haribintu bivumbuwe bike kandi akenshi ntibishimishije cyane. Gugwa Inzozi n'ibiteganijwe akenshi biganisha ku guhagarika umubano wihuse.
Ubuhemu
Impamvu ya kabiri izwi cyane. Kwegera abagabo, niba wemera imibare. Ntabwo buri mugore yiteguye kubabarira umugabo we ibitutsi, ariko byongeramo amarangamutima yumugore, tubona scandal nini nigicapo cyuzuye. Nibyiza, niba ibintu byose bigabanya ubutandukane gusa, akenshi abagore batangira gukurikirana uwahoze ari umugabo, bagerageza kwihorera muburyo butandukanye.
Kugaragara k'umwana buri gihe ari igicucu kinini
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Impinduka zo guhinduka
Shakisha ibyumviro bishya kuruhande. Nyuma yimyaka myinshi yubukwe, abantu baza ubuzima bwapimwe, bityo bamwe boherejwe gukunda ibintu, bibagirwa byimazeyo ingaruka.
Kutanyurwa mu mibonano mpuzabitsina. Iyo ubuzima bwimbitse kubwimpamvu yangirika cyangwa muri rusange abantu batangira "kwicwa", ariko bahita bahuza ihumure mumaboko yo hanze.
Gutandukana bifitanye isano no kuza k'umwana
Ibi bivuga urugero runini kubashakanye bato, ibyo tumaze kuvuga, ntabwo buri gihe tumenya uburemere bwububare bwabashakanye. Abantu bagerageza "kugenda" kuri mugenzi wabo, kandi hagaragaye habaho umuryango mushya uhora uhangayitse. Kubwibyo, benshi, ntibahanganye n'umutwaro wo mu mutwe, bava mu muryango gusa.
Itandukaniro ryinyuguti
Kubura ingingo rusange ni bibi cyane bigira ingaruka ku iyubakwa ry'umuryango uzaza. Ibi ntibisobanura ko umugore agomba gukunda umupira wamaguru mumezi abiri kandi akajya mu mukino wose numugabo we, umugabo gusa ntabwo ategekwa kuba umufana wibikorwa bya kera. Muri iyi miryango ya none, hashimangiwe cyane kubungabunga umwanya wihariye aho birashobora kutumvikana kuri umwe mubashakanye, nibitera gukomera.
Imwe mumpamvu nyamukuru - Ubuhemu
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Ibibazo mubuzima
Nibyo, amasogisi atatanye hirya no hino akunze kuba impamvu nziza yo gutanga icyifuzo cyo gutandukana. Ariko, ahanini, abantu bashoboye kwemeranya no kuba beza ku ifasi imwe, keretse niba tuvuga abasore batari ngombwa.
Ubukwe bworoshye
Gutotezwa ku ntego za Mercantile ntibyigeze bingira nta kintu cyiza. Emera, gushyingirwa, byubatswe kubiteganijwe kubufasha bwamafaranga cyangwa umwuga kubashakanye, ntibishobora kwitwa ubuzima bwiza.
Imibare mike
Reka dusubire mu muyoboro wacu mu mibereho bavuga ko imyaka ifatwa nk'igihe gikomeye cyo gushyingirwa kuva ku myaka 20 kugeza 30. Kandi ikigaragara ni uko umuntu mukuru akunze gusenyuka. Kandi gake, ninde ushoboye kubahiriza ibyo bisabwa.
Kugera kumyaka 50, abagore ni bo batara mu batandukana, mu gihe nyuma ya 50 ibintu bihinduka, kandi abagabo bamaze kwiruka no gusaba. Gutandukana nkuyu gutandukana ni ingirakamaro mubitekerezo bifatika, kuko abana barahaguruka, bityo bidashoboka ko bitagomba kwishyura.