Imyaka 10 irashize, igitsina mu bucuti kibonwaga nk'ikintu kitumvikana, ariko ubu arimo kwiyongera kwaramamare atari mu Burusiya, ahubwo no ku isi yose. Nk'uko ubushakashatsi, 55% by'abanyeshuri bemeye ko byibuze rimwe, ariko bafitanye ubunararibonye hamwe n'inshuti cyangwa umukobwa mukundana.
Abayobozi benshi kandi bashishikajwe n'iyi ngingo, barasa gushushanya nk "ubucuti n'imibonano mpuzabitsina" cyangwa "birenze igitsina." Nk'uburyo, muri firime nk'iyi umugambi urambiranye kandi uhanurwa: Abahohotewe binjiye mu ntera bwite, inshuti nyinshi zibona inkunga ziva mu nshuti zimwe zibabaje, kurara hamwe, hanyuma utangire guhura.
Benshi bemera ko igitsina cya gicuti cyagerageje kubanyeshuri
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Mubuzima nyabwo, gushishikarira abantu ntabwo buri gihe bifite ishingiro no gutsindwa nabandi bafatanyabikorwa, ariko muri firime imwe ntibabeshya: igitsina mubucuti nikintu kigoye kandi kitoroshye.
Niki
Imibonano mpuzabitsina ninshuti irashobora kubaho Impamvu zikurikira:
Inshuti zirashaka kugerageza, kwishingikiriza kubyaye bya firime kumutwe nk'uwo.
Gusa igitsina nta mwanzuro. Abantu baryama akenshi, ariko nta bucuti nyabwo hagati yabo.
Mugihe mugihe. Abafatanyabikorwa baganira mbere kugirango babe buriwese inzira mugihe "ubusa" mubuzima bwihariye.
Kwita mu bucuti. Abantu bashaka kujya kurwego rushya mubucuti.
Impanuka. Iyo ikimaba gitunguranye hagati yabantu, kandi basobanukiwe ko guhera ubu nta bucuti.
Kubafatanyabikorwa benshi bakora imibanire yubuntu, gusa igitsina nimpamvu nyamukuru itera guhuza "inshuti". Ibyo ari byo byose, kubagabo, iki kintu gikunze kumenyekana, ariko abagore bakeneye inkunga iyo ari yo yose. Abagore ntibarwanya niba imibonano mpuzabitsina yubusa ishora mubikorwa bikomeye, abagabo babona ko imibonano mpuzabitsina ninshuti ye nkuburyo bwo gusohora nta rundi ruhande.
Hano hari akaga ko gukundana kandi ntubone igisubizo
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Kandi ko bafite ingorane
Ibibazo bitangirirayo, aho umwe mubafatanyabikorwa "inshuti" aba afite umubonano muto gusa. Ntibishoboka rwose guhurira ku ruganda rukomeje mu mibonano mpuzabitsina kandi iki gihe cyose kugira ngo umuntu amenye amarangamutima amwe, iyo umuntu ashaka guteza imbere umubano cyangwa amaherezo akabavuna.
Niki utegereje "gufunga"
Kandi na none, inzobere ziza gutabara hamwe n'ubushakashatsi: Abanyeshuri bagera kuri 30% bavuze ko mu mibanire yabo nta na kimwe cyahindutse, 35% byahagaritse umubano w'imbere, inshuti zisigaye, 10% zaciwe kugira ngo bavugane.
Hano hari amahitamo abiri: waba utandukanye, cyangwa ube couple
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