Birasa nkibidasanzwe, ariko abantu benshi bakuru batinya abana bato. Byasa naho, ubwo bwoba buturuka he, kubera ko umwana adashobora kudutera ibyago. Ariko, ahubwo, mubyukuri ko umuntu afite ibibazo bidashimishije bishoboka ko umwana muto ashobora kuzana. Kubwibyo kwanga. Kandi birashobora kubaho nubwo abantu bafite abana babo.
Phobia isa ni irihe?
Ubwoba bufite igihe cyabwo - pedophobia. Abantu bahura nindwara nkiyi biragoye kwifatanya nabana bose hamwe nabana: vugana, gukina cyangwa kuzamura. Bigeze aho abantu batangira kwirinda ibinini bisa nabana bato.
Ikibazo cyingenzi abantu mumaso ninkubasha kugira umuryango wabo. Byongeye kandi, icyateye ubwoba bushobora kutumvikana kumuntu: Ashobora gusa kutoroha kuba mucyumba kimwe hamwe numwana.
Ndetse ujugunye amagambo abiri n'umwana uhagaze ku mbaraga zabo nyinshi, kandi amaherezo umwuka uzakomeza kugena: umuntu ararakara, hysteria arashobora kumubaho.
Ndetse imikino hamwe nabana irashobora gutwara umuntu muguhangayika
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Gutinya gutangira he?
Impamvu nyamukuru itera pedophobia ni ihahamuka rya psychologiya kuva mu bwana. Kenshi na kenshi, ibi bibaho hamwe nabantu mumiryango hamwe nabana benshi: ababyeyi bashobora kwita cyane kuri umwe mubana kurusha undi. Bityo rero ubusure. Birasa numuntu kubona umwana uwo ari we wese umunywanyi. Imitekerereze y'abana ntishobora kwibasirwa cyane n'imihangayiko yose no gukangura, bityo inzika zose igihe kirekire gisigaye mu kwibuka umuntu mukuru.
Ubundi buryo: Ababyeyi baragerageza kutabonana numwana warubahwa, kugirango nabo ubwabo batabona imihangayiko, ni ukuvuga ko birinda ibibazo. Kubera iyo mpamvu, umwana uri mu muryango nk'uwo arahingwa atagenzuwe, biganisha ku kwangirika cyane mu mibanire y'abana n'ababyeyi, ndetse bigira uruhare mu gushimangira ubwoba bw'abana.
Gerageza gukora ikibazo hamwe numunywanyi
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Nigute Phobia igaragara?
Niba utari psychologue, biragoye rwose kumenya pedophoba, urashobora kubitekerezaho gusa kubimenyetso bikurikira:
- Impingagihe ihenze;
- Guhagarika guhumeka;
- Umuvuduko ugenda wiyongera;
- Umutwe utangira kuzunguruka;
- Umutimanama;
- Shulpar;
- gutakaza gutakaza ubwenge.
Abana mubyukuri ntacyo bitwaye neza
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PEDHOFHOBIYA ishobora kuganisha kuri iki?
Umugore arashobora gusiga umwana mubitaro byababyeyi.
Kutitabira uruhare mu kurera umwana.
Umuntu ahagarika gushyikirana hamwe ninshuti zifite abana.
Nkuko ubyumva, pedophobia ntishobora kwitwa leta isanzwe, biganisha ku bihe bitandukanye bidashimishije, bityo bikaba bigomba guhangana na psychologue.
Nigute ushobora gutsinda ubwo bwoba?
Mubihe byoroshye, birashoboka kwihanganira iki gihe ubwoba, ariko, niba wumva ko ibintu bivuye, bigisha inama yumunywamvugo. Ibyo ari byo byose, kugirango utangire, utuze hanyuma ugerageze kureba uko ibintu bimeze murundi rufunguzo. Abana mugihe cyo kuba - ibiremwa bitagira ingaruka. Kenshi na kenshi, bagaragaza gutinya abantu bakuru, kugirango rwose utagomba guhagarika umutima imbere yumwana.