Mu kiganiro giheruka, twavuze ku mpamvu bigoye kubabarira ababyeyi ukuze. Kandi urenganya rwose gukora ku ngingo nkiyi, igabanya uruhande rwayo ruhindagurika. Ku muntu, ababyeyi ni ibisimba, kandi ku muntu - abamarayika, nta gake. Ideal, idashidikanywaho, urukundo nabakundwa, ibitekerezo byiza kandi bibohore.
Kuba umubyeyi ubwayo, ndashobora kuvuga ko aribyo, birumvikana ko ari inzozi. Inzozi kugirango abana banjye batigeze bampa "konte" amakosa yanjye. Kuri, kubareba, nko mu ndorerwamo y'ububyeyi bwe, nagira ngo: "Ibintu byose byakozwe neza." Ibitekerezo nkibi bidakuze bifasha gutinda imbaraga zo kwicira urubanza.
Ububyeyi bugezweho hamwe niyi myumvire ni ihuriro ryinshi. Guhera utwite, uruhande rwibyishimo ni vino, aryamye kuri nyina na gato - kuri Data. Mu mategeko, uburere, imyitwarire, nyuma, isi yose n'ibikorwa by'umwana byashinje ababyeyi. Societe yateguye. Hamwe n'iterambere rya interineti, ingingo zerekeye icyaha cya ba nyina na ba se zabaye hejuru mu kiganiro. Ibitekerezo na Hesteg, yatangiye gukora impungenge zisekeje ku bana, imyanya ivuga ku bana induru mu ndege, ahitamo gusinzira n'abandi bagenzi, bakunzwe cyane mu mbuga nkoranyambaga. Mu maso ya sosiyete, Mama ntabwo adatunganye , Data ntabwo ari nkibibazo mumico yacu. Nyina uwo ari we wese akora, icyo ari cyo cyose, ku gice runaka cya sosiyete, bizaba ari bibi kandi kuryozwa uburyo bwo kwita ku mwana no kureremba. Kandi ni iki gisigara? Munsi - ba se, ibisiweho?
Umwana akunda ababyeyi be nta shiti, ariko ntabwo ari ngombwa kuyikoresha
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Indorerezi zonyine utazi uburyo gikwiye kuba abana babo bwite. Batsinzwe nubushake bwababyeyi. Ikibabaje cyane, bakunda ababyeyi babo, kandi akenshi ntibibemerera kubona umubyeyi nyawe wamuteye imbere cyangwa ubugome. Ababyeyi igihe kirekire bihagije bakomeza kuba butunganye kubana. Kandi kubwibyo, birababaje, biroroshye gutangira gukoresha, bityo ushishikarize akarengane kambere kwisi yose. Nubwo umubyeyi azi ko afite akajagari kwuzuye mubugambanyi bwe, ubuhemu n'ibinyoma, noneho imbere yumwana, ni gutungana gukora byose kugirango umuryango ukomeze umuryango. Kandi iyo umugabo ahagaritse gushaka amafaranga kandi yita ku miryango, umwana, aramutse agaragaje neza, kuko igihe runaka azabera impuhwe papa, kuko ategereje akazi k'inzozi, kandi ntagambanira umutima ku mirimo idahwitse.
Ibyifuzo ababyeyi kumwana - ibi nibisanzwe. Kuri we, ni archangels, buboherwa imbaraga n'imbaraga, gusohoza ibyifuzo bye n'ibikenewe, cyane cyane iyo akiri muto. Ikibazo kigaragara mugihe ababyeyi batangiye kwagura ibihimbano kwagura umwana wurukundo rwumwana kubayobozi babo.
Ku mwana, ifite ingaruka zikomeye. Gutekereza kumyaka yingimbi byatoranije kugirango byabanje kunegura kandi bihesha urufatiro rwabo, byabonye mumuryango w'ababyeyi, bitsinda ubwigenge bwabo kandi ubwigenge bwabo. Ariko niyihe bunte tuvuga? Nigute ushobora kwigomeka ku cyiza? N'ubundi kandi, ni byiza. Ni iki gishobora kudategura?
Ariko Imvururu zirakenewe kugirango imiterere yuzuye . Ntabwo hashobora kubaho umuntu wigenga utazi kwirwanaho, yishingikiriza ku manza ze akurikira ukuri kwe. Mubisanzwe, ubu buhanga bukorwa mu bwangavu, ariko ntibakorwa na gato niba hari umubyeyi utunganye. Muri iyi myaka ya psychologiya, umuntu yagumye hamwe na mirongo imaze imyaka mirongo itangiye kwigomeka hamwe nabandi bayobozi: abafatanyabikorwa be, abayobozi, abatware, ntabwo ari ubusabane na we. Byose kuko umubyeyi mwiza yifashishije urukundo rw'umwana we, yabagiriye gukodesha kugirango agabanye igitutu cy'icyaha cye. Kandi abana be bakura bashizeho abakobwa babo bitwara nkabakobwa nabasore cumi na batatu, barwanira imbaraga, ndwasha icyizere aho bidakwiye rwose.
Ababyeyi beza ntacyo bafite bwo kunegura. Ariko imvururu zirakenewe kugirango imiterere yumwana
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Kandi birumvikana ko imashini yuzuye isubirwamo mubyegera. Igihe cyose umuntu atatangiye kwanga icyaha cye, agahanwa imbere yimyanya rusange, nibirenze indangagaciro. Uko ababyeyi benshi biga kurera abana, kwishingikiriza ku ndangagaciro, abana bato bagomba gutwara ibicuruzwa byo kwicira urubanza, bityo rero bakaba ubuntu mubuzima bwabo ndetse nukuri. Ukuri kuri kure yicyiza, kandi ko birashimishije.
Ariko Byagenda bite se niba ufite "ibitekerezo"? Imurikagurisha? Tangira kumenyana nawe. Hamwe na bo nondeal. Hamwe nawe ibinyoma, ubugwari, pasiporo, pasiporo, ubudahemu, inyangamugayo, kutihangana, byirengagijwe, byirengagijwe, kandi urebe ibi bisa nababyeyi bawe. Ndetse nuburyo bworoshye kandi bizatangira ko "pome yo mu giti cya pome igwa." Rimwe na rimwe, imyaka irayireka, ariko ntibikenewe rwose. Kubabarana ntibishimishije, ariko umunezero gusa ni ukumenyera nukuri.