Igihe kimwe habaye ubwoba. Yabayeho - ntiyigeze atera kandi ashimisha uburyo ashobora - kwitondaga. Amaze kwiteranya cyane ku buryo we ubwe yatangiye kugira ubwoba, yahisemo ko bihagije kumarana igihe gito kandi igihe kirageze cyo gusobanukirwa n'ubutumwa bwe bwose. Ubwoba bwagiye mu nzira.
Nyuma yigihe runaka, yahuye numugabo uhagaze kumusozi muremure, agiye gusimbuka ku rutare. Ubwoba bwahisemo guhura, kandi umuntu akimara kumenya ubwoba, amaso ye ahita yuzura ubwoba ku kuba yumva impumuro y'urupfu. Hanyuma usubire inyuma kumusozi.
Hanyuma ubwoba bwishimye. Yatabisobanukiwe - Inshingano ye yo gufasha gushyiramo ibitekerezo byo kwikingira, kubaho n'umutekano.
Kandi kuva icyo gihe ubwoba bwahindutse inshuti yibintu byose bibaho kwisi.
Marina Alyasova, umuhanga mubusabane, Umwanditsi wigitabo "Ntugende, Abakobwa, bashyingiwe ..."
None ubwoba ni iki? Kandi ukeneye kumukemura?
Mubyukuri, ubwoba ni amarangamutima yacu yibanze, inzira y'amarangamutima yavunitse ituburira akaga nyako cyangwa ibitekerezo. Tugomba kumubwira urakoze. N'ubundi kandi, tubikesha ubwoba, turokoka hamwe nawe!
Ariko rimwe na rimwe ubwoba bibangamiye, bivuka mugihe kidakwiye. Rimwe na rimwe, turatsinda, rimwe na rimwe ubwoba buradutsinda. Ariko ubwoba ni amarangamutima yacu kavukire, kandi bigaragara ko duhanganye nawe. Kandi mukurwanya, nkuko mubizi, umwe unaniwe, undi - uwatsinzwe.
Niki? Ndasaba ko hari inshuti. Nigute? Byoroshye!
Ubwa mbere, fata neza ko ubwoba ari umutungo munini ari ngombwa gusa kugirango wige gukoresha.
Icya kabiri, ni ngombwa kumva ubwoba kitinya? Rimwe na rimwe, atinya guhindura imibereho isanzwe. Bigenda bite muri iki gihe?
Igikorwa gishya kigize umuyoboro wicyayi "wibuka" ubuhanga bwo kwitwara. Kandi kugirango uhindure ikintu, ibyaremwe bishya bya Haral birasabwa, kandi kugirango ukureho ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, gusenya ibya kera. Kandi bisaba igihe, kubwimbaraga. Kubwibyo, ku mpinduka nshya, ubwonko bwacu burasubiza binyuze mumubiri nkibibazo, kandi dufite ubwoba.
Nigute ubundi gutinya gushirwa? Hifashishijwe ibitekerezo byacu, ntakintu cyaracyariho, kandi turakeka ko firime iteye ubwoba. Kandi ibi byubatswe imiyoboro ihinduka formature yubwoba. Kandi uburambe bwacu bwashize twagize fiasco.
Niki gukora mugihe wumva ufite ubwoba?
Ikintu cya mbere ndasaba gukora nukumva icyo atinya.
Icya kabiri - Shakisha inkomoko yubwoba mumubiri hanyuma ugitekereho muburyo bwa tangle. Bihinduka bite? Urashobora kuyishushanya ku mpapuro, urashobora kubyara kuzunguruka nu rutoki rwawe. Shakisha iherezo ryurudodo hanyuma utangire udashaka iyi tangle. Nkutitondera, ubwoba buzahinduka buke. Subiramo mubihe bitandukanye kugirango ubwonko bwawe butanga umuyoboro mushya wa 1.
Kugirango ubone ibisubizo, urashobora "guhuza" muriyi nsanganyamatsiko, kurugero, impande. Hamagara kwitonda, kandi azakurinda mubihe bitandukanye byubuzima bwawe: Ubufasha, kurugero, kugirango wubake imiterere ya disikuru rusange kuburyo uzi mugihe. Mugihe cyo gushyikirana nabantu bashya - Wige kumva no kumva imvugo no kutagaragaza ibitekerezo byita ku mutima bishobora kukugirira nabi cyangwa inzira yo kuganira. Mugihe cyingenzi mubuzima bwawe, fata igisubizo nkana kandi cyangiza ibidukikije. Mu mibanire no kwitonda cyane, uzagukiza amakimbirane n'ibirego bitari ngombwa.
Kandi igihe cyose wagiranye rwose kuba witondera ubwawe, kandi ubwoba bwawe - nyuma ya byose, yitaye kumutekano wawe. Hanyuma urugamba n'ubwoba ruzahinduka umukino ushimishije washyizeho amategeko.